It's actually quite tough on the ego, plus I miss those spoon nights with just me and Pooh.My boy cat was obsessed with me, he liked my partner and we got together when Louie was 1 but in older age he became very obsessed with me. I got spoons of him and if I went away even for 1 night he would be happy to see me. I know he loved my partner really but he never showed it. Cleo is the opposite though she's obsessed with him! She follows him around, if he looks out the window she jumps up and looks too, she cuddles him in the morning and when she's woken up from a nap. I get the odd cuddle here and there but I do miss being number 1![]()