I agree with you! there’s a lot about the barkers I don’t like but Wendy does have the kids quite often it’s just not always shown but there’s many times in saffrons vlogs she’ll casually mention her mum is looking after Harlow and lake and sometimes when I feel like being nosy looking at their social media Wendy will post herself looking after the kids and like you said her picking Harlow up from school. There has even been a few nasey family vlogs I’ve seen were Casey is dropping the kids off to his mums and I remember in a video before he hadn’t even called his mum beforehand to see if she could take the kids and he just decided on his way home from somewhere with the kids in the car he was going to stop by his mums hoping she’ll take them and when Wendy opened the door she looked a bit confused as to why he was there. Like you said Wendy and Darren have their own lives too and it’s not their responsibility to be looking after the kids a lot or being full time childcare. I personally think Nicole and Casey can take advantage of Wendy sometimes cause they seem like quite a lazy couple.This.
But also, Wendy does have the kids quite often. She’s always showing them on her stories, picking Harlow up from school, having Lake for the day, all having Sunday roast together etc. But they all have their own lives too, they’re not there to be Casey & Nicole’s full time childcare.
She definitely done that on purpose, she’s always tried to get one over on Nicole imoIt definitely is a girl bc she deleted it!!
If she can keep all saffy B announcements under wraps then she’s not silly in her posting. IdiotGuys Wendy’s last story, the ballon says “baby girl” I think she’s accidentally given gender away!