Personally I think Sarah knows he cheats and allows it to happen. She was a teen mum and looking how she does probable didn’t have much confidence. She even became homeless when Isabelle was little. She thinks Chris is the shit because he is a narcissist and acts like he is the shit. He has fake confidence. Narcissists are very good at manipulation. So she probably thinks it ok if he cheats on her. As long as she is getting money and has a house she doesn’t care. She knows if he left or she left him she would have nothing. She would struggle to meet a decent man with her horrible personality and traits. She is vile and a horrible person too but I think he is worse than her. She has to be shown on the videos to be in control but deep down she knows she isn’t. I mean what grown man goes off skating as much as he does? Nothing wrong in having a hobby. But one that takes you off for days at a time? Not when you have a family. She is one of those people who constantly lives in denial. A compulsive liar who actually believes those lies which is why she gets on with Chris too as he is just as bad. Those kids don’t stand much of a chance of getting out of this family as normal happy people
I agree with some of those points but I think Sarah is the narcissist! I’m convinced she believes she is the best Chris could get ( and knowing what we know about him now she’s not wrong ) !
I think he is the insecure one and that’s why he craves female attention so much to stop him feeling like the slimy creep he knows deep down he is !Sarah really does love herself imo and she doesn’t think he would ever leave !
The reality is if she had been a better human being and left him as soon as she was informed of what he’d been up to with those young girls ) all assuming she’s didn’t already know
) she would not have been able to become so lazy ! she would still be the slim , active , pretty woman she was a few years ago. She would have had the support of the public and her strength could have easily made her much more popular. She would have been a role model for young girls and an example of how to be an independent decent woman ! But we have to factor in her background, her supporting of her sex offender brother, her shunning of her other homeless NON sex offender brother, her lack of support to her sister etc ... ) to me this is all due to the fact that Sarah believes she is SPECIAL she needed what she thinks is the middle class status she thinks Chris family provide because in comparison to her own family that’s how they appear! She went to acting school, she has crazy delusions of grandeur & actually believes her own lies ! She is controlling and manipulate, she has all the character traits of a typical narcissist. She wants to be seen to the outside world as important as she feels she is, she tried to change her accent to blend in with the people she wants to be herself - private schools for her kids , lots of holidays , a bigger and better house , whatever it takes to get her as far away as possible from the family and life she grew up in that was in her opinion way below her entitlement !
But she wants all that without having to do anything to get it and so the lady of the manor needs a man who will do all the things she doesn’t want to do or feels are below her. Chris can do all of those things gladly as it allows him to feel needed and important & especially to have his cake and eat it - a wife and family who rely on him to earn money and clean their house and do all their errands, to laugh at and often belittle - in payment for doing that he gets to run about with young girls , shag whomever he likes , message whom ever he likes but with the one rule ‘DONT GET CAUGHT ! ‘But he did get caught because he got greedy ! He’s a pervert and asking him to control that urge would be no different than asking an alcoholic not to drink ! He won’t ever stop & in time he will be caught again and again and again and if he keeps them all above 16
he will get away Scot free !!!
The only victims in this are the girls / women he preys on !!! She is his enabler ( just like his mother ) and that imo makes them JUST AS BAD AS HIM !!!!!!!!