yeah same, I have been looking at the other thread but it seems to only be (so far as I have seen0 very highly paid women who have had a positive experience, would be interesting to see if there were any other perspectives
Thank you, I'm doing well now and yes I did make money but it wasn't worth it. Yeah there's a few forum sites dedicated to rating escorts and massage parlours and the like. They'd mention things like "the girl was clearly spaced out on drugs", well yeah the reality is that most of them are. The men don't care though, they're in and out in an hour. I pity those men now.
thank you so much for this candid review, I don't know if you hav read the other SW thred here... what do you think is the reason for the different opinions?I head always throought your esperience was the most experience but in the other thradt it is jst very glabourised
You’re better than that, you got out, you’re powerful and can do whatever you want in life always remember that x
All the girls I knew were working by the hour so from my own experience, I'd say that was the most common too. A lot of it goes so unnoticed too. I thought I was in a better situation because I could charge more per hour as I was a UK native (men will pay less for foreign girls because they can get away with it) and not working out of a brothel but really, the men don't care.
If you think of the stereotypical man who would see escorts, that's basically it. They tended to be in their 40s and always married of course. You did get some younger guys who might have been travelling for work and just wanted a bit of company. Not necessarily all sexual, sometimes the men would just want company but to that I always thought, you'd be better off paying for a therapist lol.
I read that thread and honestly think they are making a lot of it up. Quite worrying that you can just post stuff like that and immediately get women replying asking how they can get into it and what websites to go on.
it's funny that men would pay for company like that imo, why not just pay for dinner with a tinder date?
I have heard the same about ruined trust in men from women who worked in pole dancing/strip clubs etc, maybe you are just seeing the worst type of men but it seems that is is just such a cross section that you do lose hope. I have gone out with 3 different men who all admitted to using sex workers when they were single, as did their friends, until meeting people like this I really had no idea it was so common among (relatively) young peopleA friend of mine used to work in a travelodge type hotel in central london and he said the majority of bookings were just for a few hours, not nights, either people having affairs or escorts. I know that people I know (men, obviously) in lounges of expensive hotels have often been approached by escorts. The more I think about it, and reading these threads, I cannot believe I didn;t realise how prevalent it is!
I think a lot of wealthy families like to stay together just for the lifestyle and things like this are just turned a blind eye to tbh. If you can live in a big house with lots of space ultimately you don;t need to spend much time together if you don;t want, it can be just convenient to do so
Yes 100%. We need to be realistic and understand that it is NOT empowering. How can it be when you're charging a man £150 for full access to your body for one hour. I know people will say "ah but if men are willing to pay for sex then you should make the most of it". I mean... the money isn't an issue for these guys. and at the end of the day, they're the ones going back to well-paid jobs in positions of power.
Yep it's crazy. I remember Village Hotel was a popular hotel chain for escorts. I avoid the place like the plague now
100% agree about the entitlement, my ex (who i have stated used escorts often) when we spoke about his ex dates complained about them not wanting to sleep with him immediately. Honestly, I usually do sleep with someone immiediately but this is a personal decision, obviously, and he didn't seem to get why, for various reasons, women often don't do this, for safety reasons or otherwise. His attitude, looking back, was very much "I have bought her dinner so why wouldn't she?"To be blunt, I think the simple reason why men use escorts is because they feel entitled to women. A lot of them just wanted oral sex (and none of them were particularly good when it came to sex) because their "wife wouldn't do it anymore". It's disgusting. Usually wives are busy taking care of the household plus holding down a full time job without any support from their useless husband who is usually oblivious to what their wife does for them and their home. But at the same time, I think a lot of wives turn a blind eye to it and actually live quite separate lives.
I know I've painted this as depressing and a lot of the time it was, lol, but sometimes I had to laugh at the state of these men!! I mentioned the forums that punters would use to rate escorts and it's like, have these guys looked in a mirror recently? Sometimes you'd get the odd attractive guy but for the most part, it's balding, slightly overweight, cringey guys in their 40s. They make no effort with their appearance but you'd get critisised for being a size 12 when you "claimed to be a size 10"
Yes 100%. We need to be realistic and understand that it is NOT empowering. How can it be when you're charging a man £150 for full access to your body for one hour. I know people will say "ah but if men are willing to pay for sex then you should make the most of it". I mean... the money isn't an issue for these guys. and at the end of the day, they're the ones going back to well-paid jobs in positions of power.
Yep it's crazy. I remember Village Hotel was a popular hotel chain for escorts. I avoid the place like the plague now
