The fashionable pan

[Gemmab78]

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First time posting.I've contemplated it many times but was worried I will expose my relative who herself is an influencer within the same circles as the baby shower crew and has socialised with them at events,drinks etc. I can't reveal too much but she's more friendlier with two of the six in the group than the others and I've seen WhatsApp messages they've shared.
After baby shower gate I've been patiently waiting for Debs to take ownership as she was the hostess. Safe to believe it's never going to happen now.
These are six truly insecure women who spend more hours in front of mirrors preening and taking selfies,planning staged fake photo shoots in their homes and sending email after email to companies offering to promote goods if said goods are gifted than they do with their little darlings.
They weren't lying when they said it's hard work and it's stressful.It takes a toll on relationships being so insecure.
Poor partners, imagine having to live with them.
I can tell you now that two of the six partners in the words of Debs are lighting candles but away from home!
I know this how? Because my relative is still lighting candles with one of them at their day time liaisons!
Granted not as frequently with covid but she's in no hurry to give up her day time fun up and neither is he.
Not my place to judge as she's single and he's an adult with full autonomy.
Another nugget is several influencers have effectively iced this group out due to their crassness.

 

[OneLineResponse]

I think her days now are numbered so she’s going down grabbing it all... sad thing is she won’t be remembered for what she had. Just how she made people feel and her kids will grow up with resentment. I’ve seen it in friends who have a phone addiction and neglected their kids who are now late teens and said their mum ruined their childhood as all she did was go on her phone. I do hope Debbie reads this. Also her mentioning suicide was so wrong ! It was not relevant to her posts she did it to silence any one who wanted to still pull her on the social distancing and get praise from her sheeple. Shame on her as she is nullifying suicide . This woman doesn’t have an ounce of sense. Was she truly a buyer ? As she seems absolutely thick and I doubt could hold down any job. If she has come through refugee camps then shame on her as what a greedy entitied person she’s turned into !

Someone I follow suggested anyone posting about contemplating suicide should have their accounts postponed and investigated. Not a good "influencer" at all.

 

[Rainbowsandglitter]

Well she is obviously reading Tattle . Why read it after saying they don’t care what people say . Slight oxymoron I feel . ( You may need to look that big word up FP ) Change into a better, more moralistic person who cares for people and the environment. As currently you’re a beg and grab everything as if you were a contestant on supermarket sweep. Then we wouldn’t have a need to critique you and let everyone know that you’re not as nice as you make out. We aren’t being mean. We’re only pointing out that you’re not being a very nice person and this act you portray is exactly that.. An act !

 

[Rosé_all_day]

I always think what example do these influencers set for their children? If you want something just ask and ye shall receive?! And not to mention the amount of time she must be on her phone. She’s take take take! The Liberty dress she received is very pretty for summer but way out of my price range and many other peoples I am sure. What does she do with these clothes once she has finished with them/worn them once?!

 

[motherofdonkeys]

Had to laugh at one of the quotes she's posted this morning "Their opinions don't pay your bills". Errrr, they kind of do if you earn an income via affiliate links and want brands to work with you. Brands don't like it when social media influencers drop a clanger, MOD = hot brick, ring any bells?

If she is reading, please feel free to post publicly the Government advice as of the date of the baby shower that informed you what you were doing was ok to go ahead.

 

[gossipwithG]

Her husband is a really lovely guy (so I hear) but he’s clearly been brain washed by his wife “free tit” ethos!

Answer = D
Only on a Saturday during a global pandemic when you can drink rosè with your pregnant friend and host a party inside your house, sticking two fingers up to the entire country, our NHS and the Government!

 

[motherofdonkeys]

It's not just the baby shower, there was the press trip day out and a trip to the beach, none involved social distancing, they were all photographed close together as a group for the gram. All she needs to do is one simple thing and look at what she did objectively instead of behaving like a petulant brat. She's totally missing the point, as an influencer, she influencers her audience to make purchases based on her recommendations, as an influencer, she's also repeatedly set an example that the lockdown rules mean nothing and social distancing is something trolls have invented to spoil her fun.

 

[Libbub]

I always think what example do these influencers set for their children? If you want something just ask and ye shall receive?! And not to mention the amount of time she must be on her phone. She’s take take take! The Liberty dress she received is very pretty for summer but way out of my price range and many other peoples I am sure. What does she do with these clothes once she has finished with them/worn them once?!

Sells them apparently. Some even still have the labels attached.

 

[Rainbowsandglitter]

Sells them apparently. Some even still have the labels attached.

That’s got to be something the tax man would be interested in. Also she’s not been savvy enough to set up a Ltd company. So she’s either evading tax or she’s stupidly set up a business with no limited liability. Silly silly girl either way.

 

[fedupfatty]

It's not just the baby shower, there was the press trip day out and a trip to the beach, none involved social distancing, they were all photographed close together as a group for the gram. All she needs to do is one simple thing and look at what she did objectively instead of behaving like a petulant brat. She's totally missing the point, as an influencer, she influencers her audience to make purchases based on her recommendations, as an influencer, she's also repeatedly set an example that the lockdown rules mean nothing and social distancing is something trolls have invented to spoil her fun.

Totally agree - sadly people look at influencers as a guide & with the government sending out such mixed guidance people will see what is happening on these accounts & use it as a benchmark - they have a responsibility to be mindful of their influence not just use it to bag freebies

 

[HerezPilton]

More please!

 

[HerezPilton]

I always think what example do these influencers set for their children? If you want something just ask and ye shall receive?! And not to mention the amount of time she must be on her phone. She’s take take take! The Liberty dress she received is very pretty for summer but way out of my price range and many other peoples I am sure. What does she do with these clothes once she has finished with them/worn them once?!

Debs loves those regular trips to Brighton,plenty of second hand clothes shops to offload.Then you have the EBay account set up in some one elses name not to mention the places in Kent she off loads them too also.
Tags are always left on the clothes for the photo's for the gram,resale revenue covered.

 

[Birdofprey]

Is she? Have you met her? I thought she might be when she was going off on one because an elderly couple was giving her the death stare and got up and moved when she took her kids into a coffee shop or restaurant. She was very mouthy about it and was telling how she was deliberately being nasty towards them, and I thought hmmmm now there's a side she usually keeps hidden.

She does sell her free stuff online -which influencers Are not allowed to do.
But all makes sense now - as I wondering how this woman could afford a 5k Rolex watch she happily flashed on her insta page a few months ago.

 

[motherofdonkeys]

There seem to be a few newish members popping up on this and the Ivy Coco threads since baby shower gate, new members who seem in the know, my spidey senses are twitching that the new members are possibly influencers themselves who perhaps are not keen on this particular group? Just a guess.

Debs seemed on a mission prove how great her relationship is yesterday, keen to make it known out of the 6, it's not her man who is 'lighting candles away from home'

 

[HerezPilton]

There seem to be a few newish members popping up on this and the Ivy Coco threads since baby shower gate, new members who seem in the know, my spidey senses are twitching that the new members are possibly influencers themselves who perhaps are not keen on this particular group? Just a guess.

Debs seemed on a mission prove how great her relationship is yesterday, keen to make it known out of the 6, it's not her man who is 'lighting candles away from home'

@motherofdonkeys Let's just say part of your first sentence is 100% accurate, I am in the know. My close relative is rather prominent in the influencer world. From her and confirmed other sources, I have it on authority that not all is what it seems with baby-gate crew. Candles are being lit away from home. As mentioned earlier, she is seeing one of them and personally knows another female who is also having her little trysts. Clearly these men and their egos have a thing for influencers. The irony of this, baby-gate crew created their own monsters by introducing their partners to these women.

Believe you and me I have plenty of nuggets but I have to be careful, for reasons above, not to reveal too much. I will leave you with one to get through Monday: Baby-Gate crew need to learn to keep their voices down when sharing bathroom cubicles at PR events, as they never know who is listening whilst at the mirror touching up their makeup. On this particular incident, it happened to be the head of an agency - who heard it all.

 

[Rainbowsandglitter]

She does sell her free stuff online -which influencers Are not allowed to do.
But all makes sense now - as I wondering how this woman could afford a 5k Rolex watch she happily flashed on her insta page a few months ago.

You mean a pub landlord watch. The most crass of any high end watch manufacturer! She could at least have got a Cartier tank!! Mind, chavs aren’t aware of what’s classy . They just want to emulate what they think is rich . Sophistication can’t be bought.

There seem to be a few newish members popping up on this and the Ivy Coco threads since baby shower gate, new members who seem in the know, my spidey senses are twitching that the new members are possibly influencers themselves who perhaps are not keen on this particular group? Just a guess.

Debs seemed on a mission prove how great her relationship is yesterday, keen to make it known out of the 6, it's not her man who is 'lighting candles away from home'

I noticed that too... me thinketh the lady ( used loosely) protesteth too much. If you’re having a love affair with your mirrors and your phone your partner will obviously get cheesed off and some may seek solace else where. There’s an easy work around. Drop the phone and mirrors, unless their Instagram following is more important than their other halves ... which is how it seems for most these days, even the kids get a back seat !

 

[gossipwithG]

All starting to make sense now. I did think she was going overboard on the 'Hubby' posts yesterday, also ever notice how obsessed she is with letting her following know that he can't keep his hands off her? Perhaps aimed at someone in particular?
I always thought it bizarre that she feels the need to self-validate by asserting that he is her 'Hubby', even though there's been no proposal.

Guess we now are getting a sense for why she is planning on the entire wedding being #Ad #Gifted. She wouldn't want to waste that hard earned cash.... *Sorry I rephrase* ....Hard-earned Ebay fund from all her PR gifted clothes.

 

[Simbama12]

All starting to make sense now. I did think she was going overboard on the 'Hubby' posts yesterday, also ever notice how obsessed she is with letting her following know that he can't keep his hands off her? Perhaps aimed at someone in particular?
I always thought it bizarre that she feels the need to self-validate by asserting that he is her 'Hubby', even though there's been no proposal.

Guess we now are getting a sense for why she is planning on the entire wedding being #Ad #Gifted. She wouldn't want to waste that hard earned cash.... *Sorry I rephrase* ....Hard-earned Ebay fund from all her PR gifted clothes.

Whaaaat they aren’t actually married? why does she call him hubby?

 

[motherofdonkeys]

Baby-Gate crew need to learn to keep their voices down when sharing bathroom cubicles at PR events, as they never know who is listening whilst at the mirror touching up their makeup. On this particular incident, it happened to be the head of an agency - who heard it all.

lol, love it, serves them right

 

[Rainbowsandglitter]

By debbie le beggy is laying on thick her freebie gloating today isn’t she? Next beauty gift and jo malone gifts.. I do hope you’re noting these gifts Debbie as the tax man will want to know what you’ve accepted this year gift wise as well as monies ! as for me I earn a good income so I buy my own things. Wouldn’t go for Jo malone though , far too common. No doubt she will have it on eBay or gum tree or the like soon . Shame on next for supporting these greedy women . I’ve not shopped at next for around 3 or 4 years on account of them supporting influencers. To me it’s worse than my money being used to support those out of work. I’d rather give to the needy not the greedy