The DIS Unplugged #7 Congrats Pete on having great Chinese food

[justthisonce]

Hi everyone,

Sorry I’ve been quiet lately. As you can imagine, this whole story coming out can be a little overwhelming for me at times. I want all of you to know I am doing ok. I’m seeking out therapy. And you all, my friends, family and my wife are standing by my side. Thank you all again for your support.

I’ve discovered new information today. If you read my story, you know that I was incredibly drunk in Hawaii and awakened to Pete performing oral sex on me.
I’ve just been told that Pete admitted that I was drugged by him. He slipped something into my drinks that night. The following morning I felt incredibly hung over and intense shame and guilt. I’ve searched my memories and feelings. And while I don’t not remember this happening. It makes absolute sense and is more than within the realm of possibility.

Pete was just starting a relapse and had countless prescription drugs anyways. I do not know what he put in my drink. But I know now why I had even less control than normal.

This was not the only time. I’ve been told that the first several times we were physical, I was drugged. This was done so that I could not say I wanted out. If I tried to say I wasn’t into it… Pete could point back to handfuls of times that I “was into it.”

This is how he created a relationship with a straight man (in addition to every other horrible thing in my story.)

This information is new and raw. I’m still processing it. I cried when I heard it. But I’m going to be ok. I never want anything like this to ever happen to anyone ever again!

Dustin

 

[justthisonce]

Hi friends,

I’m still processing everything that has been revealed today. It’s been unfortunate timing with John’s statement on behalf of the company.

I will say there’s one thing that bothers me beyond everything. We keep squabbling amongst ourselves. We keep pointing blame to everyone else. We keep looking at excuses and accusations for everyone on the team.

While the nuance of inter company politics is very complicated, I want to redirect our focus. And I hope you’ll join me.

Can I make a bold statement? Pete Werner drugged and raped me. Let’s focus our anger on this man. He has resigned from all related positions of power he once held. But I can no longer tolerate his ability to escape this.

This man is the reason we’re having these conversations. If only for my sake, I beg you to redirect all anger, sadness, and hatred to this man.

Dustin

 

[Disscot]

Charles Boda just commented on DIS boards supporting Dustin this is insane.

From Dis Boards - By Charles Boda here:

Pete confessed to me the truth of what he did to you after almost two years of villainizing you as the one who "broke his heart." Here is how that played out:

As most DIS fans know, I have a felony. What they don't realize is that the "domestic partner" everyone thinks I stabbed was actually an abusive roomate who drugged my drinks and sexually assaulted me. We were never in a relationship, and although I suspected he was obsessed with me, I wasn't entirely aware of the assaults until he showed me pictures of them. I vomitted. The next time he put his hands on me I defended myself. My abuser even tried to visit me in jail to get me to move back into the apartment we shared. Instead, I became homeless but my abuser continued to stalk me for months.

Cut to a few years later. I was living in Pete's spare bedroom and working for the DIS. Pete was my sponsor in an addiction recovery program. He was sitting in his office with me and explained his true behavior to you in some detail. No one else on staff knew, and they likely believed his fictional account of how you "broke his heart."

I told Pete what he did to you was essentially what my abuser did to me. Pete replied that he decided to be my sponsor (after initially thinking I was hot and then finding out I was straight) because helping me would be making amends for what he did to you. This was an emotionally damaging revelation (I was his penance for abusing someone else) and I felt like a fool for letting another abuser get close to me. I did not give him the judgement-free response he thought he was owed. After 3 days of checking my bathroom for hidden cameras (he admitted he had used them before), I moved out of the house but could not afford to quit the DIS.

I continued working and tried not to focus on what I knew about him. I didn't want to be homeless again after so much work turning my life around. I was scared and confused. Eventually, on a trip to DL, I lwt Pete know I was upset that he was involved in fat-shaming Kevin and John at a work dinner without them present. Pete does not accept any criticism from anyone, so he immediately cut me off from certain jobs responsibilities. I spoke with my girlfriend about his behavior when I got home and she helped me confrot what I'd been trying to block out the entire time. Pete is a narcissistic sexual predator who controls eveyone he knows, friends, family, employees, by getting them on his payroll somehow and using his money to exert power over them. Things that were treated normal by Pete ("take close-up pictures of that hot singer at at Tiana's Place, I'm gonna ask the Maitre D' if I can get a private meeting. They know who I am here.) that we'd just avoid and get back to our real work suddenly couldn't be avoided.

Once I faced that reality, I couldn't pretend anymore. I couldn't even look Pete in the face without revulsion. I refused to be controlled, left the DIS, and went freelance.

I internally debated coming out openly about what I had learned, but telling my story meant telling yours. I didn't think it was right to bring you into a public discussion. The internet can be very cruel and victimshaming.

Please forgive my lack of communication, but I have a lot of PTSD about what happened to me by my abuser and then Pete's confession after years of lying to me to gain my trust.

While working for the DIS I loved my job and my coworkers. Few people enabled Pete, most folks were just controlled or extorted by him. There are a lot of victims to go around.

I don't know if this reply will see the light of day. Life has been much more healthy and happy since I left the DIS. I don't want to open up Pandora's box of internet cruelty. Even if I have, I guess it's important to remember what was at the bottom of that mythical box after all the negative forces were set loose on the world: Hope.

I hope you're well. I hope you forgive my silence. I hope someone, somehow, learns from this.

TLDR: I knew, Pete confessed to me, I'm sorry

 

[The Mando]

GODDD he's such a piece of shit!

He is. My dad was not a great person and he grew up in a bad home life as a kid.

When I was a kid, he converted to Christianity and he’s the only person I’ve ever known who I truly believe changed.

I know everyone has their own beliefs about God, the afterlife or Christianity and a religion and I struggle with it myself as a gay person but before he died, Pete bought my dad an iPad and set it up with my login stuff.

When my dad opened it, it had all the things that Pete had been sending me and my dad was furious. He was the first family member I had that found out. When he was going into hospice he asked me if I wanted him to kill Pete since he was dying anyway. I told him that I didn’t believe Pete’s life was worth his soul and that I could handle it someday.

And this is the first time I’ve really dealt with that. I haven’t had a lot of love in my life and I wasn’t close to my dad, but my dad was willing to risk his soul to stop that man for me and after he died, Pete asked me what my dad thought of him and I told him he liked him because I was afraid.

I wish so badly that I told him that my dad was willing to kill him for me and that he was the only one who knew and had my back in the whole thing.
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I know how it all sounds and it’s really awful, but I am rooting for him to get better. I hope he does.

 

[justthisonce]

Hi all! Glad to be here in Part 7 of this crazy story!

 

[DISbored]

Dis Unplugged #8: Charles in Charge

 

[The Mando]

From Dis Boards - By Charles Boda here:

Pete confessed to me the truth of what he did to you after almost two years of villainizing you as the one who "broke his heart." Here is how that played out:

As most DIS fans know, I have a felony. What they don't realize is that the "domestic partner" everyone thinks I stabbed was actually an abusive roomate who drugged my drinks and sexually assaulted me. We were never in a relationship, and although I suspected he was obsessed with me, I wasn't entirely aware of the assaults until he showed me pictures of them. I vomitted. The next time he put his hands on me I defended myself. My abuser even tried to visit me in jail to get me to move back into the apartment we shared. Instead, I became homeless but my abuser continued to stalk me for months.

Cut to a few years later. I was living in Pete's spare bedroom and working for the DIS. Pete was my sponsor in an addiction recovery program. He was sitting in his office with me and explained his true behavior to you in some detail. No one else on staff knew, and they likely believed his fictional account of how you "broke his heart."

I told Pete what he did to you was essentially what my abuser did to me. Pete replied that he decided to be my sponsor (after initially thinking I was hot and then finding out I was straight) because helping me would be making amends for what he did to you. This was an emotionally damaging revelation (I was his penance for abusing someone else) and I felt like a fool for letting another abuser get close to me. I did not give him the judgement-free response he thought he was owed. After 3 days of checking my bathroom for hidden cameras (he admitted he had used them before), I moved out of the house but could not afford to quit the DIS.

I continued working and tried not to focus on what I knew about him. I didn't want to be homeless again after so much work turning my life around. I was scared and confused. Eventually, on a trip to DL, I lwt Pete know I was upset that he was involved in fat-shaming Kevin and John at a work dinner without them present. Pete does not accept any criticism from anyone, so he immediately cut me off from certain jobs responsibilities. I spoke with my girlfriend about his behavior when I got home and she helped me confrot what I'd been trying to block out the entire time. Pete is a narcissistic sexual predator who controls eveyone he knows, friends, family, employees, by getting them on his payroll somehow and using his money to exert power over them. Things that were treated normal by Pete ("take close-up pictures of that hot singer at at Tiana's Place, I'm gonna ask the Maitre D' if I can get a private meeting. They know who I am here.) that we'd just avoid and get back to our real work suddenly couldn't be avoided.

Once I faced that reality, I couldn't pretend anymore. I couldn't even look Pete in the face without revulsion. I refused to be controlled, left the DIS, and went freelance.

I internally debated coming out openly about what I had learned, but telling my story meant telling yours. I didn't think it was right to bring you into a public discussion. The internet can be very cruel and victimshaming.

Please forgive my lack of communication, but I have a lot of PTSD about what happened to me by my abuser and then Pete's confession after years of lying to me to gain my trust.

While working for the DIS I loved my job and my coworkers. Few people enabled Pete, most folks were just controlled or extorted by him. There are a lot of victims to go around.

I don't know if this reply will see the light of day. Life has been much more healthy and happy since I left the DIS. I don't want to open up Pandora's box of internet cruelty. Even if I have, I guess it's important to remember what was at the bottom of that mythical box after all the negative forces were set loose on the world: Hope.

I hope you're well. I hope you forgive my silence. I hope someone, somehow, learns from this.

TLDR: I knew, Pete confessed to me, I'm sorry

People can judge me all they want for what I’m about to say but I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Charles is an absolute piece of shit.

Charles met Pete before I came in the picture and he did everything he could to make my life as difficult as possible. He judged my past. He trashed my name to everyone that would listen and he admits he knew the entire time what Pete did to Dustin.

He addressed only Dustin, which isn’t a shock because he actively knew what was happening to me at the very time he worked there and he stuck around because it benefitted him and he’s coming forward now because the tide already turned because I spoke up.

He knew he lived, befriend and supported and active rapist. He knew I was an escort that was struggling just like himself and he threw me to the wolves to better himself. He judged me, trashed me, and tried to get me fired with every breath he took, the entire time I was there.

I am sorry that his roommate hurt him. I really am. But for everyone out there who says ‘ryno, Craig, Corey’ or whoever ‘knew’ - Charles admits he knew. That was at the beginning of me showing up. He didn’t help me, he didn’t try to stop, he just joined Pete and hated my guts. Even now, he believes Dustin, not both.

 

[TheCodeMan95]

Okay everyone...here's the Wiki page: https://tattle.life/wiki/the-dis-unplugged/

Go forth and populate!

Hey all - so I'm speaking on behalf of JenniLynn here.

I don't know how to edit the Tattle wiki, but she has seen what it says and she's asking for it to be corrected. She did not steal anything from Pete.

Due to capacity of the site she's been unable to create her own account.

Attached are the messages and screenshots she sent me. If someone can go on the Wiki and correct it, it would be greatly appreciated by her!

She also indicated that she does not want people to get distracted by things like this and to focus on the more important things happening now.

 

[DISbored]

Sean Faulk. You did it. You defeated this horrible person who made your life and others horrible. You should be proud of your self what you and Dustin did took so much guts and courage. Congratulations.

 

[The Mando]

I felt that I couldn’t think any less of Pete. Now let’s add blackmail. What else is there? He is utter filth.

Sean, I am so sorry and I hope that your dear dad recovered from his cancer. Talk about smacking someone when they are down. Pete is vile. I’m sure he wanted all the head pats for buying a car. I’m so disgusted.

He did not make it through that actually, he passed in May of 2019. He had cancer for several years and they couldnt find the source, he was told if he stopped radiation that he would have 6 months and he had reached his limit of what was allowable for a person so he opted to stop everything. I let Pete know in April of that year that I would be taking some time after because he was entering end of life hospice and attached is the result of that breakdown.

 

[erikaelvis]

Johns statement reads like “you wanted a statement, here’s your f***ing statement”. Maybe he’s more like Pete than we thought.

 

[The Mando]

As I’ve said before, Charles was Pete’s confidant that he actively lived with.

Charles was the right hand ear of Pete’s and wanted me out of the picture, for what? To support a predator? To support someone he says he thought would film him going to the bathroom?

This man who admits to being homeless, knew I was escorting to get by and he looked his nose down on me and was fine to let me get assaulted again and again. And I’m not even shocked. Charles knew the whole time, ‘couldn’t afford to quit’, and now is coming forward when it’s safe and only supports Dustin.

He’s the coward I always knew he was.

I can’t wait for this to just be an anecdotal blip in my life.

 

[C-Diddy Dawg]

 

[RescueRanger]

Got to give Fiasco credit for this one. I’m not sure timeline wise but was this right after he left the evil emperor?

 

[The Mando]

Is there a way in your MLS to do a quick check on the total amount of encumbrances on his house? House is maybe worth $600,000?

His house wouldn’t sell anywhere close to $600,000. He might could get $450,000 at most imo.

There’s a comp nearby that sold at $580k but it’s is completely renovated and has a pool and a backyard. Another sold at $510k and isn’t quite as nice but is way nicer than Pete’s and is over 1/2 an acre of land.

Pete’s house hasn’t really had updates since the early 2000s. He did do an extension but that was a mess because the roof didn’t get pitched. Then the garage is the office so that would need to be converted back. 2 of the 4 bedrooms had the walls torn down to make the studio so that would need to be fixed. Plus Pete smokes inside so that’s going to offput people right off the bat. It would be a tough sell imo.

As far as mortgage the original loan amount was $204k, 30 years in 2003. He took out a second loan for $234k in 2018, 20 years. So there actually is a chance that he currently owes more money on his loan than he did 30 years ago.
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Speaking of real estate. I am getting ready to start doing shows again. Real Estate has been a huge challenge and a very long drama over the last year, but I just mentally couldn't do videos when I first ventured out on my own. September of last year when I left, I just had a breakdown and the events of the last 5-7 years of my life hit me like a ton of bricks. It's why I started therapy. It was like being in a disaster but having to hold strong during and then it's over and you just get to fall apart. It took me a long time to mentally come back as much as I have. I remember I would be going to showings and I would literally just sit in my car crying until my buyers would show up and I didn't even know why. I would randomly just start having panic attacks and sobbing uncontrollably. It felt like I was just white knuckling it through life, but I am doing better now.

One of my biggest blocks was filming shows. Everytime I would try to think of topics, my brain was just fried and I couldn't focus on any single task. I then would try to record and just start having anxiety to the point my mouth was so dry I couldn't talk. But time has passed and I do intend to get back into doing real estate videos again, but I am going to practice with some different shows in the meantime, just to get back to being on camera and getting comfortable again. So I will make a new channel and keep it private more than likely and record the London/Paris story there because I need to work on audio, editing, lighting etc anyway and I can kill 2 birds with one stone. (Im not making it to actively use, it's just going to be a practice thing)

 

[The Mando]

JL has reached out to me and I’ve literally never met her (until later today) and has been supportive. She actively tried to not get her story told to not take away from others, but had no choice because of the wiki. Charles is no JL.

 

[DISbored]

I hope we never lose sight of one thing… it was all started by a Faulk!

 

[PoorKid]

"Your business partner and ex-boyfriend just got accused of raping employees. What are you going to do next?"

"I'm going to Disneyland!"

 

[minimax]

Hi friends,

I’m still processing everything that has been revealed today. It’s been unfortunate timing with John’s statement on behalf of the company.

I will say there’s one thing that bothers me beyond everything. We keep squabbling amongst ourselves. We keep pointing blame to everyone else. We keep looking at excuses and accusations for everyone on the team.

While the nuance of inter company politics is very complicated, I want to redirect our focus. And I hope you’ll join me.

Can I make a bold statement? Pete Werner drugged and raped me. Let’s focus our anger on this man. He has resigned from all related positions of power he once held. But I can no longer tolerate his ability to escape this.

This man is the reason we’re having these conversations. If only for my sake, I beg you to redirect all anger, sadness, and hatred to this man.

Dustin

Absolutely.
Understood.

Pete Werner is without a doubt, a God Damn Monster.
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Tyler from the Disneyland DIS sounding off now...

He confirmed exactly what I had thought in a former thread. That he wouldn't take Pete's shit and he pushed back. Looks like it cost him his job.
Good for him.

 

[The Mando]

I mean I get it, but I think a big wound that never healed just got ripped open by Charles. Pshew.

I can understand to a degree not wanting to lose your income but even when he quit over 4 years ago, he didn’t say anything. What did he have to lose then?

Bye guys, ‘btw Pete drugs and rapes people’ or a friendly ‘don’t let your children use the bathrooms during the Christmas party!’

But no. It’s ‘I left because Pete called John and Kevin fat and I won’t Stand for that’