I am sorryI have been taking 50mg of sertraline for a few months after my anxiety got worse following a breakup. We were on/ off and now we have finally broke up for the last time and I feel like I want to die. I feel so bad for feeling like this because I’m usually such a happy person. I wouldn’t do it because I love my family too much but I really would rather not be here.
Are you able to arrange some kind of companionship, if you aren’t able? I’m thinking perhaps a daily walk with a friend or carer, even if a short stroll to get fresh air and have a change of scenery. Daylight at this time of year especially may help at least delay the desire to go back to bed. The use of alcohol is worrying too. It sounds like they are struggling, and you are so kind to care the way you do.Hi! New here, I have a wonderful elderly relative who is physically very fit but suffers from depression, but I have noticed they are going back to bed soon after they wake up (I go to give them breakfast and make sure they take their tablets now). Can any of you give me any advice on how to encourage them not to go back to bed, I suggest the radio or reading a book, but I feel out of my depth in what I can suggest/what may help. They lost their partner 7 years ago and know they are drinking alcohol more, and earlier in the day. I feel so helpless and they are so amazing I hate seeing them like this.
Are you in the UK? Your uni almost certainly has mental health services available! I really recommend you look in to it. Often they are free or very low cost. Also congratulations on staying sober for 9 months. That's an amazing achievement. I'm glad you had a good Christmas & Birthday too! Happy Birthday!I’m 20 and have been struggling with constantly feeling sad since I was around 13. I used to use sh as a release but have managed to stay sober for nearly 9 months now. However I still feel really bad sometimes and struggling to find other ways of coping. My parents found out about it when I was 17 and I went to 2 counselling sessions before stopping because my dad kept shouting at me after for not tell him what I’d talked about. Our relationship is a lot better now and I’ve had the best Christmas and birthday in years. However things he said, and other incidents that caused me to feel down still play on my mind and keep me up at night. Sometimes I’ll just be sitting having a nice evening with my family and I’ll find my mind wondering to things I did and how they reacted. I do wish I could talk to someone but am unsure about how to do so. I still live at home and am a student so rarely leave my house unless it’s for university.
Age UK has lots of advice on supporting elderly family members dealing with low mood/loneliness.Hi! New here, I have a wonderful elderly relative who is physically very fit but suffers from depression, but I have noticed they are going back to bed soon after they wake up (I go to give them breakfast and make sure they take their tablets now). Can any of you give me any advice on how to encourage them not to go back to bed, I suggest the radio or reading a book, but I feel out of my depth in what I can suggest/what may help. They lost their partner 7 years ago and know they are drinking alcohol more, and earlier in the day. I feel so helpless and they are so amazing I hate seeing them like this.
im so sorry, i am in the samesituation regarding a break up. it is the first feeling. sounds ridículous but if you can i would get a pet, i think having my cats to look after has basically saved me . wishkng you all the bestI have been taking 50mg of sertraline for a few months after my anxiety got worse following a breakup. We were on/ off and now we have finally broke up for the last time and I feel like I want to die. I feel so bad for feeling like this because I’m usually such a happy person. I wouldn’t do it because I love my family too much but I really would rather not be here.
How long have you been up? It takes a while to adjustI went up to 150mg Sertraline as 100 was ineffective and now I am trembling inside constantly and can't use my hands steadily. I don't know what to do.
12 days. 50 and 100 didn't do this. I'm struggling to sleep but my anxiety is lower than on 100. Ugg.How long have you been up? It takes a while to adjust
Call someone straight away. Call a friend or a charity or the hospital.Reaching out here as I am at a loss…… anyone free for a word of advice from real life experience of considering leaving for good? I feel super calm….. x
Hey you, I hope it is ok for me to respond here (as we are also chatting in another thread).i hope it’s okay to vent here - i’ve been hugely struggling with my ocd/anxiety over the past month. it started getting pretty bad over lockdown but more recently i’ve become obsessed with what my old age is going to be like and convinced myself that any number of illnesses/elderly abuse etc is going to happen to me. it’s looking increasingly likely that i will be an alone old person (don’t want kids, cannot keep a partner) and my mind will not let me move past that thought.
i’ve always had a massive fear of being “old” which is ridiculous because i’m 36 but i’m finding myself walking around my house (which is full of things i love) wondering what’s going to happen to all of these things when i die, or doing the exact same in my parents’ house.
i’m normally fairly good at dealing with the intrusive/obsessive thoughts side of my ocd but we had two big deaths in my family this year combined with a break-up for me and i’m getting so angry at myself. urgh.
i hope all of you in this thread are doing okay
hello twinHey you, I hope it is ok for me to respond here (as we are also chatting in another thread).
I can identify with your thoughts.
I also became aware of my own mortality - a few acquaintances died over the last couple of years, young women dying of cancer.
It is probably a good thing to be aware of, as it also puts things into perspective - is it really worth me being upset because of the noisy neighbours?
etc
But at the same time it is terrifying. Everything is so fleeting and life will become more and more difficult the older we get.
What stories are you telling yourself - "cannot keep a partner": where does this come from? Why do you think is it your "fault" that your relationships ended?
Meeting the right person and being compatible with the person we fall in love with is not something we can control.
And why are you angry at yourself? Do you feel you did something wrong? What?
How does your OCD show up? I understand the anxiety in light of the recent events in your life and in the world, but don't understand the OCD side of things. Do you feel like you would like to control your future?
hey therehello twin
i’ll try and explain the ocd as my doctor explained it to me! ocd can really be separated into two parts - compulsions (ie excessive cleanliness, turning lights on and off a certain time) and obsessions (intrusive thoughts, becoming completely derailed by convincing yourself something has happened or is going to happen). i went to my doctor initially with what i later realised was “hit and run ocd” where a small anxiety about driving turned into me convincing myself i had bumped cars or was about to be in an accident with no evidence of this.
i think i’m angry at myself because, in my heart, i know it’s unwarranted. why waste time now convincing myself that thirty years from now i may be unhappy? but i know that now the thought is in my head it will be here for a little while.
and idk - i feel like the common factor in all my relationships ending is me. and i just have never, and probably never will ever, find attracting people and starting relationships as easy as everyone else. that is something i need to stop beating myself up about.
as always though, across the threads, i appreciate your kind words. i think i struggle at this time of year anyway and the nothingy point between christmas and new year is always hard. hopefully it will get better once i’m back into some kind of normal routine!
Ugh New Years Eve is shit. Totally understand all the BS on social media of people reflecting on their years is upsetting and feeds into empty feelings. I'm sure you know this - but people don't share their real lives online, and I'd wager a few people you think are doing well are also going through their own struggles.I’m really struggling today.
What doesn’t help is everyone reflecting on their amazing past year, mine was shit and mostly wishing to die.
I have this raging emptiness and void in me this evening, I can’t shake it. I don’t know.
I think we’ll, I’m almost sure that I’m heading back to how I was before I started this medication, it isn’t great by all means but it seems to placate it a small bit but it’s efficiency doesn’t seem to be as ‘good’.
Psychotherapist assessment isn’t until Feb, sick of contacting my (clueless) GP to be given a generic pill to try, the weaning is the worst too. I hate this. I wish I was normal.x
Yes! It's a total balancing act managing both. For a while I was on two different medications - an SNRI for the Depression and Pregabalin for the anxiety. I was also in regular therapy, which helps a lot with my anxiety.Hope you don't mind a newbie. Have very few people I can talk to in real life - I'd say less than 5 people know I have depression (well I expect its obvious to alot of people, but I've only actually told a few). I've been on 100mg sertraline for a couple of years (my longest stint) and it has mostly worked wonders for my overall mood, its like my default mood is now almost neutral rather than very low. I can't imagine ever feeling like I can come off it.
I'm starting to really struggle with anxiety...finding it so hard to make decisions, am deliberately avoiding things at work, massively catstrophising etc. Physically it's the feeling of constant dread in my stomach, racing heart, tearful and stressed. This is starting to have more of an impact on my life than my mood ever did, and am finding it really hard to get my head around what feels like a new unmanageable problem compared to depression which feels more controlled.
I know depression and anxiety can go hand in hand and my trying to separate them probably isn't helping.
Do any of you feel like you've tackled either depression or anxiety and the other has then reared its head? How did you manage? Is there a particular SSRI that can be better at managing both, or should sertraline be able to do that?
I feel like I need to speak to my GP, but can't quite find the words at the moment
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