ATV2021
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This will potentially be complete waffle. I tried to journal and that was waffle. Friends do not get it. I have tried talking therapy, CBT, hypno, meditation, exercise, medication...everything. Will try to nutshell.
Short back story...Mum (only parent) died and I lost my home due to it. This is a recurring anxiety thought.
I am in a career I hate. But I am trapped. I cannot not earn what I do now. Or I'd lose my home (see above). I have no family I could go to if it went tits up. I changed teams, made no difference. Last year I completely burnt out and on my return there was 0 support.
As Robbie Williams once sung - I dont wanna die, but I'm not keen on living either. That's how I feel. I don't want to die. But I also can't imagine this life until retirement. I search indeed...I can't afford to retrain elsewhere. Careers advice service only give advice if you know what you want to do...if I knew that I could find out access routes myself thanks.
I have tried SO hard to be positive and manifest. But when the black dog and anxiety fire take told there isn't much reasoning. Nobody in my life would have a giraffe this was all in my head. I'm a very good fronter. My job is absorbing trauma every day. Helping people. Supposed to be "Ikigai". Definitely isnt. I haven't even a clue of the purpose of my post but I just needed to blah my head.
Short back story...Mum (only parent) died and I lost my home due to it. This is a recurring anxiety thought.
I am in a career I hate. But I am trapped. I cannot not earn what I do now. Or I'd lose my home (see above). I have no family I could go to if it went tits up. I changed teams, made no difference. Last year I completely burnt out and on my return there was 0 support.
As Robbie Williams once sung - I dont wanna die, but I'm not keen on living either. That's how I feel. I don't want to die. But I also can't imagine this life until retirement. I search indeed...I can't afford to retrain elsewhere. Careers advice service only give advice if you know what you want to do...if I knew that I could find out access routes myself thanks.
I have tried SO hard to be positive and manifest. But when the black dog and anxiety fire take told there isn't much reasoning. Nobody in my life would have a giraffe this was all in my head. I'm a very good fronter. My job is absorbing trauma every day. Helping people. Supposed to be "Ikigai". Definitely isnt. I haven't even a clue of the purpose of my post but I just needed to blah my head.