Late night ponderings…….
Coming from a long line of hardworking, capable, independent and intillegent women, I‘ve been fascinated by Fanny’s ability to seduce others (4,000 patrons) into helping her, saving her, buying her, doing things for her…and exactly how she goes about this….because it doesnt seem like she was raised that way by her mother, who seems like a very hardworking person.
The narrative she has built up is quite elaborate..here are just some traits and behaviors I've observed
- leveraging one‘s appearance or beauty to seduce others. This is why she focuses so much on her appearance And maintaining it as she ages. With so few accomplishments in life, her beauty is her main value.
- playing role of being helpless. there is nothing physically wrong with her, but you rarely see her exert herself in any way. I mean, give me 2 hours in my garden and I‘m covered in sweat, dirt and likely have a few twigs in my hair!
- needing financial help
- unable to care for herself, other than run a bath. Needs constant protection.
- obsession with youth, acting childlike…mannerisms that are child like, giggling, flouncing around, exhuberance and lack of body control, heavy focus on youth. Fanny seems stuck between an 8-15 yesr old girl, but adds a thick layer of sexuality…boobs out, see through gowns, heavy makeup.
- portraying one‘s self as superior, upper class to intimidate and impress others, demonstrate power, privilege, wealth, good taste, polarity, access. She does this with mentions of her education, relationships with others in positions of power, knowledge of so-called posh things, travel. Being asked to an event with VIPs, modeling in a fashion shower, VIP access, upgrades. Fanny has dedicated an entire channel to praise for her (gift grab). Many of us would be mortified tonreceive lavish gifts from ordinary people or pensioners on a fixed income, but not Fanny.
It's like Fanny read every fairy tale book and instead of seeing these as moral tales of good vs bad, only saw herself in the role of the poor, helpless, princess stuck in the fairy tale castle. She saw these stories as a how to step by step guide…how to get rich, how to get men to lavish you with gifts and attention.
instead of a handsome prince, Fanny has seduced 4,000 patrons to hand over their hard earned cash so she can continue to live a lavish lifestyle many of us could only dream about.
And, her fans do so willingly, you might say, but there’s something sinister and dirty about the whole thing, which is why most of us are here. And some of us fell under her spell for awhile even. In dark times like thenpandemic, we all needed to feel that we could be rescued. Ee all needed to be saved. We needed to dresm that life was fun and filled with friends and laughter, when many of us just wanted to cry. We were easy prey. The perfect mark. Vulnerable, lonely, scared, facing uncertainty, fighting over toilet paper.
Everybody wants to root for the princess. That’s the story we all grew up with In every fairy tale. Fairy tales are the ultimate escape from reality.