The Chateau Diaries #122 A Whole new level of Ugliness that makes my skin Crawl

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I went back and watched CD's masked ball in Venice. Low and beyond, 28 mins in, Dan and Sabine were captured sitting together on the balcony. He got up and she then helped him tie his mask back on. So, you might ask? Well, a friend would do that from the back of his head, Sabine did it face to face with her hands reaching round his neck/head, thus being able to press up close to him, and don't forget, she was wearing a rather low cut Empire line dress. ;)
Yes and in the other Venice video she sits next to him in restaurant and does not leave his side on the street. Mmmmm
Why would young and beautiful Sabine be into Dan the gardener? He is much older, not attractive, not rich, smug, lives in a dump, just left his partner and has 2 small kids? WTF? 🕶💩🤮
 
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Why would young and beautiful Sabine be into Dan the gardener? He is much older, not attractive, not rich, smug, lives in a dump, just left his partner and has 2 small kids? WTF? 🕶💩🤮
When ppl are young and even when not young it is about the chemistry, not thinking about the big picture.So them two hooking up can very well be a possibility.
 
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In France, more than 1 couple out of 2 is not married. With kids in most of the cases.
Very common in Quebec - referred to as a French marriage.

When Dan got into the car, he asked his boys "Did you miss me?"
Not 'I missed you.' As you'd expect when a parent is reunited with his children.
To me that suggests it's all been about his wishes, his thoughts, his feelings.
That was quite telling.
It means his focus is firmly at the chateau.
Now we know why there was that odd cut in filming at the airport when Dan arrived back from Venice.

When Dan got into the car, he asked his boys "Did you miss me?"
Not 'I missed you.' As you'd expect when a parent is reunited with his children.
To me that suggests it's all been about his wishes, his thoughts, his feelings.
That was quite telling.
It means his focus is firmly at the chateau.
Now we know why there was that odd cut in filming at the airport when Dan arrived back from Venice.
 
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Why would young and beautiful Sabine be into Dan the gardener? He is much older, not attractive, not rich, smug, lives in a dump, just left his partner and has 2 small kids? WTF? 🕶💩🤮
Good question! Beer goggles? There’s probably some young strapping farmhand around the shitoo with muscular thighs and forearms if Sabine is lonely! Goat guy is too old and he’s already on hold for some of the tattlers.
 
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Never under estimate the attraction power of someone being there and available versus suitability

l think we can all see where this is going. If co-parenting is the goal then Dan needs his own residence unless he lives in his studio. It is going to be too uncomfortable for Dan and Annaleise living in such a small community. She will return to UK for family and friend support. Whilst she is established in local community it is not sustainable without considerable stress - even if her mother moves permanently to France.
IMHO Dan wants to travel, see the world, not be grafting all his life.
 
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Never under estimate the attraction power of someone being there and available versus suitability

l think we can all see where this is going. If co-parenting is the goal then Dan needs his own residence unless he lives in his studio. It is going to be too uncomfortable for Dan and Annaleise living in such a small community. She will return to UK for family and friend support. Whilst she is established in local community it is not sustainable without considerable stress - even if her mother moves permanently to France.
IMHO Dan wants to travel, see the world, not be grafting all his life.
...re-thinking...and I just spoke to an old friend...her daughter and son in law are going through something very similar...
...maybe dan is getting the bad guy treatment...and it’s just not that b&w. maybe it’s just that they grew apart...and want different things...

...happens...and no one is more to blame than the other...if one steps back and looks rationally...
...well...not my business really...and I’m not emotionally invested here like others seem to be...these are simply yt people...nothing more...hope for the best for all involved...

...as always...spring is coming...and better times are ahead...✌
 
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If ever you need to prove that Stephanie Jarvis is a money grabbing twit

That patron vlog was it …

A smidgen a mocum of respect for her staff or paid for friends

Shed have said nothing - IMHO Stephanie jarvis is a very sick 🤕 person - as yet diagnosed by a doctor

Not the first time in 123 threads it’s been mentioned her lack of mental capacity - her adhd on display and her manic laughter at other ppls problems - and her inability to stop lying 🤥

Back in the day it was commented that daddy had bought a very large Wendy house in the middle of nowhere to contain her
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He could see she was toxic and would need to be separated from society - then she got a mobile phone … he’d been outwitted by a simpleton - and then her ex lovers … ran as they couldn’t handle the 24 hr care required … 🤕

And Isabel got a new husband and left

Can’t blame mini apron - knowing you raised a toxic problem …. Hardly want to wait out retirement viewing it up
Close n personal
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Funny how Dan wanted to keep his "family situation" off camera and private, but wasn't he the one who outed Amaury and his leechy hotwater bottle kissing in the background of one of his vlogs some months ago?
 
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I know I can’t possibly know what happened with D&A, but as a women I have had the unusual opportunity to be one of guys in a group of about 15 men. I’m talking no holds barred discussion of women, relationships, and divorce (it was a pandemic with these fellas for about 7 years). I’ve seen it all. I have heard the deepest nastiest things come out of these guys. I’ve seen the cheating, acceptance of cheating, concealing of cheating, witching, moaning, blaming. I also know the wives and girlfriends, but I am there when they aren’t around, as well as when they are. I’ve also seen the anger and hurt the men felt in instances of women cheating, or not holding up their end of the money or home or kids. It’s taught me quite a lot. I’m present with my hubs. They also talk to me sometimes as well. All I can say is that we saw what Dan did, but we didn’t really see what Annalise did. So we don’t have the full picture. Especially now that we know they’ve been hiding it for a while.

I’ve seen couples on the brink of splitting think having kids will fix things. They have the kids and still split anyway, because having a kid in the middle of a mess just makes the mess worse. I’ve seen people stay with people because they did t know how to split up the finances. I’ve seen people blow up the finances and nearly kill the other one (suicide attempt/drinking) who was trying to hold it all together. One of the fellas married two different women twice in the course of his life. He’s single again. Another one bitched to no end for years about his “large” wife only to end up with a new “large” girlfriend. There’s one who cheats on his wife but loves her dearly and will never leave her. I also know two friends who agreed to let the one’s wife have sex with the friend, because it made her more frisky for the husband?!?? (They’ve been friends for 45 years?!? She can’t stand the friend?!?

I guess what I’m saying is that people are weird, and we will never know what the problem with D&A really was. It’s almost never one sided either.
 
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Why would young and beautiful Sabine be into Dan the gardener? He is much older, not attractive, not rich, smug, lives in a dump, just left his partner and has 2 small kids? WTF? 🕶💩🤮
They definitely pointed some bricks.
 
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I am fully aware of the origins of the term from the Charles Boyer/Ingrid Bergman film however it's modern application is frequently misused by would-be psychiatrists, along with "narcissist" and "hazing".
Given the manner in which people are rushing to join "Team Annalise", even though Dan and Annalise seem to be taking a far more mature approach to their split, I think a better film recommendation might be "The First Wives Club" as I can only assume that we have a number of betrayed partners here who are ready to to take sides based on their own experience and without knowing anything of the facts behind this.
That's what you are supposed to say when you separate: we have the kids interest in mind, blabla
What usually happens is that Dad moves out and has the kids on a weekend for a fun activity. What was Dan supposed to say on a vlog anyway? "I want to break free and finally found a way to get rid off wife and #1 and #2? I realised it's not fun to live in a dump?
I am trying to be optimistic here so I will finish on a positive note: I am sure he will pay the child support on regular basis and even be generous with it.... (though in my experience that's not what usually happens after a divorce)
 
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Disgusting!!!
What is with this woman???
Her ego knows no bounds!!!
It's more than enough that she says her vlogs are soothing for people who want to escape from news from the Ukraine <--- that is just such a huge WTAF... These people need her vlogs to have a break from what's going on in the Ukraine. These whackadoos who live in Armpit, fill in the state, province, region, wherever, need a break from what's going on in the Ukraine... And she is the solution... :cautious: Exactly what break do they need? And how is she a solution? If I know my peops they'd never heard of the Ukraine until yesterday...

And now she says her patrons should hear from her about this couple breaking up? Why? Why do her patrons need to hear her talk about this couple's private life?
She should have stopped at, "Obviously this is not my business..."
She sounds guilty about something.
The more you say the less you prove.
Hope chateau shenanigans aren't the root of the problem nor exacerbated the problem... I cringe to think how anyone would think moving into that place would help a couple in distress...

What is with all the jerking about and wild gesticulating??? I am with the guy who commented about her taking it down a notch; she gives me anxiety too!!! Why is she looking so happy, nervous, frenetic... What did she do? What is she up to?
 
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Disgusting!!!
What is with this woman???
Her ego knows no bounds!!!
It's more than enough that she says her vlogs are soothing for people who want to escape from news from the Ukraine <--- that is just such a huge WTAF... These people need her vlogs to have a break from what's going on in the Ukraine. These whackadoos who live in Armpit, fill in the state, province, region, wherever, need a break from what's going on in the Ukraine... And she is the solution... :cautious: Exactly what break do they need? And how is she a solution? If I know my peops they'd never heard of the Ukraine until yesterday...

And now she says her patrons should hear from her about this couple breaking up? Why? Why do her patrons need to hear her talk about this couple's private life?
She should have stopped at, "Obviously this is not my business..."
She sounds guilty about something.
The more you say the less you prove.
Hope chateau shenanigans aren't the root of the problem nor exacerbated the problem... I cringe to think how anyone would think moving into that place would help a couple in distress...

What is with all the jerking about and wild gesticulating??? I am with the guy who commented about her taking it down a notch; she gives me anxiety too!!! Why is she looking so happy, nervous, frenetic... What did she do? What is she up to?
The jerking around is nerves and anxiety (who knows why).
 
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Same in UK. Just over a third of the children in my last class were living with both parents - and those parents weren't always married.
I always said marriage is just a piece of paper. But in some countries common law doesn’t apply so it is a legality.
 
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Disgusting!!!
What is with this woman???
Her ego knows no bounds!!!
It's more than enough that she says her vlogs are soothing for people who want to escape from news from the Ukraine <--- that is just such a huge WTAF... These people need her vlogs to have a break from what's going on in the Ukraine. These whackadoos who live in Armpit, fill in the state, province, region, wherever, need a break from what's going on in the Ukraine... And she is the solution... :cautious: Exactly what break do they need? And how is she a solution? If I know my peops they'd never heard of the Ukraine until yesterday...

And now she says her patrons should hear from her about this couple breaking up? Why? Why do her patrons need to hear her talk about this couple's private life?
She should have stopped at, "Obviously this is not my business..."
She sounds guilty about something.
The more you say the less you prove.
Hope chateau shenanigans aren't the root of the problem nor exacerbated the problem... I cringe to think how anyone would think moving into that place would help a couple in distress...

What is with all the jerking about and wild gesticulating??? I am with the guy who commented about her taking it down a notch; she gives me anxiety too!!! Why is she looking so happy, nervous, frenetic... What did she do? What is she up to?
She was nervous that patreons would blame her to have lied to them again for 6months. Also she wanted to make sure that everyone realised that she was so generous to have offered Dan a room at hwr place.
 
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Dang I wasn't expecting this bit of news. Dan mentions it has been "6 or 7 months". Back in August? Interesting to think of timelines here. Was his living there the beginning of Selmar's troubles?

Good on them for making it an amicable uncoupling. My parents divorced when I was 13 and absolutely hated each other. I'm glad they are able to stay friends and hope that lasts. How long do we think Dan can keep living at the chateau? It will be interesting to see where life takes him. Best wishes to Annalise and the boys.
If Annalise moves with the boys to her mothers, he could return to his rubble rural with his chef kitchen where Annalise (according to tattle) had no say in the design.
 
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From tonight's patron chat - something I didn't expect from fan.....Chateau Lalaland Refugee Centre.....

William and Jane Beaver
As a divorced but remarried man, I can certainly empathize. Thanks for sharing. Of course they have my support and prayers. At the risk of changing the subject a bit, I saw where the Perhericks are doing something to deliver support to Ukrainaian refugees. Any plans to offer for a Ukrainanian family to stay a short time at LaLande while they decide what to do next? Just curious. This situation there is threatening all of Europe.
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Stephanie Jarvis
Yes, of course. As well as donating the February revenue from Chateau Unwrapped! to a charity working in Ukraine, we have arranged for someone fleeing Ukraine to come to Lalande shortly. Hopefully we will be able to help more people in this way.
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Debbie Rudolph

Just curious, have you arranged for someone from the Ukraine to come and stay with you?
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Stephanie Jarvis

Yes, Debbie, we have. Her travel arrangements haven’t been finalized yet, but hopefully she will be able to arrive soon.

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Claudette Primeau

That is wonderful Stephanie. Canada is welcoming many refugees either on a temporary measure or permanent. ❤
 
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