Don’t go. Arrange something nice to do with your dad in the run up to Christmas instead.am i really boring for not being arsed to do anything for bonfire night? my dad has invited us round tomorrow night but he lives 90 minutes away. i’m at work all day til 5, toddler’s in nursery all day. i’m in the middle of potty training which is stressful and he’s also having huge bedtime resistance. i’m also 20 weeks pregnant. i told my dad no but feel guilty now