It is hard to say but it’s much better to be upfront as there’s nothing wrong with saying you’re not keen, it’s not like you’re going to ask her not to be friends with her. You’ll feel a lot better for getting it out there
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I'd just be honest an say that you feel you both clash a bit and aren't getting on, that you will be civil if she is invited to things but you'd prefer just seeing your friend alone
If your friend is a good friend then they should understand, just because they get on with her doesn't mean everyone else will an these things happen
Anybody living around London /the M25. I have a question.
We are flying from Heathrow this wkend and BA just informed us that the M25 is shut between J10&11.
Does anybody know how badly this affects traffic? Do we allow an extra hour? Or two?
We are flying from Heathrow this wkend and BA just informed us that the M25 is shut between J10&11.
Does anybody know how badly this affects traffic? Do we allow an extra hour? Or two?
Last time it was shut, it was dead as a dodo but I think it's because everyone just stayed away. No idea how much extra time you will need. The traffic around this area is currently awful anyway, could you come down before it shuts and stay?
Thanks for the response. That’s good to hear. Somebody else actually mentioned about east and south and I realised I come from the complete opposite direction
Has anyone bought stuff off Amazon an its had a voucher option displayed on it? I need new units an they have a 30% voucher option I can click on for all of them, there's nothing else that I can see that explains why am getting it, just wondering if there's a catch to them that am not seeing, it's bringing my total from £249 to £99, which seems like a great buy but I also don't want to be unknowingly signing up to something I can't get out of, I've never seen these voucher options before on anything previous I've bought
Yeah I've used them before no issues
Yes, had before on random things - some kitchen stools one time I remember - usually higher cost items, than small things.
Thanks, it's a first for me an with how much I was getting off them it seemed a bit strange but I'll take it
I've got the dilemma of whether I should fix my car , or let it go .I've recently had work done on it , but I think the clutch needs replacing ,which can be expensive.
If I buy a different car , I can only stretch to something about 10/12 years old anyway, so I'm wary of buying someone else's problem.
If I buy a different car , I can only stretch to something about 10/12 years old anyway, so I'm wary of buying someone else's problem.
I think better the devil you know, unless the cost of the clutch is more than the value of your car.
Clutches are pricey to have done , it's mostly labour costs cos its a big job... it also needs new tyres , then it's mot will be due , and it's service. I think I've lost my confidence with it a bit .
Sounds like sunk cost fallacy - you already invested into this specific car and therefore are more likely to put in further money, even if it’s ultimately costing you more (or not less) than if you decided to sell it. How old is your current car? You wrote you’d look at 10-12 year old cars, and there can be a world of a difference between them and yours, even if a similar age….
I know what you mean with loss of confidence. I had that with my first car at some point and decided I will never do that again. If I’m not trusting the vehicle and that what should be fixed is properly fixed and has no other surprises, I’m selling it.
I know some people don’t like PCPs and I see why, but my son has his car on a PCP with our local SEAT dealer, it’s a 20 plate little Mii, doesn't cost much per month, they took his very old car as deposit and it gets two years servicing, parts warranty and break down cover as part of the deal x
I don’t even know if I’m in the right place but I was hoping someone would have advice.
I have PMDD and have taken two days off sick this year. Not back to back to separate days.
My boss has contacted my dr for my medical records. I had to give permission and was told it was my choice but the letter basically said if I didn’t it would go against me.
Need to add people I work with have been off since September last year and they’re fine but my two days hell no
I have PMDD and have taken two days off sick this year. Not back to back to separate days.
My boss has contacted my dr for my medical records. I had to give permission and was told it was my choice but the letter basically said if I didn’t it would go against me.
Need to add people I work with have been off since September last year and they’re fine but my two days hell no
What do you need advice on?I don’t even know if I’m in the right place but I was hoping someone would have advice.
I have PMDD and have taken two days off sick this year. Not back to back to separate days.
My boss has contacted my dr for my medical records. I had to give permission and was told it was my choice but the letter basically said if I didn’t it would go against me.
Need to add people I work with have been off since September last year and they’re fine but my two days hell no
Not sure if that's right to be honest, no one should be getting access to your medical records, usually if you are off for more than I think 5 days? It requires a sick note from your doctor but not access to your medical recordsI don’t even know if I’m in the right place but I was hoping someone would have advice.
I have PMDD and have taken two days off sick this year. Not back to back to separate days.
My boss has contacted my dr for my medical records. I had to give permission and was told it was my choice but the letter basically said if I didn’t it would go against me.
Need to add people I work with have been off since September last year and they’re fine but my two days hell no
Are you UK? I'd maybe contact citizens advice an ask about if that was allowed or if your boss has overstepped boundaries, I used to have to take time off due to my anxiety disorder an never did I give my work place my records, it was notes from my doctor I gave them
It sounds like they have perhaps bullied you into gaining access which tbh could really land them in some serious tit
What country do you live in?? That’s outrageousI don’t even know if I’m in the right place but I was hoping someone would have advice.
I have PMDD and have taken two days off sick this year. Not back to back to separate days.
My boss has contacted my dr for my medical records. I had to give permission and was told it was my choice but the letter basically said if I didn’t it would go against me.
Need to add people I work with have been off since September last year and they’re fine but my two days hell no
When I worked in the nhs two separate days would trigger this whereas being off longer once would take longer to trigger (though it would do so), it also depended on the days e.g. Monday and Friday were worse than others and days before or after leave were same. There’s an official name for it and it’s being used more and more.
i don’t know how your notes would help? Maybe they want to see if you’ll be off frequently? I wouldn’t refuse as it’s not going to help, but that’s just me.
i don’t know how your notes would help? Maybe they want to see if you’ll be off frequently? I wouldn’t refuse as it’s not going to help, but that’s just me.
Thank you for the replies.
I am in the UK yeah I haven’t refused as I cannot afford for it to go against me.
I think what bothers me is my mental health was triggered because I done overtime since November and they haven’t been paying us right so my overtime was missing eventually got that as a back payment in Jan. I’m still owed 6 hours pay which I’m fighting for.
My payslip isn’t due till end of the month and I’m already so anxious worrying it’ll be wrong again
I am in the UK yeah I haven’t refused as I cannot afford for it to go against me.
I think what bothers me is my mental health was triggered because I done overtime since November and they haven’t been paying us right so my overtime was missing eventually got that as a back payment in Jan. I’m still owed 6 hours pay which I’m fighting for.
My payslip isn’t due till end of the month and I’m already so anxious worrying it’ll be wrong again
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