Just wanted to comment and say you’re not alone! I pluck out the hairs on my legs with tweezers and fixate on removing any stubble, to the point where I dig under the skin and start to bleed.. I have lots of scars and scabs from repeatedly doing it. I also bite away the skin on my lips and inside of my cheeks for as long as I can remember.
I try to stop myself but eventually I give in, it just feels really satisfying and distracts me from thinking about other things.
Two of my cats would sometimes pull out their fur and the vets said it was caused by stress and anxiety. Perhaps it is similar?
I feel like an oddball too but I remind myself that we all cope with things differently in life and that’s okay