My boyfriends parents when I was 15 (he was also 15) enforced the ‘no sleeping together rule’. He’d go to bed in his bedroom and I’d go in the spare room, we’d just have sex before we went to sleep then go into separate rooms totally pointless.
my mum was great though, she spoke to me like an adult about sex and asked me if I wanted her to get us contraception / go to the GP with me. She preferred us hanging out at our house so she could keep one ear open and always encouraged me to be open and honest with how I was feeling about everything. Unfortunately at 14/15/16 teenagers do get sexually curious and it’s totally natural to start experimenting, I’d just be there for your daughter and to remind her what consent means. There is no shame in teenagers forming healthy and safe sexual relationships - I’ve always had a positive relationship with sex and I think a lot of this stems from how open my mum was with me.
the lying from your ex is a separate conversation to be had, but not ok.
my mum was great though, she spoke to me like an adult about sex and asked me if I wanted her to get us contraception / go to the GP with me. She preferred us hanging out at our house so she could keep one ear open and always encouraged me to be open and honest with how I was feeling about everything. Unfortunately at 14/15/16 teenagers do get sexually curious and it’s totally natural to start experimenting, I’d just be there for your daughter and to remind her what consent means. There is no shame in teenagers forming healthy and safe sexual relationships - I’ve always had a positive relationship with sex and I think a lot of this stems from how open my mum was with me.
the lying from your ex is a separate conversation to be had, but not ok.