Well, I suppose we will find out if she or her other sister bailed him out of jail. Which he ended up violating the terms, I think since she is an influencer she should address this. That's my opinion.
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Talking about and going on the #bandwagon trend (eg BLM) are too completely different things. You all give Influenzers, such as Trashy Tammy too much credit. They're only in to for the F's - fame, freebies, fortune. That's it. They are all narcissistic lazy and spoilt caring only for themselves and following trends eg BLM, meetoo what now #endo #faketits.
I'm going with her " marriage" to dirt bag was nothing more than an instacontract, money to be made. Her " relationship " with Matt P was all staged for insta. Her relationship with Reece was one of her using him " he was the most beautiful guy I'd ever seen".
How sad that girls see her as " goals". Her family are trash, Emilee's one is bordering on investigating. And the kids are all going to have issues soon enough.but then again they have instagram to fall back on $$.
To be honest she probably feel embarrassed knowing her brother did what he did, she's probably doesn't feel comfortable talking on the matter perhaps she doesn't know much about it.
it's not like anna and atis, Anna was intentionally setting up her girlfriends up with atis knowing he was convicted
she probably saw more in his relationship than any sister should witness and turned a blind eye to emotional, physically, financial abuse, Tammy probably doesn't know this girl at all and probably never know what when on their relationship and take any part in it. I think it's completely up her discretion whether she addresses it or not.
it's not like anna and atis, Anna was intentionally setting up her girlfriends up with atis knowing he was convicted
she probably saw more in his relationship than any sister should witness and turned a blind eye to emotional, physically, financial abuse, Tammy probably doesn't know this girl at all and probably never know what when on their relationship and take any part in it. I think it's completely up her discretion whether she addresses it or not.Usually a lurker here... and I'm by no means an expert...
But couldn't it result in a mistrial if she says anything? It's not gone to trial yet and I could be wrong, but if people with big a big following/influence say things on social media/to the media etc at this stage it can be classed as influencing the jury?
*IF* Tammy was to share numbers etc for DV charities then it could be seen as an admission of guilt by a 3rd party and used against Henri?
Don't know, but 100% the lawyer will have advised them all to say nothing
But couldn't it result in a mistrial if she says anything? It's not gone to trial yet and I could be wrong, but if people with big a big following/influence say things on social media/to the media etc at this stage it can be classed as influencing the jury?
*IF* Tammy was to share numbers etc for DV charities then it could be seen as an admission of guilt by a 3rd party and used against Henri?
Don't know, but 100% the lawyer will have advised them all to say nothing
Exactly. This is giving “guilt-by-association.”
You can want justice and support victims without dragging uninvolved relatives through the mud.
From what I’m gathering, the only know facts that we have is what has officially been charged. We don’t know the full scope of evidence. Everything else has been filtered through TikTokers who are name-dropping Tammy for clout.
If people really want to criticize Tammy, there’s a mountain of messy, tone-deaf, and downright questionable content on her own socials to unpack. Stick to that. Her roid-raging half-brother and his charges are serious, but they’re his to answer for, not hers.
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We probably will, but Tammy barely comments on her own drama, so why would she speak on something she likely knows little about?
People are scapegoating her because her brother isn’t accessible. And demanding for her to make statements and such doesn’t hold the actual alleged perpetrators accountable.
I’ll admit, I’ve done my fair share of gossiping/speculating about Tammy too, but this topic is too serious for random assumptions and finger-pointing. It feels inappropriate to add more onto it honestly.
Yeah sorry it’s absolutely disgusting what he did but it’s not really Tammy’s fault? Like st all. If my friend’s sibling did something awful I wouldn’t hold it against my friend just as i would hope they wouldn’t for me, and the sam for any type of beloved influencer or celebrity with a public profile. This feels like a chance to pile on Tammy due to already disliking her when she seemingly has done nothing wrong.
if it comes out she is involved somehow (unlikely) then sure. But expecting her to respond a certain way is kind of weird and 100% legally it’s best to stay out of it.
if it comes out she is involved somehow (unlikely) then sure. But expecting her to respond a certain way is kind of weird and 100% legally it’s best to stay out of it.
Bailey is one of the most disgusting people I’ve ever met. She also slept with Reece so that could be why that friendship ended when she started dating George.
She only moved to Bali to keep her son away from his bio dad because he got a new partner.
Bingo. You nailed it. As much as I dislike Tammy (and I REALLLY dislike her), this situation has made me realize the importance of grace and compassion. If the brother is convicted of these heinous acts, then he has caused devastation not only for the victims, but for his own family and his community.
I would be absolutely heartbroken if my brother was accused of something like this and I probably wouldn’t want to talk about it either, especially not to strangers on the internet who have formed their own conclusions about it.
That ilk girl better hope nothing like that happens to her, or she’ll be attacked by the very mob she helped create.
Charlotte and Henri were in a relationship for over a year and he lived at their mums house, so Tammy and the rest of the family def knew.To be honest she probably feel embarrassed knowing her brother did what he did, she's probably doesn't feel comfortable talking on the matter perhaps she doesn't know much about it.
it's not like anna and atis, Anna was intentionally setting up her girlfriends up with atis knowing he was convicted
If any of my friends tried to grape or strangle me or any person I know, they would be out of my life that very second I found out. We aren't talking about a trivial issue here, we are talking about hard core violence against women. Men like that can not be trusted, ever.
If Tammy contributed to him being able to be free, to further hurt his victim, then she is an enabler. She knew what he was capable of. But in saying that, all the Hembrows should be bloody cancelled, not just Tammy. His charges were laid last year in March (2024)
Isn't there a photo circulating of Henri with Posy in Tammys house recently?
Being "involved" would be contributing financially, which (apparently) it's said she has done. But I will wait for Charlottes story to come out.
If Tammy was truly excusing her brother’s alleged actions, she would’ve made sure he was at her wedding, especially since she shares everything online. The fact that he wasn’t there is what actually made people start researching and discovering the charges in the first place.
Bailing someone out doesn’t mean you’re excusing their behavior. It happens for a lot of reasons, and it doesn’t equal guilt. People are just reaching to blame Tammy for something she’s probably not even involved in, and your comment makes it clear they’re more focused on canceling her than looking at the actual facts.
I’m not trying to argue but idk it just seems like people are trying to find any excuse to ruin Tammy by any means necessary which is crazy because she does a good enough job of that on her own.
How would she have made sure he was at the wedding? He was locked up. You dont get a free pass out for a day. Very rare you are even let out for funerals.
Any more Bailey info?
You’re actually proving my point. He wasn’t at Tammy’s wedding because he was in custody. IF she were really trying to “enable” him or excuse what he allegedly did, wouldn’t she have tried harder to get him out before her big day? His absence is what made people even start digging into the situation.
And where’s the proof that he was ever out on bail and violated it? That TikTok creator made serious claims — like him orchestrating an attack on the victim involving three people carving an “H” into her leg — but where are the follow-up charges, arrests, or police reports? That would be major news if it happened.
I’m not denying anyone’s trauma. That being said, when serious accusations like that are posted publicly, people deserve transparency. Otherwise, it turns into social media dramatics. The case is already horrific on its own, there’s no need to muddy it with exaggerations or fan theories.
Same honestly… there needs to be a separate thread for Henri imo.
Okay…. This’ll probably be my last comment on the whole Henri situation, because it’s spiraling into something ridiculous. I just saw the Charlotte person’s (the alleged victim) photos of that alleged attack with random men and from a forensic perspective, it gives me major pause.
I’m not sure what to make of the facial bruising — that’s not something I can explain. But the “H”? It looks off. The way the striation marks are going in a certain direction as well as the pressure/depth of the cuts, it resembles how someone would write a themselves on a piece of paper, not the kind of jagged, chaotic injury you’d expect from an attack.
I tried to trace it with my finger and that’s how I came to the conclusion because writing an H does typically press down harder on certain parts and the pressure gets lighter when the line is about to end. It’s very evident when you see the middle line on the H. The cut is going from left to right because the middle lines get more faint in appearance towards the end.
Also, she took a picture of her leg essentially like we are looking at it from a donward angle, almost like we are standing above her, however the H is readable similar to how it would look if you wrote it on paper. If someone else wrote it, the H would most likely look upside down based on how she took that picture:
I’m not downplaying anything — I just want the truth. But for that to happen, we need to stop blindly believing TikToks and wait for real facts. The theatrics, the unverified claims, the clout chasing — none of that helps anyone.
And seriously, what criminal carves their own initial into a victim while already facing charges? That’s cartoon-level stupidity. Let’s please stop acting like wild speculation = advocacy.
I’m not sure what to make of the facial bruising — that’s not something I can explain. But the “H”? It looks off. The way the striation marks are going in a certain direction as well as the pressure/depth of the cuts, it resembles how someone would write a themselves on a piece of paper, not the kind of jagged, chaotic injury you’d expect from an attack.
I tried to trace it with my finger and that’s how I came to the conclusion because writing an H does typically press down harder on certain parts and the pressure gets lighter when the line is about to end. It’s very evident when you see the middle line on the H. The cut is going from left to right because the middle lines get more faint in appearance towards the end.
Also, she took a picture of her leg essentially like we are looking at it from a donward angle, almost like we are standing above her, however the H is readable similar to how it would look if you wrote it on paper. If someone else wrote it, the H would most likely look upside down based on how she took that picture:
I’m not downplaying anything — I just want the truth. But for that to happen, we need to stop blindly believing TikToks and wait for real facts. The theatrics, the unverified claims, the clout chasing — none of that helps anyone.
And seriously, what criminal carves their own initial into a victim while already facing charges? That’s cartoon-level stupidity. Let’s please stop acting like wild speculation = advocacy.
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