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I imagine he has ADHD. Hence the comment about teachers. Always wanting to make people laugh. Never got the gratification and praise from teachers but his peers always laughed. Personality disorders develop from a young age for a variety of reasons.
The hearing voices- psychosis? Brought on from drink and drugs 🤷‍♀️?

His family have probably seen this before hence his so called mates comments "Azzatheboy" (growup!) Saying he'll be back smashing etc". But also probably why they've given up with trying to calm his behaviour.

Only thing is he hadn't ever been so publically called out. Not for something with such repercussions.

Also no years back we never had a variety of MH disorders. Personality disorders misdiagnosed as "bi polar". We just used to lock away pregnant unmarried women in asylums. Same way years ago we never used to have a variety of cancers we have now.

I think he will be back to england in the next 48hours and then the police (🤞🤞🤞🙏🙏🙏)will step in and make the relevant arrests.
 
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Bear is a master manipulator at work. He’s masked his disgusting behaviour posting a sex video without a woman’s consent, with a suicide threat... Now he’s got everybody’s sympathy rather than hate and they’ve put to the back of their minds what he’s done.
 
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So the guy has been openly manipulating woman and arguably the public for years using his looks and “charm” and the fact that he’s erratic, he posts this and suddenly people are changing their opinions on him?
He’s gutted because his money has ran out, he has no sex sites to drain idiots money from and his public opinion has plummeted - it’s all his own doing. In 48 hours when he’s back groping another 17 year old girl mocking everyone I hope all the people now supporting him see through him.
I don’t think Georgia is helping herself though - I would be surprised if she has a valid case after this circus, which I guess is what hes hoping
 
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I have to say my sympathy for Georgia is running out quickly - what he has done is disgusting but I think it’s starting to come across as though she’s milking this situation.

All she had to do was phone the police, not keep constantly posting about it etc. And now with this video, it was nothing to do with her. He has over a million followers plus who he’s with in Dubai. She had no obligation to contact anyone or do anything - but obviously felt the need to do a big post.
 
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I don’t think it’s that people are changing their opinions - I certainly haven’t and a huge part of me thought it was just another manipulation tool that narcs do & that I’ve experienced first hand myself.
however, it’s a huge risk to disbelieve someone when they appear to be on the edge. I will keep my own thoughts on the fact it was posted publicly.

I think Georgia was calling his/his families bluff as someone said, the law is different over there & he could potentially get into trouble (wrong if it was genuine). I feel for her though because I’ve been where she was feeling responsible/worried even though they don’t deserve it.

she’s posted he is okay & im glad of that. I don’t know if that means he’s got through it & is okay @ getting support or whether it was all some game & he’s been okay throughout it all.
but if that’s the case then he is extremely dangerous & still needs professional help...I think he needs it in either way in my opinion

EDITED TO ADD: I get what people are saying about Georgia etc but can you imagine how many messages she would be getting about it? Blaming her? Saying she’s killed him? So her doing a post doesn’t mean anything to me. If she carried on posting Dubai as normal she’s be accused of being heartless etc yes he does have people around him, but these same people allow his behaviour so would they be there if this was genuine? I honestly don’t know. Maybe it’s coz I’ve been with a narc I understand her actions a lot more where people question her
 
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I don’t think it’s that people are changing their opinions - I certainly haven’t and a huge part of me thought it was just another manipulation tool that narcs do & that I’ve experienced first hand myself.
however, it’s a huge risk to disbelieve someone when they appear to be on the edge. I will keep my own thoughts on the fact it was posted publicly.

I think Georgia was calling his/his families bluff as someone said, the law is different over there & he could potentially get into trouble (wrong if it was genuine). I feel for her though because I’ve been where she was feeling responsible/worried even though they don’t deserve it.

she’s posted he is okay & im glad of that. I don’t know if that means he’s got through it & is okay @ getting support or whether it was all some game & he’s been okay throughout it all.
but if that’s the case then he is extremely dangerous & still needs professional help...I think he needs it in either way in my opinion
This! ☝🏻
 
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So the guy has been openly manipulating woman and arguably the public for years using his looks and “charm” and the fact that he’s erratic, he posts this and suddenly people are changing their opinions on him?
He’s gutted because his money has ran out, he has no sex sites to drain idiots money from and his public opinion has plummeted - it’s all his own doing. In 48 hours when he’s back groping another 17 year old girl mocking everyone I hope all the people now supporting him see through him.
I don’t think Georgia is helping herself though - I would be surprised if she has a valid case after this circus, which I guess is what hes hoping
He clearly was never going to stay in Dubai. He hasn’t even got enough money to get his haircut as he said he was a few days ago.
He will get back on the flight he was always getting on.
This is tragic. And he’s manipulating Georgia.
 
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Whether this is fake or real he needs help either way. This is not normal behaviour.

If it’s not real, he won’t admit that it’s not. Georgia will then feel guilt and worry about what he might do and she will drop the charges. I can’t see her going through with this now. Then he’s achieved what he wanted.

Real or not, he needs to face the consequences of his actions, but somehow I can’t see it happening.
 
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I hope to god this isn't a publicity stunt from both ends, very sad if so, why wouldn't she just Google the number for the emergency services. I'm not convinced 🤔 mental health is not a joke and if the comment about being in a bar bragging is true then I'm actually stunned.
 
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So unbelievably fake video. I feel for Georgia she is clearly still in love with him and I think if he apologised and promised her the world she would take it. Which is sad in itself. Bear is a master manipulator and a narcissist he knows what he’s doing. The fact that video has been put on his actual Instagram and not the story just shows how well he had that planned.
 
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Remember when Georgia said in her first few posts “bear knows I’m weak”... I’m worried last nights video was his attempt to guilt trip her into not taking this further out of fear he could harm himself, knowing she would struggle to live with herself if he did. I really hope she stays strong and doesn’t let him get away with this!
 
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Why is Georgia even entertaining his bull? If a man violated me in that way I wouldn’t have any sympathy for him at all no matter what!!!!
This is all a big game to Bear, he is a very manipulative and dangerous man. All of this has been created by him so people feel sorry for him and then he can come back to the UK as planned this week.

please please do not feel sorry for him
 
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Whether this is fake or real he needs help either way. This is not normal behaviour.

If it’s not real, he won’t admit that it’s not. Georgia will then feel guilt and worry about what he might do and she will drop the charges. I can’t see her going through with this now. Then he’s achieved what he wanted.

Real or not, he needs to face the consequences of his actions, but somehow I can’t see it happening.
She’s got people commenting on her page now that if he hurts himself she’s gonna have blood on her hands 😳
 
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There’s a guy that keeps posting that Bear was bragging about doing this in a bar in Dubai last night and he was pissed off because his brother was getting attention from girls and not him.

The guy said his comments and account were blocked and posted again on another account.
 
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If the shoe was on the other foot and georgia posted a video like this because of what he had done to her, would bear have any sympathy for her? He would probably mock her or encourage her. I dont doubt he has some mental health problems, but I have very little sympathy after his post about faking a suicide the other week.
 
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