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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
That’s awful, I can’t imagine what you’ve bern through 😕 xx
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
I’m so sorry you went through this, it’s so sad that men think they can treat any female this way.
You are very brave for sharing your story, sending you so much love xx
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
I'm so so sorry to hear this happened to you. I'm also sorry that your family didn't support you, you were the victim and should have had help.
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
Omg I’m so sorry you had to endure that 😔
Really hope karma has came around for the vile creature that put you through that when you were younger 🤬
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
i am SO SO SO sorry to hear this happened. Makes me want to absolutely bawl my eyes out omg. Please know none of this was your fault. If you havent, I would speak to a therapist. Or even just go back into therapy if you feel you need to. It helps tremendously. I’m sorry you weren’t protected properly. I wish you all the best xxxx

edit: as the person directly above me said, i hope that absolute WASTE OF SPACE vile rum got what he deserves. Imagine being him 🤢 he will definitely struggle in life, thats for sure.
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
So sorry this happened to you xx
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
That is horrendous,I am so sorry that happened to you and you didn't have the right support. I hope you are happier now. I can only imagine how stressful and painful it must have been for you :(
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
I'm happy u felt this was a safe space to share ur story. This happens all to often to girls and we never tell anyone as we feel ashamed or that it was our fault. I hope you've came some way to realise that those men who treated u that way are the rum of the earth criminals paedophiles
 
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Hi guys, longtime lurker and I’m no expert but I did do a module on international law
the uk and uae do have an extradition treaty but whether he gets extradited back here depends on so many specifics like whether dubai also has laws against revenge porn and the minimum sentence for it in both countries etc
tbh I don’t think it’s at that stage yet even though he’s extending his holiday cause there’s so much bureaucracy it’d take ages (if I remember properly they have to go through the home office and stuff)

like I said I’m no expert I really should’ve paid more attention during my lectures correct me if I’m wrong x
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
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So sorry you had to go through this! I hope one day you find peace with the past & can move on from the trauma it must have cost you ❣
 
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Hi guys, longtime lurker and I’m no expert but I did do a module on international law
the uk and uae do have an extradition treaty but whether he gets extradited back here depends on so many specifics like whether dubai also has laws against revenge porn and the minimum sentence for it in both countries etc
tbh I don’t think it’s at that stage yet even though he’s extending his holiday cause there’s so much bureaucracy it’d take ages (if I remember properly they have to go through the home office and stuff)

like I said I’m no expert I really should’ve paid more attention during my lectures correct me if I’m wrong x
I studied law for a year before realising it was too hard and changing my degree 😭😂 at this point he would have been contacted by police and asked to come in when hes home extradition only really comes in to it if u flee to that country to escape the crime or they think u may have done that so they will give him a few more months before it comes to that
 
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Bear is the type of guy who you pray your daughters will never meet. He’s incapable of love for anyone but himself. His like is a joke and so is he, karma will come.
 
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I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.
I couldn’t read this and say nothing. I’m so sad that this happened you. Lots of ❤ and healing to you xxx
 
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She's said so much now she should say nothing else. Deal with it in private instead of posting on social media things that he could use against her in a court room.

 
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Is he that desperate to make money that he's posted promoting his reveal me account cos he can't get anything from only fans atm?? Is he just tone deaf or just cocky af that he isn't guna get in tit for what's he done?
Cant stand the fishy smelling fucker 🤢
 
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Is he that desperate to make money that he's posted promoting his reveal me account cos he can't get anything from only fans atm?? Is he just tone deaf or just cocky af that he isn't guna get in tit for what's he done?
Cant stand the fishy smelling fucker 🤢
Desperate for cash for legal fees! Also he’s probably doing it to throw fuel into the fire, anything for a reaction, gob!!
 
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In true delusion of grandeur fashion he’s doing it for engagement and fury, he thrives on it . Truly disturbing
 
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