I’m so glad times are changing in how actual victims get treated. I think I had just turned 12 or 13 I’ve tried to block it out so sorry. But I was forced to perform a BJ on a gang member on our estate, I didn’t know at the time but he videoed it and blue toothed it to everyone. he was around 19-20 then. I think I was in year 7 or had gone into year 8 it was around November times. I missed the whole of year 8 year 9 and had to move to a new school, and leave the area as I was called a ag and bullied daily.
i never pressed charges as they’d sit outside my house waving knives about threatening me. Sadly my family wasn’t the best at protecting me and was more interested in the embarrassment I had caused. I’m in my late 20s now and still feel weird about it. I lost everything overnight my friends, my school, my home life, every thing. I remember people saying it was shown in the class room on a smart board byanother student and the teachers see it and went crazy and suspended the boy who streamed it. It went on YouTube and had to be removed. Worst thing is I was a Virgin at the time, didn’t know how to really give a BJ so was hit and told what to do. Never even had kissed a boy yet every one called me a ag.
people would ring my phone and say oh she’s answers she ain’t dead. Like it was just nuts.