Stephanie Yeboah #3

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I have a sneaky suspicion she's about to launch someone new. When she went on that day trip a few weeks ago, she posted a vid of her walking alongside a faceless guy (in terrible 2007-esque Topman shoes) and recently posted a Q+A where someone said they'd seen her out for dinner / on a date

Edited to add: although granted they could have both just been separate terrible dates 😅
One look at her social media would send any sane man running for the hills!
 
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Maybe I'm just a sad b but the thought of paying someone for a bag bewilders me. I have to come up with an excuse each night for his pen to leave me alone. And I'm an weird fucker. I think she thinks people don't like her because of her looks, even though she's attractive. They don't like you steph because you're a bleep and you're really annoying.
she hides behind not being ‘conventionally attractive’ for many things so that it’s never her fault - she has bad luck with men because they don’t fancy her etc. While I accept that modern dating can be a slog and there are a lot of awful men out there, I don’t believe how she looks is the sole factor. If that were true, what about her relationships with women? She doesn’t have any friends beyond other influencers who hype each other up in comments but never hang out. Women don’t form relationships with each other based on how we look. So how does her narrative work there? You’d think it would start clicking about who is the common denominator when it comes to being unable to form any personal relationships.
 
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Said it before and I'll say it again, what on earth is she on about when she says she is not conventionally attractive?!

I hope this is not insensitive and that I'm not using the wrong language but she makes out like she has significant facial differences from the typical person. Or like she looks really masculine in a world where women are expected to look ultra feminine. She is neither of those things. She has also lost a tit load of weight. What is she getting at????
 
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Said it before and I'll say it again, what on earth is she on about when she says she is not conventionally attractive?!

I hope this is not insensitive and that I'm not using the wrong language but she makes out like she has significant facial differences from the typical person. Or like she looks really masculine in a world where women are expected to look ultra feminine. She is neither of those things. She has also lost a tit load of weight. What is she getting at????
She’s genuinely not unattractive (physically at least) I think she just blames that when really the reason she has no boyfriend/friends is because she’s an obnoxious person
 
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She’s genuinely not unattractive (physically at least) I think she just blames that when really the reason she has no boyfriend/friends is because she’s an obnoxious person
I presume she's struggling to get any of the initial matches on dating apps and is putting is solely down to how she looks. On the off chance she does snag a date, I'm sure they will find her personality repellent enough to ensure there is no second date, especially once they find her social media pages.
 
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Said it before and I'll say it again, what on earth is she on about when she says she is not conventionally attractive?!

I hope this is not insensitive and that I'm not using the wrong language but she makes out like she has significant facial differences from the typical person. Or like she looks really masculine in a world where women are expected to look ultra feminine. She is neither of those things. She has also lost a tit load of weight. What is she getting at????
I was coming on to say the same thing! She is in no way unattractive! She never has been and now she’s lost weight (which whatever she says was 100% intentional) she definitely fits into the conventionally attractive bracket.

Her personality on the other hand… well, there lies the problem.
 
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I still don’t believe she didn’t lose all this weight intentionally. She looks fabulous and is a beautiful woman. But she just found out the hard way that her lack of a romantic life had nothing to do with her looks.
 

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I still don’t believe she didn’t lose all this weight intentionally. She looks fabulous and is a beautiful woman. But she just found out the hard way that her lack of a romantic life had nothing to do with her looks.
Agreed, she looks great but existing online with women blowing smoke up your a all day does not equate to finding the validation from men that she thinks will fawn over her the same way. I’m still surprised she can’t even get a bag on the apps though. I could have sex with a different bozo every night of the week if I had the energy for it (not bragging, there’s just a lot of men desperate for any female attention in the form of no strings attached sex). Dating via the apps is a lot harder as I imagine she’ll want a guy to pull out all the stops for the first date and that’s not how most men operate.
 
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Let’s be honest, she absolutely is not looking for no strings sex. Women can get that anywhere, you don’t even need an app just go out and try your luck. Obviously it will mostly be crap sex with a loser but it’s not difficult to find.
 
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Let’s be honest, she absolutely is not looking for no strings sex. Women can get that anywhere, you don’t even need an app just go out and try your luck. Obviously it will mostly be crap sex with a loser but it’s not difficult to find.
She would expect a very flashy first date where the man pulls out all the stops and picks up the tab. Fair enough but it’s going to be hard to find!
 
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Maybe I'm just a sad b but the thought of paying someone for a bag bewilders me. I have to come up with an excuse each night for his pen to leave me alone. And I'm an weird fucker. I think she thinks people don't like her because of her looks, even though she's attractive. They don't like you steph because you're a bleep and you're really annoying.
Hahaha same, I've never been thin or conventionally attractive and I've had a mile of fool in my 40 years (from some fit guys, no less,) and my fella (younger) can't keep his hands off me, much to my annoyance.

I mean, male attention is bleeping worthless but I've had loads of it, I'm told because I'm a laugh and pleasant to be around, in spite of being far from leading lady beautiful.

Almost like it's her defensive, chip-on-shoulder personality.

There's literally nothing wrong with how she looks at all and the only person getting in her own way is her.

I will add that every one of my long term partners I've met through a friend, and she doesn't have any of those either. Online dating is bleeping hell for everyone.
 
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Said it before and I'll say it again, what on earth is she on about when she says she is not conventionally attractive?!

I hope this is not insensitive and that I'm not using the wrong language but she makes out like she has significant facial differences from the typical person. Or like she looks really masculine in a world where women are expected to look ultra feminine. She is neither of those things. She has also lost a tit load of weight. What is she getting at????
she hides behind that ‘excuse’ because it’s easier to blame men being shallow than confront the fact that it might be her personality that puts potential dates off.
 
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Lose weight, gain weight or stay the same, it’s your body, no one cares or should comment. But when you’ve made your entire online personality about large acceptance, publicly troll others who lose weight from the large/body positive community in the past, and then act like obvious intentional weight loss isn’t by choice, go on to pose/edit pics to make yourself look even slimmer it’s a bit of a joke imo to claim you’re still too large, weird and unconventionally attractive. Fattily ever after indeed.
 
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Lose weight, gain weight or stay the same, it’s your body, no one cares or should comment. But when you’ve made your entire online personality about large acceptance, publicly troll others who lose weight from the large/body positive community in the past, and then act like obvious intentional weight loss isn’t by choice, go on to pose/edit pics to make yourself look even slimmer it’s a bit of a joke imo to claim you’re still too large, weird and unconventionally attractive. Fattily ever after indeed.
She trolled people directly who lost weight? That's a bit much! I do hope they give her some tit back for her obvious weight loss (even if she never mentions it and reckons she's still plus size which I don't really think she is anymore).
 
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I presume she's struggling to get any of the initial matches on dating apps and is putting is solely down to how she looks. On the off chance she does snag a date, I'm sure they will find her personality repellent to ensure there is no second date, especially once they find her social media pages.
And if they read her TERRIBLE book!
 
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And if they read her TERRIBLE book!
I think there's a very very unlikely chance of that ever happening, or at best, the first free chapter on amazon after they've had a disastrous first date with her and decide to go research some of the rit she was spewing about how great she is.
 
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After reading her anti-mounjaro drivel blog post I'm like a million per cent certain she's lost weight with a GLP1 drug too. Which is fine but don't lie about it 😂.
 
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