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Lurkeryaar

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This makes me laugh cos didn't she immediately posts multiple posts and blogs about how she was finally loved??
 
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Tittattattit

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Stephanie is delusional.

She used to spend all her time attempting to gatekeep the plus size community and complaining about mid sizes and smaller fats taking up space and now she is doing just that.

Collaborating and promoting brands (e.g FCUK) who don't have extended sizing to the big girl community she built her following off?
LOL, she didn't even try and pretend.

Can't blame the big girls for moving on.
 
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queenofsheba1234

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Why don’t you try actually being in a real relationship first Steph, before you start worrying about quality of sperm?
being in a relationship with someone in the same continent would be a start…

It’s also insensitive because even if a couple’s issues *are* due to the sperm, you shouldn’t demonise the man for it, surely she wouldn’t demonise a woman because of issues with her eggs or womb. Infertility is heartbreaking and soul crushing, and if you love your male partner and want a family with him but can’t - that’s a difficult road to navigate. IVF isn’t available/affordable for everyone after all.

It’s not as simple as ‘find a younger man’. You can’t trivialise such a serious issue with flippant, uniformed comments because of your own bitterness - but I guess that’s her in a nutshell!
 
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SpritneyBeers

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It's such a weird mindset and a fast track to being miserable. Sometimes in life you just get what you get, sometimes there's no reason and sometimes it's because you're a dickhead.

It's especially wild since she's already had a reach far beyond her capabilities. She's not a good writer. She dresses well enough. She appears to be quite unremarkable in many ways, which is fine. Her expectations are so out of whack with reality. If I was her I'd be grateful for, and making the most of the success I'd been given.
right. she already has a life where she doesn't have to work a 9 to 5 job, gets free holidays and has been given the opportunity to publish books just because of her social media following. That's a lot more than many people have, enjoy it!
 
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But she posts pictures of her new body all the time 🤔
I think because she doesn’t post it in a “before and after” way she thinks she’s immune. Good for you losing weight Steph, whatever the reason (clearly the gym would make someone at least drop a few lbs), but to not address it, continue to act all high & mighty about other people losing weight and continue to act like the authoritative voice of the plus size movement is a bit of a sham.
 
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frillylilly

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I agree that it’s worth having conversations about miscarriages and fertility issues that bring men into it all - but that conversation being lead by Steph?

Maybe my judgement is tainted but I find it hard to believe she ever wants to have conversations in good faith or to be useful as I feel like everything she says is always tinged with a sneering, bitter ‘gotcha’ tone
 
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SpritneyBeers

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saw this tweet (or whatever it is called on threads) from her which I find so weird. very patronizing, what did this person say to suggest it's affecting her mental health? and hasn't she (Steph)complained about this exact thing repeatedly??

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nothanksbabes

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It's such incel talk. I've been a fat woman, and the world can be a deeply unpleasant place, but you only have to look around for ten seconds to see that people of all shapes, sizes, races and appearances are in relationships or married.

Her personality is by far the most unattractive thing about her.
 
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thepantsqueen

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She really needs to let go of being obsessed with the plus size community when she literally is no longer one.
 
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queenofsheba1234

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The thing is that ‘unconventionally attractive’ people find love all the time. I guess it’s harder to accept the idea that maybe something about you and how you are in relationships is what is going wrong, it’s easier to just say that you aren’t pretty enough and it’s everyone else’s fault.
 
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nothanksbabes

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She seems such hard work. People don't want to be friends with someone who is difficult to be around, who is always miserable, or who they have to walk on eggshells with.

She's not as bright or insightful as she thinks she is and is the sort of person who always has to have it worse than everyone else. There are plenty of people on earth who are fatphobic, racist and a whole collection of other dickhead traits, but if your entire outlook is "PEOPLE HATE ME BECAUSE I'M FAR AND NOT 'CONVENTIONALLY ATTRACTIVE', LET'S TALK ABOUT IT ON THE INTERNET!" they're exactly the people you're going to find.
 
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Lorelei

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Imagine creating a brand so toxic that you have to upload multiple stories pretty much apologising for getting engaged. Upcoming wedding content is goi g to be HYSTERICAL. Also - most of us learned about 15 years ago that gloating online about your happy ever after will haunt you for the rest of your life.
 
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queenofsheba1234

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So to summarise:

‘My book flopped because I’m not a great writer but it’s the plus size community’s fault for not supporting it’

‘I pick and choose being a part of the plus size community when it suits me, despite quietly losing weight and never mentioning my shrinking body when my audience/career was built on body positivity - but they should buy my shit’
 
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SpritneyBeers

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She has such a chip on her shoulder. Im surprised she’s found anyone that wants to date this misery !
Well, she hasn't really. It's a fantasy relationship with someone she never sees. Each to their own but I can't fathom being an adult in your 30s and "engaged" to someone you've never even lived with
 
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