Hard disagree.
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Her skin is literally flawless
She heavily filters her photos- don’t be fooled. She has dark circles under her eyes and a lot of hyperpigmentation.
This. and she been very open about her skin.
This woman is practically a contortionist the way she is trying so hard not to discuss major weight loss but desperately trying to hold on to the body positivity usp. Definitely not walking the talk!!!!
Her body still isn’t socially acceptable. Shes not slim and still shaped like an upside down triangle. Her ego is off the charts
Now she’s saying that “the majority of miscarriages are down to poor quality sperm”??
She’s an awful person. To be flippantly throwing things out there about an experience that is so tough and heartbreaking just for some attention is gross.
She needs professional help.
She’s an awful person. To be flippantly throwing things out there about an experience that is so tough and heartbreaking just for some attention is gross.
She needs professional help.
she clearly expected to be settled and have kids by her age and hasn’t, which she’s bitter about. It’s fine to be disappointed about that, it can be really hard when you want a baby but don’t have the stability or partner you had hoped for, but it’s a strange way to let off steam about it. Maybe she’s thinking about women’s eggs deteriorating as they get older and trying to deflect onto men.
I hope she gets called out for those comments. What are insensitive and strange thing to say just to make yourself a viral sensation
It’s just all spoken from the point of view of someone who’s never experienced a miscarriage or fertility issues beyond not having a baby because she hasn’t found the right relationship.
There is a huge difference between experiencing miscarriage due to awful luck and it literally “just happening” and repeated losses due to fertility challenges.
And then wrapping it up by saying “ladies just catch a younger man!”
I hope she’s catching heat in her dms. I’ve found her an unpleasant person for a while now but have always tried to exercise a bit of empathy but not now.
There is a huge difference between experiencing miscarriage due to awful luck and it literally “just happening” and repeated losses due to fertility challenges.
And then wrapping it up by saying “ladies just catch a younger man!”
I hope she’s catching heat in her dms. I’ve found her an unpleasant person for a while now but have always tried to exercise a bit of empathy but not now.
Why does this entitled wick want a three bedroom house for free? Are the other two rooms for her ego and entitled attitude?
Re: her poorly thought out sperm quality post:
1) Why is she talking to men on her stories to ask whether they consider testing their sperm quality? I can’t imagine many if any men follow her so who is she expecting to answer her?
2) As she full well knows, the dating market is hard enough without demanding that a new partner undergoes a sperm quality test on date three. That would surely send them running for the hills.
Re: her poorly thought out sperm quality post:
1) Why is she talking to men on her stories to ask whether they consider testing their sperm quality? I can’t imagine many if any men follow her so who is she expecting to answer her?
2) As she full well knows, the dating market is hard enough without demanding that a new partner undergoes a sperm quality test on date three. That would surely send them running for the hills.
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Why don’t you try actually being in a real relationship first Steph, before you start worrying about quality of sperm?
being in a relationship with someone in the same continent would be a start…
It’s also insensitive because even if a couple’s issues *are* due to the sperm, you shouldn’t demonise the man for it, surely she wouldn’t demonise a woman because of issues with her eggs or womb. Infertility is heartbreaking and soul crushing, and if you love your male partner and want a family with him but can’t - that’s a difficult road to navigate. IVF isn’t available/affordable for everyone after all.
It’s not as simple as ‘find a younger man’. You can’t trivialise such a serious issue with flippant, uniformed comments because of your own bitterness - but I guess that’s her in a nutshell!
She is circling an actual point. Fertility issues have historically been blamed on women, and I see lots of posts online talking about women's fertility declining sharply at 30 when neither of those things are strictly true and actually, sperm quality also declines rapidly and there are studies that show women at 40 have a good chance of conceiving naturally if their partner is younger than them.
Miscarriages, especially recurrent ones, have been by poor sperm quality and DNA damage, and I think most men don't really consider this and assume that just because they technically can reproduce into old age that their fertility isn't an issue, unlike for women where it's shoved down our throats constantly and there's all this online talk of them being "expired" at 30.
I see a huge amount of manosphere and red pill types calling single women worthless after 25 because their fertility has declined when the reality is women have always had and still are having babies into their 40s (it's just more likely to be a first or second baby now, rather than a fifth or sixth).
I don't know what's triggered her because I don't follow her but there is a grain of truth there. A stopped clock and all that.
Miscarriages, especially recurrent ones, have been by poor sperm quality and DNA damage, and I think most men don't really consider this and assume that just because they technically can reproduce into old age that their fertility isn't an issue, unlike for women where it's shoved down our throats constantly and there's all this online talk of them being "expired" at 30.
I see a huge amount of manosphere and red pill types calling single women worthless after 25 because their fertility has declined when the reality is women have always had and still are having babies into their 40s (it's just more likely to be a first or second baby now, rather than a fifth or sixth).
I don't know what's triggered her because I don't follow her but there is a grain of truth there. A stopped clock and all that.
I agree that it’s worth having conversations about miscarriages and fertility issues that bring men into it all - but that conversation being lead by Steph?
Maybe my judgement is tainted but I find it hard to believe she ever wants to have conversations in good faith or to be useful as I feel like everything she says is always tinged with a sneering, bitter ‘gotcha’ tone
Maybe my judgement is tainted but I find it hard to believe she ever wants to have conversations in good faith or to be useful as I feel like everything she says is always tinged with a sneering, bitter ‘gotcha’ tone
She just wants to point the blame at everyone other than her self. She's not suggesting these conversations for any reason other than to big up herself.
Oh totally, she's not interested in anything beyond centering herself as the victim having the last word.
She'd be much happier if she went offline and lived a life in the real world.
She is just so utterly tragic. Being chronically online has made her personality issues so much worse .
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That bleeping wig needs to go in the bin
she nicked this off tiktok (the original did it better)
Unable to come up with any content herself as per. In her flop era.