Who has a screenshot and can date the screenshot - the one where Kai sent loaf a message saying “stay safe” and she was all “oh my kid is so sweet”
I think that would add to timeline construction - but that screenshot also would unfortunately help Loaf add to any DV claims which really seems like she will go down
Kai’s Snapchat. Wow. Sophie your kid wants the TRUTH out there and the truth is and you said it yourself you are a yes Mum that gave your kids no boundaries because it was your number one value first - freedom - so yes of course you can do that, have that etc. Andrew enforced rules and demanded respect and your son didn’t like it.
I agree Andrew would have said don’t dare bring drugs into the house or come home under the influence. Having girls is so different to girls.
If your parents give you too much leeway as a teen then you do try drugs - speaking as someone who grew up on the GC and had tried it all by age 16 (except sticking a needle in my arm, nobody in that circle did that and I shudder to think would I have tried it if they did?)
When I look back though I’m glad I tried it then, because I have friends who tried it later in life, 20’s, 30’s and now in our 40’s and some have serious addictions - because as adults we have money. As a teen we didn’t.
I make our kids watch documentaries on drugs and alcoholism - they are old enough to comprehend and definitely at the age that it’s going to be offered any day (for at least one child anyway) They like the eye opener, are actually horrified at how things are cooked and the appearance of people’s teeth etc and are so health conscious. My style of parenting isn’t for anyone but we don’t hide anything from our kids, they have a very firm grasp on reality vs social media etc.
so good
