With JSG my personal feeling is that she just needs to be the best, all the time, at everything. She’s the best mum, she got pregnant the first time they tried, she is the best friend and family member as she looks after her mum etc. It’s exhausting.
Personally I don’t really care if she needs, and I mean NEEDS, to validate herself in relation to her motherhood via self indulgent Instagram posts. I don’t have kids but this 100% my own choice, through the fact I don’t want kids. Ever. Partner of 12 years is completely on the same page with this. I don’t post this over Insta or ram it down my friends/family throat: it’s my choice. Much like her having 2 or 22 kids is her choice. Nothing that JSG writes on a blog will ever make me feel less proud of any of my achievements just because I’ve chosen not to birth a child. I mean wtf is that?!
I just wish she could genuinely be proud of her achievements without the need to preach to us all.