Hate to admit it but yeh I think you did hit a nerve. Just trying to slap myself into accountability. Sorry if that came out as wrong as it clearly did. I’m a right gobby cunt sometimes. I’m just tired of failing at every diet I’m trying. They all feel the same to me.
that bit about Swiss roll farts did make me laugh though
Accountability is one of the hardest things with weightloss and something many other us struggle with I think.
Not presuming, but something many people don't realise is that for a 'diet' to work you need to heal the issues you have around food.
What causes you to over eat, what triggers binges etc.
For some people it can be as simple as remembering to meal prep so healthy food fits in a busy schedule.
But for others like myself issues may run deeper.
I grew up in a dysfunctional and abusive home. As a child I used food as comfort. This was something I could never shake off as an adult.
So I eventually realised that whether i did keto, SW, WW if something stressed or upset i'd be straight on justeat.
The things is though I now believe that to truely get a grip on your weight to secret is to stay away from diets and weightloss groups. Diets were making my food relationship worse by giving me fear foods and making me feel more guilty.
Sustainable weightloss can be found through psychological work, routine in meals and enjoying everything in moderation.
3 meals a day maybe a snack or 2 within calorie deficit.
Eat what you enjoy and has healthy as you can.
Don't enjoy shovelling in speed? Don't! You can do eat veg or fruit in other ways.
Hate fat free yoghurt? Have full fat! Hate full fat yoghurt? Have fat free!
If it makes you happy and in calorie deficit go for it.
If its not in your calorie deficit? So what!
If you only lose 2lb in a month? Who gives a fuck its progress. Stay consistant next month you might lose 7.
Our bodies don't work in a 7 day cycle and not seeing a drop on the scale at the end of a week is not failure.
We need to be kinder to ourselves.