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I went on a trip to NYC last month and many of my colleagues were horrified to hear I was going ALONE :eek: Who would I spend time with, eat at restaurants with, travel with? ME! I love my own company, and I got to do what I wanted, when I wanted! I tried lobster for the first time, went to some of the same shops multiple times (without annoying anyone else), got lots of uninterrupted sleep.
I went to NYC alone a year ago and had a great time too! It's so busy there no one even notices if you're alone.
 
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It's crazy how men have
sex with 20+ women yet they still can't unlatch a bra, find our clit, or make us orgasm.
But they now let us pay even though we make less. They're making great progress to understand us. /s
 
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How are we all doing singletons!! Keeping Love Honey in business I hope?

Thought I'd pop in as I went to the cinema on Tuesday with my friend and her partner. It was a "de lux" showcase, and I found it hugely annoying that the seats are sold in twos (with the middle arm rest removed so you can cosy on up, and swinging table arms either side). Ended up in a 'cuddle' seat next to a complete stranger throwing her popcorn into the air at every jumpscare 🥴 Will be opting for the recliner seats instead next time!
 
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the glow of jack grealish's face on my phone background is the closest I'll get to a relationship 😭
 
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I tried dating for a little while but it is exhausting. I am happy to be single forever tbh lmao. I can’t be arsed
 
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I'm not going to go out of my way to date, but if it happens then it happens, although I can't imagine myself dating a woman anytime soon, and I'm quite picky with men I'd be okay dating, so 🤷‍♂️

(I'm a bisexual man, if the above is confusing).
 
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I tried dating for a little while but it is exhausting. I am happy to be single forever tbh lmao. I can’t be arsed

Same :ROFLMAO: I'm an all or nothing girl, I either have a devastating crush on one person or I'm not interested in anyone. I wouldn't have the energy to be half heartedly interested in several people and date them
 
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I haven't been on this thread for a while but I'm still happily single and doing lots of solo trips - loving it!

Also here with a book recommendation that I think people here will love: Arrangements in Blue by Amy Key. It's amazing and it's so validating. Really hope more books come out like this!

When poet Amy Key was growing up, she looked forward to a life shaped by romance, fuelled by desire, longing and the conventional markers of success that come when you share a life with another person. But that didn't happen for her. Now in her forties, she sets out to explore the realities of a life lived in the absence of romantic love.

Using Joni Mitchell's seminal album Blue - which shaped Key's expectations of love - as an anchor, Arrangements in Blue elegantly honours a life lived completely by, and for, oneself. Building a home, travelling alone, choosing whether to be a mother, recognising her own milestones, learning the limits of self-care and the expansive potential of self-friendship, Key uncovers the many forms of connection and care that often go unnoticed.

With profound candour and intimacy, Arrangements in Blue explores the painful feelings we are usually too ashamed to discuss: loneliness, envy, grief and failure. The result is a book which inspires us to live and love more honestly.


 
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Still single 🙃 download hinge, see the same old faces, no matches, get bored and delete if the next morning. Same with bumble and tinder. I just can’t be arsed online dating 👀
 
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How are we all doing singletons!! Keeping Love Honey in business I hope?

Thought I'd pop in as I went to the cinema on Tuesday with my friend and her partner. It was a "de lux" showcase, and I found it hugely annoying that the seats are sold in twos (with the middle arm rest removed so you can cosy on up, and swinging table arms either side). Ended up in a 'cuddle' seat next to a complete stranger throwing her popcorn into the air at every jumpscare 🥴 Will be opting for the recliner seats instead next time!
Sorry I know it’s crap that there’s no options for singles, but this has seriously cracked me up 😭😆!!! Not a cuddle seat with a stranger 🫣😬! I can’t stop laughing.
 
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Will this thread get shut down if we recommend our love honey (other shops available) purchases Because everyone needs to know about the satisfyer 2
My friend recommended the womanizer back in lockdown and let's just say....that might have been the final nail in my single-by-choice coffin. Why on earth do I need a partner - I've got all bases covered! (And no man can compete with that thing...)
 
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My friend recommended the womanizer back in lockdown and let's just say....that might have been the final nail in my single-by-choice coffin. Why on earth do I need a partner - I've got all bases covered! (And no man can compete with that thing...)
I’ve heard a lot about that! Decided to get the other one as it was the cheaper option. But often wondered if the one you have is better!
 
downloaded apps for a week or less this year, spoke to one person, remembered I currently have better things to do with my time and past bad experiences online dating and deleted them all. I don't want to date just to date. If a good guy is meant to find me it will happen - I can't be bothered otherwise
 
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