My previous cat Freddy was a boy. I think he did prefer female over male company. He was also extremely affectionate and wasnt shy to be so. Our cat Bella is much more reserved with her affections - she is affectionate but its on her terms. Freddy always came for a fuss if i was around or came to greet me when i got home from work but Bella doesnt do this. She will say hello when she is ready to do so.
She is affectionate but equally aloof . She loves us but doesnt make it so obvious whereas Freddy made his affections known.
Photos of our cute little girl
That being said she was nervous nelly when we first brought her home - and almost a year later she has become a lapcat. She usually makes herself at home on my lap most evenings which im happy about ( although not so much when i need the loo or she gives me a deadleg). All the same i am chuffed feels comfortable enough to do this.