Sex scenes

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They don’t bother me, but I don’t think all the scenes in Bridgerton were necessary. IMO it was all for column inches and press attention.
 
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I find, for the most part, they are entirely unnecessary and just serve to slow the plot down. Or, they are there to distract from a weak plot and just get very boring.

Sometimes they work, though. Did anyone used to watch Versailles? Lots of sex in the first series but it worked because they were presented in a way to demonstrate the debauchery of the palace. I thought that was fine.

I always roll my eyes at how easy it is for all the women to just have sex at the drop of a hat, though. None of them ever seem to require foreplay or need to be in the mood at all, which is handy 😂
 
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I find them pretty dull but I always wonder more about how they do it, are the actually naked and touching? How does he stop himself having an erection? My mind wonders!

This is a pretty interesting article going more in-depth of how they shoot sex scenes.
 
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Dull and usually unnecessary to the plot. I used to get so embarrassed watching sex scenes with my parents, the atmosphere was so uncomfortable. I still feel like this now to be honest.

With my own children when this happened I think I said something along the lines of ‘who’s embarrassed enough to go make some tea’ and so it broke the ice and it became our joke from there on in.
 
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It depends on what I am watching and the plot. If you watch 50 shades of grey you expect sex scenes because of the plot. I am watching Bridgerton at the moment and do think there is too much sex in it. I am not a prude :ROFLMAO: I thought the sex scene right at the start was a bit much.
 
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We once stuck wolf of wall Street on when my father in law was round. We had never seen it and the first scene when he's sniffing coke out of her a. I wanted to die.
 
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Now I'm older I can see that some nude stuff in films might be creepy directors gettings kicks. Titanic would still have had the same box office impact had kate winslet not exposed her clackers.
 
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Now I'm older I can see that some nude stuff in films might be creepy directors gettings kicks. Titanic would still have had the same box office impact had kate winslet not exposed her clackers.
I agree with you about the creepy director using required nude scenes for their own titillation. Kate went on to regret that scene.

Despite going on to do several other nude scenes in a number of her subsequent movies, Winslet has expressed that her first one in “Titanic” was one she always regretted because of the fact that she was young and insecure and wanted to do anything to get famous, even something she was absolutely not comfortable with.
 
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They don't bother me

It's when American Pie is on when you're sat with your fellas Mum and he sticks his fool into the pie 🤣 cringe
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My mum walked past my bedroom when I was sneakily watching American pie and was like “no you can’t watch this!!” And turned it off. After that I use to have to stick head phones in the tv to watch it and stick my head right forward (as there was a gap between my bed and tv). It was very uncomfortable but worth it 😂
 
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I always find it fascinating that we sometimes feel incredibly awkward/uncomfortable watching sex scenes in front of the oldies despite it being the most natural thing in the world. And yet we don't really mind watching people being shot, stabbed and generally buggered about with in horror/thriller films.

For example, a few days ago I watched "Evil Dead 2" with my parents, and despite all the gore and decapitations we really enjoyed it. And yet if I had suggested we watch "Desert Hearts" or "Blue is the Warmest Colour" they would have probably said no due to the nudity and girl-on-girl sex scenes.

Violence and gore - ok
Sex - not so much
 
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I always find it fascinating that we sometimes feel incredibly awkward/uncomfortable watching sex scenes in front of the oldies despite it being the most natural thing in the world. And yet we don't really mind watching people being shot, stabbed and generally buggered about with in horror/thriller films.

For example, a few days ago I watched "Evil Dead 2" with my parents, and despite all the gore and decapitations we really enjoyed it. And yet if I had suggested we watch "Desert Hearts" or "Blue is the Warmest Colour" they would have probably said no due to the nudity and girl-on-girl sex scenes.

Violence and gore - ok
Sex - not so much
Yes its a strange one, but I suppose its the intimacy of sex where as I don't feel any intimacy watching violent scenes.
 
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Most of them are unnecessary and add nothing to the plot. I could live without them, and I can think of nothing more awkward than watching one with your parents, grandparents, or older children.

I’m not a prude, I just don’t need to see it all the time.
 
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I remember watching grease when I was little with my family and being so embarrassed when the scene came on with Kenickie and Betty getting it on in the car 😂 it was the sounds Kenickie was making that made it worse.

I also remember being around 13/14 and watching American Pie with my mum and brother, it was the scene where the girls boyfriend was going down on her 😱 my mum turned round and said “right I think that’s enough now” and turned it off 😂

Fifty shades although I enjoyed the books it was the films I didn’t like, found it really cringe, same as 365 days, the actor is seriously good looking but I skipped a lot of the scenes and that was me watching it on my own 😂
 
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I like the sex scenes in Girls as they're usually painfully awkward and serve a purpose to the story. The best one is the first time (I think) Adam and Hanna hook up and you see her struggling with her tights. I hate the obviously fake sex scenes when it's someone always shagging up a wall, fully clothed, and we're expected to believe it all got lined up on the first thrust. OH, and what REALLY annoys me is the woman keeping her bra on and IMMEDIATELY wrapping herself in the sheet post coital. If you're not gonna show nip then just don't do a sex scene.
 
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I actually like them if done tastefully 😂 I liked bridgerton but my god it was like as soon as he put it in she was reaching orgasm 🙄😂
I said that to my husband!! I swear one of the scenes they were just kissing and she looked like she was reaching!
 
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I find them pretty dull but I always wonder more about how they do it, are the actually naked and touching? How does he stop himself having an erection? My mind wonders!
This is what I wonder too... I am an oldie and these things are common these days but knowing a thing or two..I wonder. My hubby said they cant get worked up that much with all the hot lights and cameras and the microphone stuck over them and all the production team standing about waiting for tea break.... so I also wonders who is right :cool:
 
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I hate them! I find them so unnecessary and cringey. They could miss out the sex scenes and the plot of the show or movie would be fine without it.
Even as an adult I still find it very awkward and cringey if a sex scene is on TV and my Mum is also there. Just no.
 
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I love them! I only ever watch TV or films with my husband so usually I'm cracking up laughing or he is getting ideas. The funniest was 365 days on netflix which was just a cringe porno. It brightened up a lockdown day last summer anyway!
 
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As my handle and avatar here suggests, I am a big fan of the film "Mulholland Drive". A film of which contains a fairly tasteful les love scene.

However, I did read a behind-the-scenes interview with one of its stars, Naomi Watts (the woman on the right in my avatar pic). She said she found it incredibly difficult to perform a necessary self scene near the end of the film. So much so the director - David Lynch - had the scene closed off to only one cameraman, a lighting guy, sound man and Lynch himself. But even then she found it hugely difficult to "perform"

And yet in the same interview she said she didn't have a problem with the nude les scene with Laura Harring (woman on the left in my avatar pic)
 
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I just find them utterly pointless and 99% of times they are in the film just to get some media presence.
 
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