@NotPBW
Do you use protection or go bareback?
Do you use protection or go bareback?
So you’re expecting the girl to go through with all of this and risk not getting paid at the end? I would no way accept payment at the end. I understand your point completely re them potentially doing a runner but there has to be some compromise surely; most women would want payment upfront from a man they’d never met before surely?Overnight is what I ask for. If a girl wants £££ for a couple hours, well that's the hooker experience and rates, and that's not what I'm after. It's not worth the journey to me, simply for that.
The girl will usually leave at check out with me after breakfast, and of course being a man, after another morning 'round' or two in bed as well.
I know how that sounds, and Bonnie Bisou will be thinking I really take my pound of flesh, but I want to be honest, and I'm not pretending to be an angel.
So in keeping with honesty, yes, whosthischick, it is usually just one meeting. However, that said, I have a type, and if she checks all my boxes, then I'm going to want to see her again. By type, I don't just mean blonde or brunette or whatever, but a twinkle in her eye and funny. Whilst I appreciate a beautiful woman the same as any other man, the 'ice maiden' performance isn't one that I like to be around for any extended period. I like what I call the 'Goldie Hawn's, the pretty but mischievous types, who are just fun to be around.
Re money, as per leavemealone's experience, I give in a envelope at the end of the date. At the end as I've heard stories of girls getting the money and doing a runner i.e. goes to powder her nose at the bar/restaurant and never returns, or does a runner from the hotel room while you're in the bathroom. The money is cash and £20 notes. £20s for a couple of reasons: 1) It's easier for her to use without questions as to where she's suddenly getting £50 bills from 2) £500 in £20 notes looks way more than in £50 notes, and it's better 'psychologically' for want of a better term, and again, to be honest, it's just better 'theatre'.