Not related to anything but I was in Brighton with my little sister. The store there had named their wifi unprotectedCex.My old smart phone, gave up the ghost earlier this year. Instead of buying a new one, I managed to get a second hand one at Cex. So far, it has been working really well.
No kid plays with Grimma rainbows. They are for parents to buy to think they are better than everyone else. Fact.
I also love you and your #makingmemories huns. Agree COMPLETELY about the pressure to do events, I’m picking and choosing what we want to do and what we as a family enjoy. I’m going to sound vile but in the same way I wouldn’t let these people pressure me into going on holiday to Dubai, I’m not driving all the way to Kent to sit on a de commissioned southeastern train rattling down 500 feet of railway and pretending I can’t see the old velour chairs were all sat on. For £40 a pop? It’s insanity.When we had our little one I bought has much second hand as I could - even loads of his cloth nappies were eBay finds. We're not planning to have another child so I've tried to pass most of it on to other new parents, but they're not interested and want to buy everything new! I also get some funny comments for having put him in cloth nappies but that's a whole other discussion
Does anyone have good tips for sustainable Christmas gifting (especially when you're broke due to childcare costs!)? I'm only planning to buy gifts for immediate family and will mostly get them bar soaps, refillable bottles of body lotion etc. My sisters are quite a bit younger (early 20s) and into their vintage fashion so I'm going to scour Depop for a couple of cool bits for them.
But already the Christmas pressure is so intense! We're on an economy drive atm but I'm being asked what Christmas 'events' we're going to take our son to/what expensive presents we're going to get him. They all cost a fortune! He's only two and is used to most of his toys/clothes being second hand so I have no worries that he'll be totally unfussed. But the judgement from the m/c #makingmemories mums is something else.
I was raised Jewish but the last few years my family have got really into Christmas so this is still bewildering to me!
No kid plays with Grimma rainbows. They are for parents to buy to think they are better than everyone else. Fact.Have also noticed that there tend to be lots of the same thing in the secondary market, my LO is much younger but I see SO much VGUC Grimms being resold - surely this just means no child is actually playing with the stuff?!
On guilt - second hand gifting feels like it’s less spoken about than other issues? It definitely has more of a stigma than day to day purchases but it’s so needless. The brainwashing we’ve all gone through to want to consume has a lot to answer for!
I always feel like this when I go to Homesense. I love it for a nose and I know all shops are full of STUFF but I honestly go in and think who needs ANY of this stuff? I'm not talking about plates or duvets or actual usefull daily household items. Just statues and bookends shaped like globes and all the stuff that you see in there every single time.I just feel like there is so much STUFF in the world now, surely there is enough second hand to go round.
I’ve been buying stuff on eBay for years, before being sustainable was talked about really and my old friends always turned their nose up and scoffed, said it was disgusting that I would wear clothes that had come from someone else’s house. 2 of them now by off depop and all those sites. One of them has bought her baby’s clothes off there. Don’t get me wrong I’m glad but a part of me wanted to say to them sarcastically “yes im sorry dancing Queen for being rude to you about your second hand clothes!”I always feel like this when I go to Homesense. I love it for a nose and I know all shops are full of STUFF but I honestly go in and think who needs ANY of this stuff? I'm not talking about plates or duvets or actual usefull daily household items. Just statues and bookends shaped like globes and all the stuff that you see in there every single time.
People have a really weird attitude to second hand clothes sometimes. I have a really nice down coat that cost me £10 from ebay and I get a lot of compliments about it, anytime I say its from ebay people are all ooh I don't have time for ebay, its too much of a faff etc.
My friend got her wedding dress second hand for £50! It was a beautiful dress and as it was so cheap she was happy to spend a bit on getting alterations done to make it perfect for her!I’m considering sourcing my wedding dress “preloved”
From one of those re-sell boutiques.
my mum was horrified when I said I would like a 2nd hand dress for eco reasons. I think she thinks I’m just being frugal.
Me too! Just discovered Vinted and I’ve brought some lovely things for myself and my kids, also started selling some bits on their now.Love eBay for clothes! Or Vinted
I think this is so cool, it’s also going to give you SO much more choice then if you bought new! You could find something really unique. I’d be tempted to find your one then take it to your mum as proof of concept, cos she may think you’re going to only be able to find princess di inspired numbers lolI’m considering sourcing my wedding dress “preloved”
From one of those re-sell boutiques.
my mum was horrified when I said I would like a 2nd hand dress for eco reasons. I think she thinks I’m just being frugal.
I felt like this when I was searching for a specific Columbia fleece (lol) and ended up on ASOS, it’s been years and years since I bought from there (used to buy a lot, and frequently!) and I thought omg the volume of just everything is obscene.I love it for a nose and I know all shops are full of STUFF but I honestly go in and think who needs ANY of this stuff?
Primark is always priced high currently, and no idea why?I really want to charity shop more but the ones here are so expensive and not great at sorting out the crap - Primark tops from two seasons ago sold for £6 when they’d be £8 brand new; furniture is at least £35 for something you could get similar for in ikea for under £25 and the kids toys are grubby and in bad condition. I’ve got some good books and games/puzzles from there which are reasonable but it’s certainly not a realistic way for me to be sustainable.
I’m Jewish too! We only buy for our son and not each other.I was raised Jewish but the last few years my family have got really into Christmas so this is still bewildering to me!
We limit what our son is in too; we kept him away from paw patrol as long as we could. He only started watching screens during lockdown! I also limit what toys he has too otherwise the house is just a mess with them. He loves monsters trucks and paw patrol, so that’s all we are having at the moment.I love you / this.
Re paw patrol - I guess it’s a double edged sword, it’s good it retains its value as if you want to resell it, it’s an option, but navigating reselling is such hell that most people would sooner regift it so don’t benefit from that. I’m dreading when my LO wants those licensed plastic toys