Hello - dipping in and out of here today as I am at the job I do not have - stuffing my face with cake and McDonalds as I am a fat C and a disgusting piece of work!!
As many have said - we all have different opinions on things. From my viewpoint I see it as this.......
Ruth and Kerry seem like nice and decent people. Nice homes, nice families etc. When you first watch Shazza she is quite entertaining. I found her quite funny and okay to watch when I first did. This was before I knew anything about stolen charity money and all the other things she had done I hasten to add.
Once I popped over to the "dark side" here
and more and more came out about Shazza I was appalled. I continued to watch her - for my own amusement, but in the end it became too much. The disgraceful way she has treated so many people.
I am a very strong, independent and self confident person. (Golly who does that sound like
!) but I am. I was on my own for many years when my children were growing up and worked as hard as I could to ensure I kept my home and a decent lifestyle.
I then met a man who was a narcissist - which I did not know at the time. When I look back and see how I behaved - which was like a shrinking violet - which is totally out of character for me. I was pretty much told what to laugh at and if he didn't find something funny then how the hell could I and why should I laugh etc. I recognised a bit of that when Shazza was telling Ruth about the good time "they" were having when they were having lunch that afternoon in Benidorm. When we are in these situations we actually do not know what is right or wrong, what is good or bad. We get sucked in and we want to get out but don't know how to. Then they show us a good time and you have fun and see a "pleasant" side of them, but it never ever lasts. I do not know the "ins and outs" of what happened with Kerry/Ruth/Tina/Nicky but I can guess that some of the time it was such fun with Shazza they were blinded to see the bad times. I am not making excuses at all for any of it, but I know some of the decisions I made when I was with my ex-partner I am ashamed and cannot believe I did them.
As for Shazza - she really does need help. She will not grow or improve on herself without it. The delusional attitude is a scary and frightening thing. The way she actually just wants to be on holiday and expects everyone to do the things she wants to do is a massive trait of this. All about me me me me me. Shazza you do need friends. You do not have any friends, other than people you have known a short time via TT. Someone like SP is not your type or usual style of friend. She herself has her own massive bullying issues and she also needs to seek help.
Anyway, as has been said earlier, we all have our all different views of how things happened/are, but lets not forget the common denominator is Shazza and the way she treats people who come into her life. I also believe that for Shazza to behave the way she does and cuts people off is a deep rooted problem/issue she has with what has gone on in her family life etc.
There is no excuse of stealing charity money/withholding furlough pay etc. and this must still be addressed.
Take a look at yourself Shazza. Take YOUR rose tinted glasses off.
Here ends the sermon for today