Totally agree. Maybe that’s cos one drink wouldn’t do anything to help unwind me lol. I’ve barely had a drink since I had first 5 years ago and never really understood how people miss it when pregnant. I’m another who worries about what if the kids get sick etc. We’ve had to take kid to a and e and we could drive. He was ill and admitted but not needing an ambulance. I would have been mortified if I had had to get an ambulance cos I’d had a drink when they were in my care - the drink would result in my care being slightly less. In my view. But that’s not the point here really. The point is she has nights out which would not be a one drink affair and then drives after. Would need 12 hours to be legal to drive.I think it’s a shame if you feel you have to have a drink to unwind but that’s just my view, and if she really has no one close by to help in an emergency why would you risk it? Seems crazy to me but we all parent differently