duck me. Stick up panelling , shop for your sofas, shop for candles (or get gifted candles ) , moan about work but not take any time off... or .. focus on and support your kids during a global pandemic ..
This, all this!! I think breaking point will come in September when he starts school. Hes gonna lose his attachment to the one lot of people who care about him in nursery. Im assuming school wont treat him like royalty like Ive heard the nursery do. Hes gonna be so lost come September and I think thats when his biggest meltdowns will happen and I doubt Sarah has even prepared him for the change thats about it happen.She seriously needs a wake up call.
But I don’t think she can see beyond her chin. Superficial selfish head.
rob and Sarah are horrific to lachlan. How they have treated him since he arrived is Truley shocking. I don’t throw the word abuse around lightly. But I genuinely think Lachlan is being emotionally abused.
- he is constantly berated and put down on social media - Sarah portrays him to have bad behaviour and rolls her eyes, always has negative things to say about him but thinks Cos she says ‘bless him’ at the end of her negativity it’s okay.This is only snippets of what we see and I think it’s bad enough. That little boy knows he is thought of as an inconvenience. We all get annoyed with our kids after a hard day but she barely sees him. I don’t understand what she finds so difficult.
- her baby gave her PTSD - constantly blaming a baby/child for a medical condition he couldn’t help is absolutely horrific. I would be more pragmatic to the situation if she admitted she suffered post natal depression and found it tough herself and took it out on Lachlan but to blame him constantly is abhorrent. I know MANY people that have had children with heart problems, reflux, allergies, chronic excema I’ve never known any mother to be so disconnected and horrible to a baby because of something medically wrong with them, most mums I know have been overcompensating with love and care because they have empathy towards their poor baby going through this. I’m not downplaying how difficult it was but she had the help and support of her parents seeing as she lived therewhich is more than most and to take your frustration and anger out on a baby and blame them for ptsd is deplorable.
- she is a part time working parent. Why is Lachlan at nursery 12 hours a day 5 days a week. This is not normal. At all. But what is even more telling of her seriously shocking relationship with her son ... she picks her daughter up from school/ has her home during school holidays etc and he is still stuck there whilst mummy and meelie have fun time. No
parent would ever do this. EVER.
- mocking his hair cut to 40k people every time she does it. No one asked to be in a pandemic l. Don’t laugh at his hair whichhe has no control over.Have some boundaries FFS - we don’tfind it remotely funny.
- the amount of times she’s shown him asleep from nursery and just plonk him in his bed. No teeth brushed. No washing. No clean clothes. No toilet. No supper. No interaction. RED FLAG.
this is disgusting. Highly highly disturbing.
what is wrong with these people. Poor poor boy.
- I think dropping 2 children off at granny and grandads for TWO WEEKS when they barely see them in the midst of a pandemic so you can flout your fanny round london is bleeping sick too but hey maybe I’m too loving towards my kids. Too much empathy and consciousness maybe I’m doing it wrong
- no extra curricular activities even though Isla in the football kit does many is another sign of the clear favouritism.
I think she needs help. Serious serious help.
Lachlan isn’t getting the emotional nurture from his parents. I hope she reads this and has a think but I know she is so far gone she believes her own narrative. It’s sickening
I hope their bubbles keep breaking down and everybody self isolates many more times. It’s about time she actually looked after her children. It’s the least she deserves and also I think he needs a bleeping break from nursery
- his clothes , always too small. No care for his appearance or a pride for how he looks, how is dressed, how he feels
- speech delay. He’s the oldest kid in the year. My 3 year old is way way way ahead of LachlanI can guarantee it’s cos he’s never actually spent time with his parents or they actually talk to him he doesn’t have one on one time. He just has nursery time.
Who needs help when you can make it YouTube "content"
Im pretty sure that nursery doesn't do wraparound care. They have a big waiting list (don't ask me why because I think its a awful place!) so I think they all have to leave by the end of August.
Exactly! She’ll be up to Scotland stopping at service stations all across the country as soon as she possibly can. Wouldn’t surprise me if she leaves this kids up there again because you know, she’s just had it sooo hard. She’s got a whole years worth of fannying around in london to catch up on!
As much as I completely disagree with her parenting. I actually find that so sad for Lachlan. His life is going to change drastically and he won't understand why
She seriously needs a wake up call.
But I don’t think she can see beyond her chin. Superficial selfish head.
rob and Sarah are horrific to lachlan. How they have treated him since he arrived is Truley shocking. I don’t throw the word abuse around lightly. But I genuinely think Lachlan is being emotionally abused.
- he is constantly berated and put down on social media - Sarah portrays him to have bad behaviour and rolls her eyes, always has negative things to say about him but thinks Cos she says ‘bless him’ at the end of her negativity it’s okay.This is only snippets of what we see and I think it’s bad enough. That little boy knows he is thought of as an inconvenience. We all get annoyed with our kids after a hard day but she barely sees him. I don’t understand what she finds so difficult.
- her baby gave her PTSD - constantly blaming a baby/child for a medical condition he couldn’t help is absolutely horrific. I would be more pragmatic to the situation if she admitted she suffered post natal depression and found it tough herself and took it out on Lachlan but to blame him constantly is abhorrent. I know MANY people that have had children with heart problems, reflux, allergies, chronic excema I’ve never known any mother to be so disconnected and horrible to a baby because of something medically wrong with them, most mums I know have been overcompensating with love and care because they have empathy towards their poor baby going through this. I’m not downplaying how difficult it was but she had the help and support of her parents seeing as she lived therewhich is more than most and to take your frustration and anger out on a baby and blame them for ptsd is deplorable.
- she is a part time working parent. Why is Lachlan at nursery 12 hours a day 5 days a week. This is not normal. At all. But what is even more telling of her seriously shocking relationship with her son ... she picks her daughter up from school/ has her home during school holidays etc and he is still stuck there whilst mummy and meelie have fun time. No
parent would ever do this. EVER.
- mocking his hair cut to 40k people every time she does it. No one asked to be in a pandemic l. Don’t laugh at his hair whichhe has no control over.Have some boundaries FFS - we don’tfind it remotely funny.
- the amount of times she’s shown him asleep from nursery and just plonk him in his bed. No teeth brushed. No washing. No clean clothes. No toilet. No supper. No interaction. RED FLAG.
this is disgusting. Highly highly disturbing.
what is wrong with these people. Poor poor boy.
- I think dropping 2 children off at granny and grandads for TWO WEEKS when they barely see them in the midst of a pandemic so you can flout your fanny round london is bleeping sick too but hey maybe I’m too loving towards my kids. Too much empathy and consciousness maybe I’m doing it wrong
- no extra curricular activities even though Isla in the football kit does many is another sign of the clear favouritism.
I think she needs help. Serious serious help.
Lachlan isn’t getting the emotional nurture from his parents. I hope she reads this and has a think but I know she is so far gone she believes her own narrative. It’s sickening
I hope their bubbles keep breaking down and everybody self isolates many more times. It’s about time she actually looked after her children. It’s the least she deserves and also I think he needs a bleeping break from nursery
- his clothes , always too small. No care for his appearance or a pride for how he looks, how is dressed, how he feels
- speech delay. He’s the oldest kid in the year. My 3 year old is way way way ahead of LachlanI can guarantee it’s cos he’s never actually spent time with his parents or they actually talk to him he doesn’t have one on one time. He just has nursery time.
My heart breaks for that little boy. I honestly feel so sad for him and it’s just heart wrenching watching this unfold. It angers me that both of his parents are so awful to him but also the fact that obviously none of the extended family have said or done anything either. I’m sort of lost for words with this situation now. They don’t deserve him, they really don’t.
Unfortunately I genuinely don’t think she will regret it at all. She just hasn’t got that maternal bond with her kids at all, I know Isla is the favourite but even with her she’s not really that bothered with. Sarah is obviously a very sad & screwed up woman, it’s clear as day in everything she says and in everything she does, there’s something seriously not quite right upstairs with her, there’s huge mental health problems going on. But that does not in anyway excuse her horrendous attitude and behaviour towards her kids but particularly Lachlan. Rob is just as bad, his job means that he’s a part time parent at best seeing as he’s physically not there for the majority of the year but even when is he, he may aswell not be. He just seems like a gormless useless lump that facilitates Sarah & her weird manic behaviour. They are seriously two of the most bizzare people I’ve ever come across and everything about them as a couple, as parents, as home owners is just completely fucked up. They aren’t normal. Very very strange people.
As my mum has always said to me; you reap what you sow and she has put zero effort into them children so as they get older they won’t want anything to do with either of them. They sure as hell won’t be running back to mummy and daddy whenever they get a chance. My dad was a military man, my mum was a fantastic parent and carried a lot of the weight... she put so much time and effort into me and my sibling, so much so that even though we don’t all live close by to eachother - we are still close and have so much time for one another. Sarah will never get that because when she’s actually interested in them when she has fizzled out on social media, they won’t be interested.
Not just a pandemic but when Aberdeen was first place in Scotland to have local lockdownOmg I forgot about how she left them in Scotland for two weeks in a pandemic!! Dear god
I bet she moans about his behaviour in September when it’s glaringly obvious he’s going to act out a bit because of all the changes and her total lack of ability to manage him. All she needs to do is spend some time with him & start talking about what will happen. Maybe talk with nursery about ways they can work together to prepare him. Maybe actually make some effort in the “mama life” instead of whatever it is she does
That’s very sad to hear that it’s an awful place. Poor little mite. He has no control over anything.
I think the main problem is that neither of them (Sarah and Rob) are very bright.
Its awful in the respect there's no structure and from what I hear L rules the roost there and gets what he wants when he wants it ect.
