Our nursery gives a pretty decent sized tea usually, but I always give him some of what we have (sometimes he eats the whole lot and wants more!).
They go through so many growth spurts as well, along with the social/family time side as they need to be included
I get needing a break from the kids. I get it. But seriously that long? I can’t imagine getting my kid from school, going home or having fun out and about, and then leaving the other one at nursery until almost bedtime. I feel guilty just thinking of it! I need to go cuddle him brb