Sam Smith

[RJF]

This is the thing, even if you do have the intention of calling someone by the pronouns they’ve asked, it’s so easy to revert back to what you previously knew/referred to them as.

Demi Lovato asked to be called they/them a few years ago, and once most people got used to it, she then said she felt feminine again and starting going by she/her again…

it’s unrealistic to 1). expect everyone to know what pronouns you go by, and 2). get everyone to change their speech patterns and expect them to have that split second initiative all the time where they ‘correct’ themselves.

This is the thing, even if you do have the intention of calling someone by the surname they’ve asked, it’s so easy to revert back to what you previously knew/referred to them as.

Cheryl Tweedy asked to be called Cheryl Cole a few years ago, and once most people got used to it, she then said she was divorcing and starting going by just Cheryl again…

it’s unrealistic to 1). expect everyone to know what surname you go by, and 2). get everyone to change their speech patterns and expect them to have that split second initiative all the time where they ‘correct’ themselves.

 

[RJF]

Yeah, let’s all take lessons on how to approach LGBT+ people from this person :

 

[Tabitha D]

The Grammys outfit is a joke. Ridiculous looking.

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He looks like a plonker but at least he’s covered up for a change.* Small mercies.

* Unless he later strips all this off to reveal just a sequinned posing pouch. But please … no.

 

[Underthetabletop]

Daily mail have clearly had a warning. They have written a very positive sounding feature about this outfit….. don’t shoot me for reading, I love the sidebar of shame because despite the paper, you can read either who is up shit creek or is paying for pr by the features.
but the way it’s written makes you think hmmmm, given most of their readers probably aren’t into all this stuff. Or the 18 year old freelancers are back on the news desk.

 

[Campari]

It's a print of a woman, not they and them's boobs
They and them very much looks obese rather than hormones

 

[Cocobaby09]

Sam looks like a barmaid from Bermondsey, you know the type, short bleached hair because they don't have any real style, leopard print clothes from charity shops, cos they love Bette Lynch

Plus dangly earrings

 

[cantthinkofaname2]

His jingle bell ball outfit was something else. Even my 7 year old said he looks like he’s raided his Mam’s tin foil

 

[Campari]

Why do you say "they AND them"?
If I was talking about myself I wouldn't say "she and her" - you just say she

Sam has two nipples, it would be obesephobic not to always talk about they (right) them (left)

 

[redstraw16]

What is it? It says its limited by the owner of the account?

Their outfit tonight…

 

[Tryger88]

I wonder if people will still be able to get a refund after C**t/P***k did 4 songs

 

[kev1974]

Isn't Poland surprisingly conservative and traditional? Seems an interesting choice of country for him.

 

[Horsemonkey]

Yet when he did Carpool Karaoke with James Corden he said he was never getting fat again.........

 

[Cocobaby09]

They remind me of Iris in the league of gentlemen

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Yes, Mrs Levinson

 

[Bagpuss20]

Well I saw some promo for the song on tiktok yesterday and Sam was in a tracksuit- no flrsh out, no glitz or pink.
The Calvin effect?

 

[Tryger88]

Is it just me or does he throw a glass in a dancers face when he's standing in the piano? I don't mind the rest of the video but part shocked me and felt very violent/ vicious.

I found that shocking/upsetting to see and I'm not easily shook, if it's a way of expressing his frustration why not just throw at a wall or something, why so violent to throw at a person surely that will trigger a lot of people

 

[itsjustallaboutme]

How did she know it was Sam? This outfit is so…..”normal”

 

[Donnavanessa]

I find this person annoying to the nth degree

 

[ShadesMint]

The sweat

He's actually quite articulate and has a good personality. He has talent, it's such a shame that he's changed his image in this way. No need. It's put me right off him. I love 'Latch' (esp the acoustic) and 'Like I Can' and some of his older stuff.

 

[Eirawen]

He looks like a lunatic he is getting attention though.

 

[Sjc_80]

His voice seems to be getting really poor lately. I've heard much better voices in local clubs and honestly busking, and yet SS is the one with a record deal.

He has a rich and influential mama! That always helps I'm afraid.