To be honest, I find it all a bit distasteful to be debating on how valid her miscarriage was or wasn’t. I myself have also experienced a ‘missed miscarriage’. Saw a heart beat on a scan at 6 weeks, felt pregnant all the way through and then experienced a miscarriage at nearly 12 weeks. The scan at the time of my miscarriage showed a 7 week fetus. The body can start absorbing the fetus which can make it difficult to determine exactly when it stopped growing.
Regardless of if it was a blighted ovum, or a developing fetus… every woman and couple or family that go through something like that deserve empathy and understanding - not to be told that their feelings aren’t valid because it wasn’t a ‘real baby’.
I remember watching her video she made about it, and I really felt for her. Every woman’s experience is different. Just because one woman’s is like a heavy period, doesn’t mean another woman’s will be the same. Exactly like childbirth - no two instances are the same.
This post might get reported for trying to manage the comment section - however I really felt the need to say something. Yes, hate on the exploitation that J did of the entire experience (& still exploits to this day) but it doesn’t sit right with me to be saying how someone should deal with their own personal experience. I actually think good on her for speaking about it, you can feel entirely alone when going through one, so I think her video she made probably helped some people.