Could well be true.Might be an unpopular opinion here but I think she’s just incredibly lazy. She wanted the attention of being pregnant/having a newborn but forget to think about what happens after that.
It’s all too familiar for me unfortunately and you may well be right it took me a long time to recognise all these things that have been pointed out for me it was anxiety and then post natal anxiety which spiralled. I wish someone could help her see she is only existing and not living as she seems like a genuinely good person who doesn’t eleven realise she is stuck in a rutI definitely think she's struggling with her mental health. Not sure if it's general depression or post natal depression because a lot of her behaviour is the same as when she was pregnant. Lounging around, unmotivated, poor choices, quick to anger. Her coping skills are poor anyway so maybe it was just that when she was pregnant and now its PND.
She seems to thrive on provoking a reaction, seeking negative attention.
I’m still pondering all this. I remember you saying you have MS. I have a long term illness also. I was always v proactive at night but there were mornings when getting up was so so hard. Often baby would be up twice then I’d be in pain and awake with it. I was surviving on minimal sleep. I’d often get headaches and migraines from pure exhaustion. And those days, you definitely aren’t at your best but I’ve never lay down like that when my child was wide awake. Thankfully I’ve always found the strength to be the parent in the room.I think she’s a selfish, immature brat.
She wanted a baby despite not having a decent livelihood or home to offer them.
She’s worse than Lisa solo Mom. At least she’s *attempting* to start a career to support her kids, misguided as it seems to be.
Kim just wants to sit around doing nothing and shouting “Oooooolllieeeeee” at her poor little guy.
That's a good point. She war the happiest I've seen her in a while once Ollie was gone to Nana....I’m still pondering all this. I remember you saying you have MS. I have a long term illness also. I was always v proactive at night but there were mornings when getting up was so so hard. Often baby would be up twice then I’d be in pain and awake with it. I was surviving on minimal sleep. I’d often get headaches and migraines from pure exhaustion. And those days, you definitely aren’t at your best but I’ve never lay down like that when my child was wide awake. Thankfully I’ve always found the strength to be the parent in the room.
I’m replying to you on this @Lollipops purely as I imagine you might have had those challenges. And severe fatigue. I feel sad for Ollie that Kim couldn’t find the strength to be there for him til Nana took him away. And it definitely makes it worse that she had oodles of energy to talk to her phone and watch Rhianna
Yep I do indeed have MS. I struggle with fatigue but in all honesty I doubt it’s much worse than the average new parent!!I’m still pondering all this. I remember you saying you have MS. I have a long term illness also. I was always v proactive at night but there were mornings when getting up was so so hard. Often baby would be up twice then I’d be in pain and awake with it. I was surviving on minimal sleep. I’d often get headaches and migraines from pure exhaustion. And those days, you definitely aren’t at your best but I’ve never lay down like that when my child was wide awake. Thankfully I’ve always found the strength to be the parent in the room.
I’m replying to you on this @Lollipops purely as I imagine you might have had those challenges. And severe fatigue. I feel sad for Ollie that Kim couldn’t find the strength to be there for him til Nana took him away. And it definitely makes it worse that she had oodles of energy to talk to her phone and watch Rhianna
You'd wonder though if she could hold down a job with that temper, she seems easily triggered and quite manic......and don’t even start me off on her laziness and constant laughing at nothingNot that she’d go for it of course because a) she’s lazy and b) I think she may have mentioned being exhausted once or twice, but I think she’d much better being the working parent while Robbie stays home. She can’t cope at home at all, she’s neither minding the child or keeping the house in order and she’s not happy either so probably would be better if she got out, had a bit of purpose and physically and mentally she’d be much better for it. We know she’s done a course and much have more opportunities than Robbie who her dad has hired out of pity
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