This is what is so scary, that it can happen to anyone. I cant imagine what these women go through when (or if) they recover from their illness, living with what they’ve done.Post natal depression or psychosis could happen to anyone, that’s where I feel so upset about it. It comes from nowhere and you don’t know what’s happening.
The support available is hard to access with long waiting lists - and that’s if you feel able to seek help - then there’s so few psychiatric mother and baby units they aren't able to help enough people because of lack of beds.
I entirely agree. It's a terribly, terribly sad story and my heart goes out to the mother as well as the rest of the family.Three siblings found dead in Bristol home named by police - with youngest a nine-month-old boy
Police called the incident a "tragedy", adding that post-mortems will now take place to establish the cause of death of the three children.news.sky.com
I do find my initial reaction to hearing of mothers vs fathers killing their own children are different.
I think my initial thoughts with mothers, especially when there is a baby involved, is along the lines of post partum psychosis which is a tragedy for all involved whereas men I just see their actions as anger and control over their wife/partner.
Obviously my thoughts might change as we hear more but it’s just something I’ve noticed about my initial response to these tragedies.
was that on the itv page? think that’s been taken down now. i’ve read elsewhere that he was a taxi driver soI read acomment that alleged her husband is in prison for DV. Anyone heard anything else about that?I read a comment that alleged her husband is in prison for DV. Anyone heard anything else about that?
I read a comment that alleged her husband is in prison for DV. Anyone heard anything else about that?
Not sure whether this is verified but it’s from a taxi driver who is a friend. It says the husband is a security guard, there was a ‘problem’ between the couple and he wasn’t living in the house.was that on the itv page? think that’s been taken down now. i’ve read elsewhere that he was a taxi driver so
Blimey - did the prosecution even turn up? Is there any chance of a retrial?I cannot see how he was convicted for anything other than murder. Absolutely horrific case.
If I was that attached to them I’d put cheap ones on the night before I killed himWatched a true life crime programme on the Murder & Investigation channel last night where a man was either beaten or shot to death while he slept in bed - his wife had 'fallen asleep' in the study while doing her tax returns and the noise woke her up, she said. Anyway, a few weeks after the murder, the wife contacted the police requesting the bloody bed sheets back, because ... they cost her $140. The investigating cops were all dumbfounded. And yes, surprise surprise she was indeed found to be involved in his murder.
Sorry, can't remember the name of the prog but it was the bed sheets thing that got me. I mean, would you?
I mean even the expensive ones you'd never get the stain out would you! I'm not sure your paying for quality in this caseIf I was that attached to them I’d put cheap ones on the night before I killed him
What gets me is that if it was post partum psychosis why didn’t she kill herself too? She was able to kill all three kids but wasn’t that distressed/mentally ill to kill herself? Convenient.My thoughts exactly. The fact that there’s a 10 months old baby makes it very likely.
Poor babies
this is such a weird interpretation of PP psychosis! So if the person suffering doesn’t manage to kill themselves it’s not real? wtf?!What gets me is that if it was post partum psychosis why didn’t she kill herself too? She was able to kill all three kids but wasn’t that distressed/mentally ill to kill herself? Convenient.
I think anyone saying ‘poor mother’ is in extremely poor taste. If it was a father people would be calling them scum etc. My sympathies lie only with the families and children whose lives were lost, and although mental health may be the cause of this tragedy, a crime has been committed and I struggle to find myself caring about the welfare of a triple murderer.
Women with post partum psychosis who kill their kids don't always kill themselves. Look at Andrea Yates in the USA who killed her 5 kids. She was very severely mentally ill. It's just very very tragic if that is the case here too.What gets me is that if it was post partum psychosis why didn’t she kill herself too? She was able to kill all three kids but wasn’t that distressed/mentally ill to kill herself? Convenient.
I think anyone saying ‘poor mother’ is in extremely poor taste. If it was a father people would be calling them scum etc. My sympathies lie only with the families and children whose lives were lost, and although mental health may be the cause of this tragedy, a crime has been committed and I struggle to find myself caring about the welfare of a triple murderer.
She was injured and is still in hospital. We don’t know what the injuries were but I think it’s fair to assume they were self-inflicted.What gets me is that if it was post partum psychosis why didn’t she kill herself too? She was able to kill all three kids but wasn’t that distressed/mentally ill to kill herself? Convenient.
I think anyone saying ‘poor mother’ is in extremely poor taste. If it was a father people would be calling them scum etc. My sympathies lie only with the families and children whose lives were lost, and although mental health may be the cause of this tragedy, a crime has been committed and I struggle to find myself caring about the welfare of a triple murderer.
Can you imagine being so mentally unwell that you think killing 3 children is the right/best/only thing to do. Post natal depression/psychosis is horrific and isn’t a convenienceWhat gets me is that if it was post partum psychosis why didn’t she kill herself too? She was able to kill all three kids but wasn’t that distressed/mentally ill to kill herself? Convenient
I always remember one case, I think it was in the US, where the mum didn’t know she’d killed her children when she came out of the PPP and was asking where they were.She was injured and is still in hospital. We don’t know what the injuries were but I think it’s fair to assume they were self-inflicted.
If it was a father, there would be no possibility of post-partum psychosis or other serious perinatal mental illness. (Of course, there could still be mental illness with a father). Psychosis can entirely alter who you are. It can make you believe untrue things about other people - including your own children.
If she is seriously mentally unwell to the point she killed her three children - who were obviously loved very much - when she is well and able to realise what she did, her life will fall apart all over again.
Everyone is sad that children were killed. Empathy and concern for a mother driven to that point doesn’t dampen the feelings for the children.