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Duchesspink

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Sorry I have to disagree with ye there on his grave, yeah it's his final resting place and yeah no doubt it means the world to her and the girls


Yeah you're right, there is no manual for grief, I'm in my late 40s and lost my dad to a very quick and sudden death with cancer last year, this week alone I couldn't move from my bed for two days because I was sobbing, if I was handed €1,000 to slap on a bit of false tan I'd be telling them to shove it where the sun don't shine! But yeah each to their own and all that🤔
£1000 goes a long way when you've 3 kids and no breadwinner in the house.
Sometimes you have to plaster a smile on and do what it takes to provide for your family
 
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Jembelle

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I didnt realise you had the photobook on what people should look like grieving.. my friends brother passed away at 30 to suicide 3 months ago and she was dressed up last sat and we went for a meal and she laughed.. i should have told her jesus the cheek of you smiling and putting on make up you should be grieving get home and stay in bed! Would love to be your friend and grieving God if you smiled or went out and done some work you would be so ashamed...
I have no problem with her dressing up going out doing whatever however I do have issue with someone using the death of someone to higher their own fame and make money out of it which is exactly what she’s doing. I can gurantee you and ask you friend and I’m very sorry for her loss but ask her did she feel like heading on insta and using his death to make money?

I have no problem with her dressing up going out doing whatever however I do have issue with someone using the death of someone to higher their own fame and make money out of it which is exactly what she’s doing. I can gurantee you and ask you friend and I’m very sorry for her loss but ask her did she feel like heading on insta and using his death to make money?
And by the way my own daughter died not long ago but I can assure you Instagram was the last place I wanted to be and showing other people how I grieved was far from my mind. My other kids were my priority and keeping them safe and happy
 
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Wheres reality

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Fairly obvious no shits given about covid at that Bperfect event. Rachel along with the rest should be ashamed for partaking in it .
 
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Taylor17

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She is a selfish woman. Nothing she has done since all this started has been normal. She was getting tagged before he died and I went on for a look and she was modelling her hospital fashion. He was terminally ill and actively dying. Wtf. This account wasn't for me. This isn't a distraction for her. It's who she is. She's shallow. Some people are. They really are only out for number 1.
 
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Lucydowl

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Yeah I believe it was a hom

I haven't seen any vile comments towards Rachel, I think everyone has a lot of sympathy with her. I think what annoys ppl the most is how she pulls at followers heartstrings by having a sob into the phone (which is fine) then it's followed by an ad, swipe up etc
Exactly, if people have a different opinion or an honest opinion of a situation they are classed as vile! Same with the certain go fund me cancer accounts, take all you like but don’t use serious illness to pull on the kindness of strangers to dig deep for hardship when it’s not true.

Not sure she is the uncomfortable person she portrays herself to be.
Not uncomfortable enough to sit in the corner of the open top bus, but instead sat directly behind Jac Joss and husband where photos of this celeb would include her in pictures. I think she's quite clever.
Similar to acting the dope about doing a live, Brian Dowling having the hoots that she's never done a live, all for notice.

Putting aside her past, she's an insta influencer/blogger whatever, she knowingly travelled to the north, where Covid is very quickly increasing, and attended an event both outdoors and indoors where no social distancing took place and very few masks were worn.
If she comes on later on insta and pleads innocence, I call it bull.
She could have said no and got herself home.
Instead she'll fill her stories with the hands picture, maybe the grave, some tears.
She'll probably start the Botox and fillers soon and end up like those other pumped up dolls she frequented with last night. She is a pure fake after this one.
Anyone attending that event should have mandatory quarantine for at least two weeks. That was non essential travel at its worst. Disgraceful and ignorant carry on. Shame on them all. I’m fuming.
 
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Taylor17

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It's hard to tell the difference between the drag queens and the ladies with all the fake shite stuck on them.
 
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Mooordgirl

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Im very uncomfortable with her. Shes introducing herself and her kids to a high level of scrutiny with this insta 'fame' shes achieved. Personally i think that they are all far too fragile for it... in the long run her kids won't be thanking her for making their life and grief public, to be sold to the highest bidder
 
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Lbyrne121

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People on this thread for Rachel giving out how she grieves etc.. need to listen to Brian Dowlings podcast with Eileen. She speaks about losing her daughter who was 4 from a tragic accident and how you need to smile laugh entertain yourself or you will die with sadness.. she went to her sisters wedding a month later in Australia and said she didnt care what ppl who followed her thought as she was doing it for her daughter, living when she couldn't.... people say this tattle is for opinions on what people do, but to be honest alot of really unkind words are being said... yes i agree withthe comments of her not getting back etc. They are opinions and dont find anything wrong with that but some peoples comments are just vile anddisgusting and not opinions.. let the poor girl grieve how she wants to and stop being nasty
 
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Teenytot

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She could potentially put a lot of people at risk including her own children. My teenage daughter has more sense than that. She’s 15 she missed her holidays this year, no birthday celebration, missed family funerals etc and not one peep out of her she’s more concerned about keeping her siblings safe. Everyone of them are getting it and so they should be. If Rachel’s that vulnerable she should delete IG And concentrate on herself & her girls needs at this time.
 
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LouLouMarie

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Jesus Christ 934 cases in NI alone today.
I’m f@cking fuming. How dare they? I’ve worked every day since COVID began, seen patients die and others trying to live with Long COVID. F@ck right off the lot of you, I’m doing a cull today of anyone affiliated with this shit company
 
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Wheres reality

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This hit the nail on the head for me
The black bag thing was inappropriate
And im sorry but it's respect and dignity
Respect for your husband and his family
That's what it all boils down to for me
I know everyone grieves differently but I just don't understand how she even thought of Instagram during that time
How was it even a priority for her at all
Its bizzare and I honestly think its all gonna come crashing down
I think maybe his family will turn on her for all this eventually, all those private moments with the kids involved
Its so so wrong
There is an ethical issue here I think


And I listened to her podcast the other day with Brain Dowling and I don't know I just think the social media thing is wrong
No problem gaining followers to support you but she seems actually quite obsessed with it now and I even got that through the podcast......
Its gone to her head alot and she has lost complete run of herself and those poor kids
I think sharing her parent in laws text message to her and then resharing it again for those who didn't see it the first time was the pits .
 
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Surrealoneill

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Maybe I am picture perfect. How do you know! My mother’s first anniversary is approaching in 2 weeks time and my dad has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer so I’ll speak however I damn well like. I didn’t go outside the door after mammy passed until August and not out of some notion of respect but because I had zero interest in living my best life while grieving for my mother after caring for her in her last 7 years while she slowly turned into someone unrecognisable. I understand grief, and no one for a spilt second would say my mother would be turning in her grave. Why? Because she had a family around her who loved her and cared enough to keep her where she belonged despite how hard it was when plenty of others would have put her into care. We still all maintained our full time jobs doing this and nursed her at home until 4 days before she died. That’s what you call love and respect. And now we’ll do every bit of it again because now our Dad needs us. End of
 
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Delboy

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Yes I agree she is appearing so different lately dont know what it is cant figure it out or maybe what we see now is actually what her personality was like but we didnt see it until now. As for this charade of a launch in Belfast I have no words
Think we're seeing the real Rachel now
 
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Sage

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This is a tough one. I do like her and love her story and I feel so much for her as my own husband had stage 4 cancer but I hate the crying into camera all.the.time. with myself it was such a private thing and that's how she started off but now she's totally different. I also 100% hate ads from anyone. First she says she has naturally perfect straight hair, next thing she's advertising vodux or whatever its called saying it makes her hair perfectly straight. I just think 'what a sell out'. I do like her but when I see people selling out I think, what a joke!!!
 
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Airy-fairy

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Im ver uncomfortable with her. Shes introducing herself and her kids to a high level of scrutiny with this insta 'fame' shes achieved. Personally i think that they are all far too fragile for it... in the long run her kids won't be thanking her for making their life and grief public, to be sold to the highest bidder
I agree.
Her mother should really be advising her here, but she's making on it too. That sisters night away last weekend has turned me off even thinking about a luxury night away anytime in that place. The amount of free cocktails was only disgraceful with the mother and sisters piggybacking on it.
 
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Nairam13

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Rachel on Brians podcast still preaching she is not good with technology yet can easily pick up well known names when they slide into DM's yet ignores the Joe soaps.
 
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Wheres reality

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Tomorrow now will be the tears, "just to show yiz like I know it looked like was havin a ball nal but I wasn't doing good atall like so just to remind yiz I was in bits so never to take instagram too seriously and what ya see"
Okay sorry if that sounds mean but shes getting so predictable.
"Yas have me in stitches the messages I do get"

Her poor poor girls. They all look so sad and scared all of the time. Not wanting a phone put in there face.
Im gonna say it ... Saint Rachel's mask has truly fell off and slapped onto the ground .
 
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I had to unfollow her, I genuinely do not think she has allowed herself to grieve properly and I personally do not agree with putting the kids on social media so much. I also think these "brands" are taking pure advantage of her situation. I think she is such a lovely girl and what her and the girls went through & are still going through is just heartbreaking, I also think she is very vulnerable and not ready for the "influencer" life, people are getting sick of all the #ads #gifts etc and she will not be able to handle the negative feedback
 
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