PTWM #97 Who wants to see R’s massive “whole”? Vote yes or she’ll call you a trol!

[LittleLizzy1985]

It sounds awful because it is. Your daughter shared something serious with you and you didn’t believe her. Cutting yourself for attention or to fit in (as you imply) is still serious and she urgently needs support with her mental health.

I’m really reluctant to say anything at all because I really don’t want to take the focus away from Rach but some of the comments recently about your kids being LGBT+ just for attention or to fit in are very concerning. It is not the norm within schools and will do very little for their popularity- it will however allow them to fit in with a small group of kids who everyone else thinks are “weird”.

Have you considered why your child would be so desperate to fit in with this specific social group? Could it be because they genuinely feel aligned with them and comfortable with them? Sure your kid may not be bisexual or a lesbian, as they grow up and understand themselves better it may be that their sexuality isn’t quite what they first thought, but the fact they’re questioning it in the first place suggests there’s something there to be questioned.

If you’re all as super duper ok with it as you claim to be then why are you so quick to assume that your kids are lying or have been peer pressured? I’m sure you’re all really good parents but homophobia is still deeply embedded into our society and I think some of you need to consider why you’re so keen to deny what your children are telling you about themselves.

She was so desperate to fit in with this group because she had been bullied by her last group of friends and felt that she didnt have anyone else - she has diagnosed ADHD, so these 'friends' often find her outbursts 'annoying' and used to call her weird when she was medicated.

I knew her cutting herself wasn't genuine because she said she'd done it earlier that day and there was NO evidence at all, she had never done it before and hasn't done it since. I spoke to her school about it and they also said they had absolutely no concerns about her mental health either.

She's now friends with another group of friends that are more accepting and my bubbly, chatty and bright girl is back. And before its said, no, she's not masking anything; I have a very good relationship with my daughter and she knows she can talk to me about anything, which she does, often.

I'm not implying my daughter is lying about her sexuality - since leaving that circle of friends she has had two girlfriends and a boyfriend, which suggests this wasn't just to fit in. As I said originally, as long as she's happy and healthy that's all I care about, which she now is, once again. I was merely trying to demonstrate how, whether you like it or not, some kids use their sexuality and/or mental health as their identity and to help them fit in. This is no different than people saying people are using the 'anxiety card' for engagement, which is common trend on many of the tattle threads.

 

[Dorothy-redshoes]

Is this adults advising other adults to add a child on Instagram to view stories?

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Wtf. They are literally requesting to follow a 12 year olds private page just to be nosey and for abit of gossip about her private life
They are all fucking nuts!!

 

[Skirmish1979]

Nobody really knows.

And nobody should know. That is the boys mums story to tell. Not Racheys. Not a ‘fictional’ book story either.

 

[FridaK]

That ‘be kind’ post from Josh.
Is he on drugs or what?

How are you asking people to be kind when you have blatantly profited from other peoples money gained immorally by your wife. You sell and bully your own and other peoples children routinely on social media. Plus you are paid by the tax payer to enforce the law that you often sit by and watch people break in your own home?

Be Kind??

 

[FridaK]

Not that R ever gets any time away from those kids…

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The audacity of this tramp to call anyone for gossiping on here when she sends her 17 year old daughter out like a stressed out single mum of four. Then takes donation boxes from a small struggling baby bank in an already struggling Yorkshire that will be massively hit by the uplift cut of Universal Credit, is fucking mind blowing .
ETA: When she’s already had £10k

 

[sarahwheel]

I thought this! If you're working it's one thing and can't be helped, but to leave him all day is cruel.

We had torrential rain where we was yesterday, by the time I got them to school their skirts were soaked, I knew they wouldn’t put their PE skirts on as they are at that age where it’s not considered cool. I don’t drive, so I walked home and back up the school with a dry uniform for them in the pissing rain. I wouldn’t be able to spend the day at home wondering if they were uncomfortable all day while I was comfortable. J and R astound me, they both drive and both had the day off plus he is at that age where wearing trousers a few sizes too small is not only uncomfortable but embarrassing for him. They are cruel x

 

[I’mThankyou_]

She just wants them for free. The woman has more front than Blackpool and Brighton combined.

Ffs Microsoft word and a laminater Rach.
You don't need everything for free

Nice to see her enjoy a windy walk with Sloshy. They never get any time together do they

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

Don’t take this the wrong way but I do find it amusing when people come here to criticise and have a bitch about R and then reveal they’re still following/still commenting nice things/still being a little bit of a hun

Obviously, each to their own and there’s absolutely nothing that says you have to all be of the same negative opinion to be here, I just find it odd on a personal level

She blocked me too and I only followed her to ask her if she needed toys for her new venture. I’m clearing out my daughters room and wanted to do a good deed.

Donate to your nearest charity shop, they’ll be a lot more grateful!

 

[sallycinnamon84]

OK, this might be a controversial opinion but fuck it I'm going to say it.

When I was a teen, the 'hot topic' was being an emo and

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cutting yourself/self harming for attention (I say this as someone who struggled with self harm for all of my late teens and into my twenties, 2 years clean now thank fuck)

. Then it was not identifying as a person and instead changing your pronouns to xir/xie/xis or w.e. I think now it's either autism/ADHD or declaring yourself transgender. Absolute are teens that struggle with all the above problems legitimately and are now able to access help for it much easier as as a society we are much more open to listening and accepting our teens but there's a high percentage who just want a 'label' so that they're 'quirky' and 'unique'. I say this as well because in that household, what else does Lula have to stand out with? Edie's the centre of attention, Betsy gets all her Mums praise, Seb and Issac are Joshes... Just my tuppence.

I also in no way believe that the Whatsapp group is anywhere near legit, absolutely no way a child of Edie's age would have the level of SPAG and lack of emojis that her messages do.

I think kids these day are obsessed with labelling themselves. I think it's down to more screen time on apps like tiktok. My 11 yo niece said she was a lesbian last week which is great if she is but also all her friends are saying they are too. I think she just wants to fit in. The most boring thing you can be these days is straight. Also my 15 yo half sister is trying to get assessed for autism/adhd and has depression and bulimia. Shes surgically attached to her phone and has a tiktok account with 8k followers where she does cos play and reenacts anime. Shes awake all night and sleeps all day. Lockdown made it worse and she now wont go back to school or see anyone. Her mum wont take her phone of her cos she has a meltdown. Her mum is one of those women obsessed with dieting too. Doesn't value real food. I'm not saying its easy with teens but shes let her slip into this instead of taking control over the situation. If she was mine the phone would have been moderated, I would be cooking her fresh healthy food, taking her on walks during the day and trying to get her back to school socialising with real people. I know these conditions have always existed but they seem more prevalent now. I know some mental health conditions happen regardless of environmental factors and can be genetic but after watching Social Dilema on Netflix just reinforced how dangerous these apps are for kids and their developing brains.

 

[armywife119]

Work with kids and have done for many many years and I get what you’re saying but I just can’t get my head round why the disrespect is celebrated here. I’m not a long time follower but I’m not sure I’d change my mind on that. If I had told my parents to be quiet at that age I’d be in bother.

Because his father has shown him no respect, puts his step daughters before his own sons and we’ve seen situations where Seb has been injured but gets berated by his father for causing stress to his step mother and putting them out having to take him to hospital.

I can only imagine how he must feel, not to mention I’m pretty sure the pair of them will have tried to bad mouth his actual mother, manipulating him into ending contact.

 

[You can't hide now]

I don't know what the fuck is wrong with Joyce but my god, he's a vile little man. Who the hell would say that to their son and even worse, allow it to be filmed and posted for everyone to see. He makes my skin crawl, he's fucking awful.

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

I think Betsy’s problem is she has a LOT of confidence but not a great deal of intelligence to back it up, so she’s quite happy to give her opinion without thinking about how accurate it is. And Rachel just thinks she’s hilarious and amazing and would never ask her to reconsider her opinions.

I just went back to an earlier thread to see if I’d caught her out but this isn’t the same friend T started back at school with today. It does sound as though she’s moved to be with a mate rather than for other reasons though.

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

Just saw this on the reviews post. But they don’t read tattle do they

So I’m Vanessa (would love to see that proof ), I’ve stalked Rachel for years but also I don’t know her? Ok hun

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

It sounds awful because it is. Your daughter shared something serious with you and you didn’t believe her. Cutting yourself for attention or to fit in (as you imply) is still serious and she urgently needs support with her mental health.

I’m really reluctant to say anything at all because I really don’t want to take the focus away from Rach but some of the comments recently about your kids being LGBT+ just for attention or to fit in are very concerning. It is not the norm within schools and will do very little for their popularity- it will however allow them to fit in with a small group of kids who everyone else thinks are “weird”.

Have you considered why your child would be so desperate to fit in with this specific social group? Could it be because they genuinely feel aligned with them and comfortable with them? Sure your kid may not be bisexual or a lesbian, as they grow up and understand themselves better it may be that their sexuality isn’t quite what they first thought, but the fact they’re questioning it in the first place suggests there’s something there to be questioned.

If you’re all as super duper ok with it as you claim to be then why are you so quick to assume that your kids are lying or have been peer pressured? I’m sure you’re all really good parents but homophobia is still deeply embedded into our society and I think some of you need to consider why you’re so keen to deny what your children are telling you about themselves.

I agree. The comments have made me uncomfortable, as a parent of a 12 year old who was born female but identifies and lives as male. Am I supposed to assume it’s a fad? I just support and love. If it turns out to not be permanent, so what? Doesn’t bother me either way. He’s been telling me he wants to be a boy since the age of 6.

 

[doingtherightthing]

Gosh I take a day or two off and it’s all blown up again!!

She’s sent me into a rage I swear!!!! After catching up here, I went to take a look at that Trevi post. Now, I hate to use the word “thick” but, CHLOE YOU ARE THICK AS FUCK.” Who goes on a major defensive attack and actually, drops someone in even more shit? Chloe has announced to anyone who wants to read it, that she has seen those court files - statements written by minors. Now, I was exposed to these myself and they were harrowing but also, it was obvious to me that not all the words written were her own, like she had help (just my opinion) I know of four other random Instagram accounts that were shown these statements, now it’s coming out that they were seen by her mates too. Well if she can shown strangers on the net, random friends, how many in total have seen these documents? How many people have been exposed to a vulnerable child’s situation without any care whatsoever for safeguarding her? She can easily pass me off a Troll and try to say I’m lying about seeing them, that’s her call, but now it’s been backed by her pal - someone who she knows and trusts.
As for “I know her in person” fuck right off! So do the girls. On a deeper level. Who is Chloe to try and call them liars? Who is she to dismiss what they went through all because she knows Rachel. Fact is, Chloe knows the version Rachel wants her to know, the pretend version. The girls know the real Rachel.

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

Jeez, if I bent over like that all you’d see is my belly

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

For someone who is against bullying/trolling…R doesn’t mind having digs at the FB woman days later x

She’s a narcissist, she won’t admit that the FB woman was right because it would stop her being the victim in that situation.

She has to complain about never getting time away from her children and how hard that is (victim) whilst gaslighting her followers into believing she actually does work hard and parent full time (hero). The reality is, most parents do not get time away for both their birthdays (a weekend plus a night out and overnight stay and that was just her birthday), if one has to go away for “work” (poverty porn tour), the other has to juggle their own work with childcare rather than taking a week off to go to “work” with their wife (leaving the kids with a bunch of randoms), and this weekend in Birmingham wouldn’t happen either because, you know, kids! She should openly admit that they’re bloody lucky to get away so much together but she won’t because that doesn’t work in her narcissistic favour.

If two of their children do turn out to have additional needs, and Seb’s struggling to behave in school, the last thing any of them need is unreliable parents and a vast array of “friends” who drop in to pick up the slack when the selfish pricks in charge bugger off round the country by themselves.

 

[FridaK]

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Can someone just message her and tell her people are actually dying, everyday, in her country. That teenagers in her country are living in such poverty that they are targeted by gangs and recruited into a life of being used to run the drugs. Drugs that women are taking to make it easier for them to use their bodies to make money to feed & cloth these children in the first place. That young girls are seeing apps like Instagram and Only Fans as easy access to money that they can’t make doing standard jobs, because minimum wage is barely enough to feed a cat with let alone a person. That women here have no easy access to peri and antenatal mental health care. That children are Carers, for their disabled parents, because the funding is not there to place a professional in and relieve them of that burden. That young men are under so much pressure that suicide rates are higher than they’ve ever been. Pressure put on them by that App she makes all her money from. That young men are being routinely left behind because teachers are so snowed under by their work load, that they don’t have time to spend with adolescent lads who are full of energy. That class sizes are horrendous. That there is a new wave of parents that refuse to take responsibility for their kids behaviour and this again, is here, on her door step (in her home also by the look of it.)

Can someone also tell her tell her that the forces fled Afghanistan leaving behind thousands of men, women and children that will die because of what the western world did. Tell her that young women all over the world will never get access to education and will be married and pregnant before they hit 13. That baby girls are have their vagina’s mutilated at birth and during their childhoods because men use religious doctrines as an excuse to oppress every natural instinct they have. That there is nothing anyone can do but hope and prey for those people, because the real ‘Devils’ don’t care, they really absolutely do not care.

The only thing fucking valuable this woman has is £10k from The National Lottery that could of gone towards helping any one of the problems I’ve listed above. Whoever is ‘attacking’ her, ask her to pay that back and fund her shite hobbies herself

 

[Chipwilliams]

Poor t, coming home to tell her mum about her day. Only to find her sitting 2 flights of stairs Away sniding with her sister & all on film too to over 200k people!! When mine started a new school I couldn’t wait to greet them at the door to ask about their day

 

[princesspoppy11]

sorry if this has been posted! Sent!!!/Scent!? how do these people get paid for adverts!?