PTWM #97 Who wants to see R’s massive “whole”? Vote yes or she’ll call you a trol!

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Pic for attention? Or what? Twat.

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Domestic abuse training? What about safeguarding the kids that fucking live with you, you daft cow.

 

[Babyboos5]

Betsy have you considered worrying less about school girl skirts and more about your own mother posting minors in their underwear on social media for all the predators and pedos to see?

 

[Skirmish1979]

Thread suggestion:
Is the PayPal cash hiding in Racheys hairy gash?

 

[Rosalind96]

TRIGGER WARNING - MENTAL HEALTH

My then 12 year old daughter announced last year that she's bisexual, (absolutely no issue with that, as long as she's happy and healthy) and that a few of her friends were gay. During one of my phone monitoring sessions I found she was in a WhatsApp group called "fag gang" which had roughly 15-20 participants, all of which were either gay, lesbian, bisexual, omnisexual or asexual and most also identified as either trans non-binery or gender fluid except one girl who said, and I quote, "I, unfortunately, am attracted to men" I mean it is unfortunate because they can be absolute arseholes but she definitely meant because she felt she didn't fit in...
There was lots of talk of mental health issues and suicidal thoughts in this chat and when I spoke to my daughter she told me she had tried to cut herself and that she felt suicidal during the first lockdown. This sounds awful but I knew that this wasn't genuine and was to fit in with her new group of friends. I took her phone off her for a week to give her a break from this group and it did her the world of good; she asked me if she could tell her friends that she hasn't got her phone but I said I'd do it, when I explained I was her mum one boy said "hi mum, I'm gay pleased to meet you" like his whole identity was based on his sexuality...
I feel like an old fuddy duddy when I say it wasn't like this in my day I know society is a lot more accepting of the LGBTQ+ community now, which has been a long time coming, which means more people feel comfortable in coming out, but I also think that due to social media, children are trying to belong to an online community, whether that be LGBTQ+ or people that suffer with mental health issues, and are saying they are something that they're not purely to fit in.

I'm sorry your sister isn't well, I hope your family can get her the help and support she needs to get better

It sounds awful because it is. Your daughter shared something serious with you and you didn’t believe her. Cutting yourself for attention or to fit in (as you imply) is still serious and she urgently needs support with her mental health.

I’m really reluctant to say anything at all because I really don’t want to take the focus away from Rach but some of the comments recently about your kids being LGBT+ just for attention or to fit in are very concerning. It is not the norm within schools and will do very little for their popularity- it will however allow them to fit in with a small group of kids who everyone else thinks are “weird”.

Have you considered why your child would be so desperate to fit in with this specific social group? Could it be because they genuinely feel aligned with them and comfortable with them? Sure your kid may not be bisexual or a lesbian, as they grow up and understand themselves better it may be that their sexuality isn’t quite what they first thought, but the fact they’re questioning it in the first place suggests there’s something there to be questioned.

If you’re all as super duper ok with it as you claim to be then why are you so quick to assume that your kids are lying or have been peer pressured? I’m sure you’re all really good parents but homophobia is still deeply embedded into our society and I think some you need to consider why you’re so keen to deny what your children are telling you about themselves.

 

[DipsyDoodle]

Sorry for taking it back a few pages topic, ref Betsy saying about the short skirt and male teachers. I had this come up in a meeting with my daughter. going back about 5 years ago now, I was told it is a distraction to male teachers, I went mental to say the least, questioning why would it be a distraction. It should not be a distraction to a grown male in a position such as.
It is used as an excuse and it is so fucking wrong.

If a grown adult is distracted by the clothing of a CHILD then that adult should not be anywhere near a school

(Edited to reflect that not all predators are male)

 

[BettyCat20]

Why does she keep covering W's hand with a sticker?

Because he's either holding a chicken nugget, a doughnut or a lump of shit and she doesn't want us to see.

 

[Emm123456]

Why didn’t she send I in with a spare pair of trousers for seb? I cannot believe she left him all day with his little brothers trousers on. Or better still why didn’t Josh take some into school for him, seen as he was clearly off work today, o no they went out for breakfast!!!!!!!!!. God they are awful parents, I know we don’t like gangster granny but at least she seems to parent him better than those 2 idiots

 

[LittleLizzy1985]

I think kids these day are obsessed with labelling themselves. I think it's down to more screen time on apps like tiktok. My 11 yo niece said she was a lesbian last week which is great if she is but also all her friends are saying they are too. I think she just wants to fit in. The most boring thing you can be these days is straight. Also my 15 yo half sister is trying to get assessed for autism/adhd and has depression and bulimia. Shes surgically attached to her phone and has a tiktok account with 8k followers where she does cos play and reenacts anime. Shes awake all night and sleeps all day. Lockdown made it worse and she now wont go back to school or see anyone. Her mum wont take her phone of her cos she has a meltdown. Her mum is one of those women obsessed with dieting too. Doesn't value real food. I'm not saying its easy with teens but shes let her slip into this instead of taking control over the situation. If she was mine the phone would have been moderated, I would be cooking her fresh healthy food, taking her on walks during the day and trying to get her back to school socialising with real people. I know these conditions have always existed but they seem more prevalent now. I know some mental health conditions happen regardless of environmental factors and can be genetic but after watching Social Dilema on Netflix just reinforced how dangerous these apps are for kids and their developing brains.

TRIGGER WARNING - MENTAL HEALTH

My then 12 year old daughter announced last year that she's bisexual, (absolutely no issue with that, as long as she's happy and healthy) and that a few of her friends were gay. During one of my phone monitoring sessions I found she was in a WhatsApp group called "fag gang" which had roughly 15-20 participants, all of which were either gay, lesbian, bisexual, omnisexual or asexual and most also identified as either trans non-binery or gender fluid except one girl who said, and I quote, "I, unfortunately, am attracted to men" I mean it is unfortunate because they can be absolute arseholes but she definitely meant because she felt she didn't fit in...
There was lots of talk of mental health issues and suicidal thoughts in this chat and when I spoke to my daughter she told me she had tried to cut herself and that she felt suicidal during the first lockdown. This sounds awful but I knew that this wasn't genuine and was to fit in with her new group of friends. I took her phone off her for a week to give her a break from this group and it did her the world of good; she asked me if she could tell her friends that she hasn't got her phone but I said I'd do it, when I explained I was her mum one boy said "hi mum, I'm gay pleased to meet you" like his whole identity was based on his sexuality...
I feel like an old fuddy duddy when I say it wasn't like this in my day I know society is a lot more accepting of the LGBTQ+ community now, which has been a long time coming, which means more people feel comfortable in coming out, but I also think that due to social media, children are trying to belong to an online community, whether that be LGBTQ+ or people that suffer with mental health issues, and are saying they are something that they're not purely to fit in.

I'm sorry your sister isn't well, I hope your family can get her the help and support she needs to get better

 

[MummaNoggins]

Just watched the home account story. It's so odd. Is it real or is it an acted story?. Josh prancing around and talking about plasterboard and the ceiling coming down. All feels like it's an act. Just a bollocking excuse to decorate.
Not going to mention Seb in his undies. More eloquent people than me have summed it up above.
What I will say though, Is that if he snapped his fucking fingers at a child (step or not) of mine, then I'd wrap his skinny fucking legs around his scrawny neck and have to restrained from smashing the smug look off of his face.
The man is an awful, condescending prick.

*apologies for the swearing. It's genuinely how this shit show family get me*

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

So Rachel has shared those confidential court documents with the mum of one of her kids’ friends and now that mum thinks she knows enough to be arguing for Rachel on social media with one of the children the documents pertain to? The audacity of this woman and her friends!

And to argue that it’s not Rachel’s fault that her followers are being let down and not signposted and then physically harmed in DV situations that potentially could have been avoided the fact that she has a chaotic home life, isn’t a social worker or similarly trained and has zero safeguarding or other measures in place is exactly why she should never have put herself forward as someone who could help. Even now, people signpost others to her, she’s an “ambassador” for Trevi, she has her own women’s centre and she’s consistently taken a wage for the DA “work” she does yet there are women with stories of being left to fend for themselves after trying to access support from her and her mates think that’s fine because she might have been busy that day

 

[Skirmish1979]

Hi everyone, just popping on quickly to tell you all that I’m cooking a roast, I worked 70hours last week and I did my shopping today and put it away rather than leaving it in my hall.
Anyway, that’s it really. Hope you’ve all had a lush Monday. Hugs

 

[daffodilgirl]

that Clo girl has made herself look so stupid, not only that she’s said that R showed her Private and Confidential court documents which is illegal as E was a minor

 

[Behelzabobs]

She just reminds me of Grayson Perry with that f*cking bow

 

[tippingpoint]

Me doing my trolling

 

[FridaK]

So I have to take it that V did not get anywhere with the media or other intervention? Which is a shame but, whatever’s happening is making her behave in a way that’s putting those children at risk.

Sebs anatomy was clearly visible.
His father stuck his finger in the child’s face and said ‘I can’t stay in a room he’s in.’

These are not the actions of a normal set of parents. Now I don’t give a shit about what her followers think or accept from her. She’s flagrantly using the children to distract from the problem elsewhere. First T now Seb.

Can someone who knows explain what exactly is going on so it can end?

 

[Noseygirl19]

It’s funny how they couldn’t afford to do up the living room but after she had £10k of lottery money they now can! How lush!

 

[DipsyDoodle]

I can't see why she has to go to the bird show or whatever it is. My man loves to play golf. I'd rather cut my own head off than join him at a show!! She should be at home with her kids but now she's being validated by the huns she believes she's entitled to do what she likes. I bet she makes fun of him too.

Because he has history of shagging another woman behind his wife's back. She can barely let him go to work without checking in with her every 5 minutes, absolutely no way is he going anywhere without her keeping a beady eye on him. She likes to pretend that it's because they love each other the hardest, really it's because she can't trust him as far as she could throw him out of the loft window.

 

[daffodilgirl]

why does she resemble this doll? the cheeks and hair cut

 

[Dinnerbag]

I don’t like the fact that people quite clearly from here have jumped on the trevi post. It discredits everything vanessas crew are trying to do, which if true is making people aware of what Rachel is really like, it’s one thing saying on a spotted fb page don’t send a victim of dv to the woman’s centre it’s quite another getting the involved in mud slinging when neither side has shown receipts …..

There I said my peace, although I am popping the popcorn in the microwave now…..

gotta be up at 5.30…..

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

I totally get what you're saying especially about the need to protect yourself "just in case" so to speak, but I'd be far too intrigued about it all to not message That's not a dig at you, I'm not the one in the position of being "outed" so its easy for me to say, but just remember you have done nothing wrong. You haven't sent nasty messages to R directly, you have voiced an opinion on an open website that anyone is entitled to do. Even if R did dox you the worst that would likely happen is you'd get a few inboxes off her and huns/keyboard warriors which is then just more evidence of what a nasty cow she is.

I'm hoping the other lady that came on and said she knew R has been in touch with them tbh.

Absolutely, but whilst I’m happy to stand by everything I’ve said (including calling her a cunt on here), I wouldn’t be happy for that information to be publicly broadcast by Rachel, potentially, to hundreds of thousands of people without any context or right to reply. In that scenario, quotes I have said would be lifted verbatim and used alongside my name without any admission from Rachel that actually it was in response to her abusing vulnerable women etc

ETA I realise it sounds like backtracking but it’s not that at all, I’m just not prepared to allow Rachel the opportunity, however remote, to mess with my life like she seems to have so many people. As I don’t know her IRL, it’s not worth the risk - I can’t help bring her down anymore using my real name on Instagram than I can here anonymously.