PTWM #221 Divorce Diaries

[ScottishMammy92]

There isnt a world my 13 year old child who is barely old enough to make her own decision on what she wants for dinner is wearing that outfit and posing like that with a boy in her bedroom. Im sorry what is the world coming to? And then why don't we share that online because our parents make money from it? Absolutely insane.

Shes been failed by both parents. I dont actually accept that she "cant parent how she wants to" you are not her friend. You are her parent. It actually doesnt matter if she likes you or your boundaries. Your job is to keep her safe. At 13 she isnt old enough or mature enough to deal with processing alcohol. Her frontal lobe isnt developed enough to deal with adult level relationships. She is a child. Both parents should be ashamed of allowing a child to run amok like that and then having it become public knowledge.

 

[DipsyDoodle]

Edie was definitely drunk in that video. I see R didn't show the complete inappropriate outfit E was wearing.

SHE'S 13 YEARS OLD!!!!!!

This came up on my FYP, so who else has seen that post.

This is absolutely disgusting on so many levels. Poor Edie is a CHILD of 13. She has been let down by the supposed responsible adults in her life.

Nothing about that CHILD is appropriate. She needs parenting, not sending off into the night with a vape in one hand and a bottle of booze in the other.

Other kids her age were dressing up and going trick or treating last night, not putting on hot pants and going out to pubs with their boyfriend.

 

[Doeli70]

Isaac looked high and as for what Edie was wearing. I have no words. Rachael you are her parent not her friend. You should be ashamed of yourself. I don't care how much my daughter kicked off at me. She would be having no phone or tablet, no access to money and grounded. Rachael is clearly giving her money to buy alcohol, vapes and inappropriate clothing. So scared she'll go back to live with her dad again. Well they should be putting their differences aside and uniting in parenting her although I fear it's too late. The damage is done.

 

[Doeli70]

Oh and if you're reading here Rachael the trolls on the internet care more about your child's wellbeing than you do. Think about it.

 

[Victoriaxxx]

Words fail me.

 

[Wotsit]

Yet another weekend of completely failing to put your child’s safety and wellbeing first, Rach. She’s incredibly lucky that Lula was able to go and get her, because who knows what could have happened otherwise.


Allowing your 13-year-old daughter to go out drinking in a pub is absolutely despicable. At 13, she should be nowhere near that sort of environment, and the responsibility for keeping her safe lies firmly with Rachael.


The way she was dressed only adds more concern. She could very easily have been mistaken for someone several years older, perhaps 18 or 19, by people who had no idea she was still a child. That potentially puts her in an incredibly vulnerable position.


This isn’t about being judgemental or trying to dictate what girls wear. It’s about recognising that she is 13, that there are adults out there who may take advantage of vulnerable young girls, and that it’s a parents job to protect her from situations she simply isn’t old enough to navigate safely.


Children need boundaries, guidance and parents who put their protection before anything else. Letting a 13-year-old get drunk in a pub is not giving her freedom; it’s failing to safeguard her.


For goodness sake, protect your child. She deserves better.

 

[Marshallmum1982]

How old is the boyfriend!? He cant be the same age as her surely

 

[DipsyDoodle]

Rabies: my teen years were horrific and vomit inducing because nobody cared enough stop me going out clubbing, drinking, taking drugs and sleeping around

Also Rabies: here's my 13 year old, dressed like a stripper, vaping and drinking in the pub. Isn't she so lush

 

[Smell_my_cheese]

She is so vulnerable. It’s really unsettling.

 

[chickhicks86]

Yet another weekend of completely failing to put your child’s safety and wellbeing first, Rach. She’s incredibly lucky that Lula was able to go and get her, because who knows what could have happened otherwise.


Allowing your 13-year-old daughter to go out drinking in a pub is absolutely despicable. At 13, she should be nowhere near that sort of environment, and the responsibility for keeping her safe lies firmly with Rachael.


The way she was dressed only adds more concern. She could very easily have been mistaken for someone several years older, perhaps 18 or 19, by people who had no idea she was still a child. That potentially puts her in an incredibly vulnerable position.


This isn’t about being judgemental or trying to dictate what girls wear. It’s about recognising that she is 13, that there are adults out there who may take advantage of vulnerable young girls, and that it’s a parents job to protect her from situations she simply isn’t old enough to navigate safely.


Children need boundaries, guidance and parents who put their protection before anything else. Letting a 13-year-old get drunk in a pub is not giving her freedom; it’s failing to safeguard her.


For goodness sake, protect your child. She deserves better.

I saw she'd liked a post on Instagram yesterday, about parents of teenagers not being able to sleep until their child was home, and yet she sends Lula to go and get her?

 

[Seenthelighttorbay]

For me its Edies incredulation and horror at being kicked out of a pub!! The sense of entitlement and the face she pulls 100 percent her mothers face. This is not going to end well and it appears to be only the chrolls that can see it!

 

[ShipShapShep]

E is five months younger than my daughter.

Despite the length of time spent on hair and make up, my daughter is a CHILD. Last night she put on joggers, hoody and Crocs (hair and make up done though) and went to her friend's for a sleepover. She also has Life360 so no sneaking off anywhere is possible. She spent the night talking and eating sweets.

Raq, PC wet wipe AND Es dad should not allow this to even happen. Who buys the clothes, the make up, the nails, the brows, the salon super blonde? Them.

PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND SAFEGUARD YOUR CHILD, bleeps

 

[geezabreak]

That outfit E is wearing, guaranteed ratchet bought that for her, that was the first of many many fails. I've got 3 adult daughters, close in age, at 13 they were allowed a light swipe of eyeshadow and that was it. To this day none of them has dressed like a hooker. They also were not allowed out at night till they were at least 16. I hate to say it but social services should be looking at this, and for that matter her father. Allowing this at 13 is beyond belief. Absolutely disgusting excuse for a mother. Nothing says I don't give a tit more than this display.

 

[BettyCat20]

I saw she'd liked a post on Instagram yesterday, about parents of teenagers not being able to sleep until their child was home, and yet she sends Lula to go and get her?

Halloween on a Saturday night with friends, they would have been drinking!!

 

[Lifebeginsatforty]

For me its Edies incredulation and horror at being kicked out of a pub!! The sense of entitlement and the face she pulls 100 percent her mothers face. This is not going to end well and it appears to be only the chrolls that can see it!

Hopefully these people that are unfollowing see it too

 

[ScottishMammy92]

The thing is she'll snort and say trolls are targeting E and saying awful things about her. I cant speak for anyone else but I wouldnt comment on E specifically and I actually dont think we should share pictures of her on here either. But I also understand the nature of tattle is keeping receipts and so understand why they have been. As apparently a still serving police officer on a career break how is J not telling her at the absolute minimum to stop sharing the kids online?

No one would know anything about her children if she didnt share it. But shes practically advertising that there is no safeguarding for her 13 year old who is allowed to dress however she wants, vape, drink and have her boyfriend over because she might throw a tantrum? With no regard for her education because the teachers are all trolls.

Please please please can we ban children from social media. Its going to ruin them.

 

[Fizz22]

Is that E in the corset? Thats absolutely insane.

 

[Hamiltonshats]

How old is the boyfriend?

God at 13 it should be holding hands and giggling not alone in her room and going out drinking.

 

[Wotsit]

I saw she'd liked a post on Instagram yesterday, about parents of teenagers not being able to sleep until their child was home, and yet she sends Lula to go and get her?

I'm the same, and my youngest is in his 20s. Luckily he doesn't go out much, and he's not a big drinker. When he does go out, I always say no matter what's happened ring me. If you're feeling too drunk or stuck for getting home ring me. I dont care what time it is, I'd rather a call off him for a lift at 3am than police knocking on the door saying he's been stabbed or something.

There's too many idiots in the world these days, and every week there are news stories of young women and men been attacked. Pubs and bars are not the place for 13 year olds, especially on a Saturday night.

 

[BettyCat20]

I'm the same, and my youngest is in his 20s. Luckily he doesn't go out much, and he's not a big drinker. When he does go out, I always say no matter what's happened ring me. If you're feeling too drunk or stuck for getting home ring me. I dont care what time it is, I'd rather a call off him for a lift at 3am than police knocking on the door saying he's been stabbed or something.

There's too many idiots in the world these days, and every week there are news stories of young women and men been attacked. Pubs and bars are not the place for 13 year olds, especially on a Saturday night.

Exactly this! I don't drive but I'd be booking a taxi from a reputable taxi firm or an Uber that I can track. I don't understand how she thinks it's ok to be sharing what she does without any consequences? She dressed how she did at a wedding and had a "panic attack" because of us chrolls but thinks it's ok for her 13 year old daughter to be wearing less. Make it make sense.