PTWM #221 Divorce Diaries

[EdieMcCreadie]

I’m a long-time lurker on here. I knew/know Rachael personally through pretty horrendous circumstances, she then became what I thought was a friend. This is going back to 2004. I’ve wanted to say so much but was worried because of my situation. However, after this week I really don’t care. She outed my family on social media. She was employed by children’s services aged 21 to help me and my children through the worst time in our life, and now she thinks it’s ok to put this on social media like it’s her story. I don’t know how many people saw this but it was on her stories. Considering she’s working with vulnerable families, she doesn’t seem to know what confidentiality is. I have so much i want to say. I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing but she can’t keep getting away with what she does to people. She clearly thinks she hasn’t enough engagement so she just pulls someone else trauma up and uses that

 

[DipsyDoodle]

The only prize draws where the winners don't get tagged!

First prize - Moshua Jarshall
Second prize - Rachel Cambleton
Third prize - Bilby Tambleton

 

[ScottishMammy92]

There isnt a world my 13 year old child who is barely old enough to make her own decision on what she wants for dinner is wearing that outfit and posing like that with a boy in her bedroom. Im sorry what is the world coming to? And then why don't we share that online because our parents make money from it? Absolutely insane.

Shes been failed by both parents. I dont actually accept that she "cant parent how she wants to" you are not her friend. You are her parent. It actually doesnt matter if she likes you or your boundaries. Your job is to keep her safe. At 13 she isnt old enough or mature enough to deal with processing alcohol. Her frontal lobe isnt developed enough to deal with adult level relationships. She is a child. Both parents should be ashamed of allowing a child to run amok like that and then having it become public knowledge.

 

[chickhicks86]

Well if we're in the mood for reminiscing

 

[Wotsit]

Yet another weekend of completely failing to put your child’s safety and wellbeing first, Rach. She’s incredibly lucky that Lula was able to go and get her, because who knows what could have happened otherwise.


Allowing your 13-year-old daughter to go out drinking in a pub is absolutely despicable. At 13, she should be nowhere near that sort of environment, and the responsibility for keeping her safe lies firmly with Rachael.


The way she was dressed only adds more concern. She could very easily have been mistaken for someone several years older, perhaps 18 or 19, by people who had no idea she was still a child. That potentially puts her in an incredibly vulnerable position.


This isn’t about being judgemental or trying to dictate what girls wear. It’s about recognising that she is 13, that there are adults out there who may take advantage of vulnerable young girls, and that it’s a parents job to protect her from situations she simply isn’t old enough to navigate safely.


Children need boundaries, guidance and parents who put their protection before anything else. Letting a 13-year-old get drunk in a pub is not giving her freedom; it’s failing to safeguard her.


For goodness sake, protect your child. She deserves better.

 

[ShipShapShep]

E is five months younger than my daughter.

Despite the length of time spent on hair and make up, my daughter is a CHILD. Last night she put on joggers, hoody and Crocs (hair and make up done though) and went to her friend's for a sleepover. She also has Life360 so no sneaking off anywhere is possible. She spent the night talking and eating sweets.

Raq, PC wet wipe AND Es dad should not allow this to even happen. Who buys the clothes, the make up, the nails, the brows, the salon super blonde? Them.

PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND SAFEGUARD YOUR CHILD, cunts

 

[DipsyDoodle]

Fantastic, you have the chance to win a £1300 advent calendar that has already been manhandled by Rachael and Edie.

Advent calendars have got out of hand. These massive boxes full of all sorts of crap, just thinking about the waste is giving me the heebie jeebies. Yeah you might get over a grand's worth of products, but probably half of them you wouldn't use (wrong colour if it's make up, not suitable for your skin if it's skincare etc), and all that packaging that will go straight to landfill. I'm absolutely sick of the capitalist overconsumption bullshit, it needs to die a death. We're killing the planet because people like Rabies are promoting a lifestyle of 'buy buy buy' to line their own pockets.

(Obviously I'm aware it's not just influencers, but they don't fucking help!)

 

[DipsyDoodle]

Rabies: my teen years were horrific and vomit inducing because nobody cared enough stop me going out clubbing, drinking, taking drugs and sleeping around

Also Rabies: here's my 13 year old, dressed like a stripper, vaping and drinking in the pub. Isn't she so lush

 

[Lifebeginsatforty]

Speaking of which...

(Sorry about the quality, it's from the actual live as opposed to the saved recording, so I've done my best to crop the other comments/usernames out.)

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Had to include this one just because of how much it made me cringe.
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Wow...so she's basically admitted that Edie can now get away with anything as she's worried she'll just go back to her dad's

 

[chickhicks86]

I’m a long-time lurker on here. I knew/know Rachael personally through pretty horrendous circumstances, she then became what I thought was a friend. This is going back to 2004. I’ve wanted to say so much but was worried because of my situation. However, after this week I really don’t care. She outed my family on social media. She was employed by children’s services aged 21 to help me and my children through the worst time in our life, and now she thinks it’s ok to put this on social media like it’s her story. I don’t know how many people saw this but it was on her stories. Considering she’s working with vulnerable families, she doesn’t seem to know what confidentiality is. I have so much i want to say. I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing but she can’t keep getting away with what she does to people. She clearly thinks she hasn’t enough engagement so she just pulls someone else trauma up and uses that

I think, to Rachael, people's actual trauma is just like a fairy story in her head. Unlike not getting the trainers that she wanted, she doesn't realise that these are people's real lives that she is messing with. Just goes to show that she has never actually experienced it, or she wouldn't use someone else's for content or engagement. I hope you are ok, please let us know if we can support you in any way.

 

[ScottishMammy92]

99 jobs, but being a parent ain't one.

 

[bagpuss17278]

As unlikeable as Josh is, it really is starting to look like coercive control from Rachet.

 

[Smell_my_cheese]

I’m just wondering how, as a parent, you can ever come back from this point. Once your child happily admits that if you try to discipline them they’ll be off, you can never ever instil any sort of boundaries.
I wouldn’t be laughing about it, I’d be terrified.

 

[DipsyDoodle]

I wonder whether Raq has emailed the manager of the local Spoons yet to ask if their policy on removing underage drinkers is trauma informed

 

[DipsyDoodle]

I've said it before and I'll say it again - when she talks about her horrific teen years, with all the sex, drinking and drug taking, she blames the adults around her for not keeping her safe. Yet now all her kids and step kids are doing it, she says it's perfectly normal teenage behaviour make it make sense!

 

[Doeli70]

It's actually very sad. Edie is a child and her brain hasn't developed fully yet but she's jumped straight into adulthood and this has been encouraged by her moronic mother. I feel like Josh in the early days tried to be authoritative but he was laughed at so he gave up. Unfortunately although Edie's dad is a better parent he also spoils her. The admission that all her kids vape and the shrug is terrible. Look up popcorn lung Rachel. I have a friend who's a surgeon and he thinks vaping is going to bite people on the arse in a few years. Edie basically does whatever she wants and is rewarded for bad behaviour. No limits, no discipline. I hate hearing children swear. It's not big or clever. Kids swear, I'm not stupid but my kids are adults and still don't swear in front of me. It's called respect. Sadly none in that house.

 

[LoopyHoopy71]

I've followed Rach for more years than I can count and well before I knew about Tattle but how Josh has stayed I do not know. Over the last few years she has manipulated every situation and basically demeaned him more and more. Never thought I'd ever stick up for him.
He's obviously tried to instil some discipline and she's shot him down to the point even with his own kids he has no say. The way she is acting in those vids with her eye rolling, sighing and disagreeing with him when he's actively saying 'don't do that'.
The bullied becomes the bully. Gaslighting and typical Narc personality Rach.

 

[troglodyte]

I love watching the disappointment appear on her face

Classic Rachaelelele. She was not expecting Barcelona.

Seb's finest moment.

 

[Smell_my_cheese]

Oh babe, I'm so sorry!

It’s ok…it’s going in my memoirs as “The time I was horrifically trolled online”.
Luckily I had my brown paper bag to hyperventilate into.

 

[rainbowhouse]

My vagina just dried up all the way to my throat