PTWM #220 Nursed the Thread to Death

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I dip in and out of her page but caught the diary from tonight. I don’t like J find him irritating and sleezy but I do agree with his points about Lula and her friends. I wouldn’t be happy to have people in my home that I didn’t know whilst my child was out. I would say a bit more then who the f@ck is that too.
 
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So, R has 6 kids and J has 7, because how draining and needy is R! J, saying adults have their own mind, try telling your wife that!! I'm sorry, having kids in and out of your home while you're away, then blame the bleeping cleaner!!!!! Sort your own kids out! R, stop being your childrens friend and everyone else's kids as well, you are not creating what you think you are. Infact, you have created exactly what you deserve!! It's the mess you deserve to be in, by not giving boundaries.
 
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Im actually with J on this one. Why are there kids in your house while your own kids aren’t there? And sleeping in their siblings rooms? Nah. That’s not on. Boundaries.
 
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Maybe don't duck off & leave your kids with the cleaner all the time? "But linda let's it happen" whiney voice 😫 no wonder linda wants out!
 
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I felt uncomfortable watching that (carried on though didn’t I 😬🫣) it feels really grim watching a family fall apart in real time. I’ve been following PTWM and this thread for many years now and people used to talk about the inevitable downfall… looks like it’s happening.

I do feel so sad for all the children though. Interesting that Betsy is emotional because she finally feels settled - does that mean she never felt particularly safe at home? 😔
 
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I agree that was a really uncomfortable watch, and I’m also with J on this one. It sounds like a bleeping safeguarding nightmare having all these underage kids who you don’t know anything about (parent or responsible adult contact, medical info ect ect sounds like they don’t even know their names half the time) in your house, without your knowledge and without supervision. No wonder Linda has given up!! This is another one on the long list of “things J should know better about given he has received police training” and they’re actually opening themselves up to a lot of hassle if (god forbid) anything happened or even if any allegations were made about stuff happening
 
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Wow that was an awful watch but I'm with J. The fact he mentioned she is manipulating says a lot. Even during that video she was trying to bring it back to her and crying for effect.
For a change Josh is right, R panders to all those kids pretending to be the good parent but she's made them soft.
It's his house as well so coming home to strangers isn't on, especially if you don't know what is going on.
Do we know why Linda is moving out?
 
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I dip in and out of her page but caught the diary from tonight. I don’t like J find him irritating and sleezy but I do agree with his points about Lula and her friends. I wouldn’t be happy to have people in my home that I didn’t know whilst my child was out. I would say a bit more then who the f@ck is that too.
I think if I saw that diary reel on its own, having never seen him be a twit to his sons and always having his top off 🤢, I’d probably think he was an ok guy. He comes across as rational and supportive.

She doesn’t mind all sorts coming into the house and her kids doing what they want (not going to school, dropping out of college, taking drugs, dressing 5 years older than their age etc etc) because she thinks it makes her kids like her and followers think she’s a cool, modern mum. Boundaries just don’t exist in her world.
 
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The audacity of her whining that the cleaner ‘let them stay’ when referring to 14 teenagers invading their house. The cleaner shouldn’t be lumbered with her bloody kids or stolen kids in the first place!
 
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The audacity of her whining that the cleaner ‘let them stay’ when referring to 14 teenagers invading their house. The cleaner shouldn’t be lumbered with her bloody kids or stolen kids in the first place!
If my own teenager brought 14 friends back, I don't think I would know where to start, and that would be with my own child not one that I am paid / bribed to oversee as a glorified slave. My own teen wouldn't do that though, because they have respect for our family home.

As for randoms sleeping in Wilby's / other bedrooms - there's a reason that if social services visit for safeguarding reasons they check to see if the child has a safe bedroom. It's not safe if anyone can access it. Presumably Wilby was with them when they returned, so he would have seen his room invaded by strangers. Poor little lad.
 
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I'm having to say some more because I can't believe she thinks all this is reasonable and acceptable. I think I can see why E is back too, she's allowed her boyfriend at her mums in her bedroom!! Also, if she E doesn't want to go to school, at her mum's she won't have to.

Just the thought of some teenagers that you don't know and have no clue what they were doing, being in a 7 year olds bed, gives me all sorts of ick. Why J thinks a revolving door is acceptable, is beyond me. For their children and their friends to disrespect their family home, blows my mind. I would have said privacy too but R already doesn't give a shiny tit about that.

Poor B, feeling conflicted with her feelings that she feels settled. As someone said previously, it shows the instability she had previously that makes her feel that way. I'm sure she maybe also feels guilt that her siblings aren't in a stable place.

For R to be so blinded by what is going on, astounds me. She has 6 children, B we can safely say has found her way in life and it looks absolutely amazing. The other 5, I truly hope they can come out the other side as well. When all of her children behave the same, it's not difficult to see that it's a her problem. No one is that unlucky that all your children behave that way.

As much as I agree with J. I'm sorry but he's allowed it already for years. He should have put boundaries in with his wife years ago, now he's trying, it's not going to work because he's rolled over before and accepted her behaviour. Now he has another stroppy 12 year old in the form of a 44 year old woman to contend with.
 
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I hate Josh as much as the next person but he’s been trying to place boundaries for years and it got to the point where Rachel’s daughters would then round on him saying he only paid the electricity bill or something (I think I remember that correctly) and that he basically had no say in what they got up to/who they brought back home. Rachel actively encouraged (and probably still does, I don’t watch her anymore, I can’t even hate watch) Betsy and Lula to be rude and hateful towards him while she filmed and snorted away. She’s now reaping what she has sown over the years and she has no one to blame but herself.