PTWM #219 They’re not in Barbados

[DipsyDoodle]

I've just made myself chuckle thinking about the time she emailed Edie's school asking if their uniform policy was "trauma informed"

 

[Smell_my_cheese]

“Children who have experienced trauma may display behaviours that closely resemble those associated with neurodevelopmental conditions such as Autism or ADHD.”

Every single one of those children has had a traumatic childhood. I’d imagine they’ve never felt fully safe at home because every part of their childhood has been filmed, viewed by thousands and then monetised.

You’d think with her “love” of trauma, she’d appreciate the overlap of traits and sit back and think a little. Far easier to blame others though.

 

[boundandgagged]

 

[Eyesopened]

This trip will have really helped B to see that any guilt she has been made to feel is misplaced. The fab experiences she is having is being ridiculed by her mother, that’s enough to piss anyone off.

 

[LauraC35]

Just watched on her Patreon stories (I don’t pay)
- Edie came home last Monday
- Seb cooked a pizza and broke the oven- £400 for new
- Isaac isn’t speaking to her or Josh
- Lula has quit college 2 weeks before exams and is refusing to come home because she hates what’s going on there.
Such a happy house 🫤

 

[Aab41]

Bloody hell, so she is blaming the school for all of this too? Not to humble brag but we have the same app for the school my daughter goes to and it is the complete opposite with deserved praise because she has earned it, but this info has never been shared with anyone else until anonymously just now. How can she not see that it is her parenting and the kids behaviour that is at fault and not the school. 30 suspensions that is ridiculous, even the worst kids in our school haven't had that. And the most damming worrying thing in all of this is that she has shared this private really not positive information of her 12 year old daughter to a load of strangers online, absolutely shocking

 

[ScottishMammy92]

Can her followers not perform basic maths?

Both her and her husband have given up gainful employment to be full time influencers. She did this stating she would be running her womans centre and pantry full time and that monetising her accounts would allow her to do that. OK. Fine.

Now she says they have almost no money and the pantry is empty. But her content centres around extravagant clothing purchases, trips abroad with her husband who doesnt produce an income and oversharing her children who clearly benefit financially from her.

So if all these followers share, donate, buy from rebl and send food to the pantry...where do they think their money is going?

Genuinely if I donated to a charity and saw they had a massive following online of people who also donate id be seriously questioning how that scenario is possible.

Dont worry though - Josh is going to sell one million thermomix machines and save the day.

 

[DipsyDoodle]

Just thought I'd pop this here for posterity, in case any stray huns come looking to defend their queen, here she is on the beg but also admitting that she helps herself to the donations.....

 

[chickhicks86]

I thought she nursed her nan "to death" in a random dining room? Or was that someone else?

 

[Victoriaxxx]

Two broken little girls and a tiny baby when Josh the saviour came along? Weren’t you actually just having an affair with him and shagging him in the woods while pregnant with another man’s child? Not quite the same romantic story is it Rachel.

Still, you’ve never let the facts get in the way of a good grid post have you…

 

[ForestFire]

Why is she so hung up on the uniform and blazer…? Your daughter’s school has rules, uniform is one of them, so follow them. You’re meant to follow rules or face the consequences in school, aren’t you? It’s what stops the world descending into anarchy once you leave and have to navigate the outside world where there are, you know, laws and stuff.

Actually I’ve just read that back and I’m off to give my head a wobble. Clearly I have failed to appreciate that the school may not have invoked a trauma informed uniform policy, and none of the rules apply to her kids anyway.

 

[chickhicks86]

I wonder what the huns who donate to her "cause" think about 2 big holidays in 2 months - Spain last month for 2 weeks and now a long haul break away to a tropical country. What about the SEN parents who see her able to leave Wilby with his "high needs" a 10 hour flight away. The secondary parents who are struggling to support their year 11s through their GCSEs?

 

[Thalassa164]

This behaviour any bad behaviour is a child communicating about unmet needs. For me this looks like a cry for routine, stability and rules. She had none of this growing up … and six month staying with her dad won’t fix this especially if mother dearest doesn’t cooperate and thinks everyone is to blame but her..! Edie clearly craves attention and care but the right attention not the fake kind for likes, engagement and sympathy.

 

[Eyesopened]

How’s about the word NO.
No you can’t wear false lashes, nails and a whole load of make up to school
No you can’t wear anything but the approved uniform.

Edie is only playing the game to have any sort of attention from her peers.

 

[No_Angel]

Right info on eddie... I tried to screen record but cant make the videos short enough. She left and didn't come back which we know as rach was trying to set too many boundaries. She goes on about the grief of a child who hasnt died but you cant see. She saw eddie in jan who had a rant about rach 'all lies her dad's side have told her' and L kicked off and then she didnt come back till this week. E wanted to go to a party and rach said no and E just left anyway. She has had nearly 30 school suspensions and may have to move school but only one will take her (which she named but I wont repeat) got upset about the consequences of Es actions and how at new years she got so upset at her moms she was worried it would kill her (rach that is) saying it was as bad as when the trolling upset her so much before and alluding to it making her want to off herself. (Not sure what words I can use on here sorry) and she has E today but was late due to her not wanting to go to school possibly as she doesn't want to wear her blazer. But then I saw a video this morning of her with E in the car having a lucozade for breakfast, rach told her not to but then opened it for her which if that doesn't sum up the parenting what does?!

She wasn't any better In R's care either. Surely that many suspensions would result in a harder consequence?

It's the same old story, her kids are angels and it's other people's fault.

R, you've repeatedly told your own children education is not needed and never back anything up to help them have any sort structure. I'm sorry but her behaviour was there well before September, due to how you parent.

 

[chickhicks86]

So far, they’ve shipped the kids off to spend her birthday alone during Covid lockdown (when Betsy would have been doing GCSEs if it wasn’t cancelled) and they’ve missed Seb and Tallulah’s GCSEs and Tallulah’s prom, and now they’re planning to be away for Isaac’s exams?? That’s no coincidence, it’s deliberately terrible parenting. How anyone goes to her for parenting advice is beyond me.

They must have pulled Wobble out of proper school so they’re not tied to parents evenings/sports days/exams etc. Selfish arseholes.

Tallulah's prom that she made an absolute stink about her attending, and then wasn't even there to help her get ready. That was left to her toxic mum. It's laughable really. Once is pretty awful, but to do it to every child at such an important milestone is absolutely dire parenting. When you become a parent, stuff like your own birthday takes a back seat during important times for your children. Why can't they just go out for a nice meal?

 

[RubySky478]

Is the 'good looking' in the room with us?

Why does he still have baby teeth?

 

[JJ1323]

How mortified Betsy was shushing Josh for being “black and white” aka completely rude about the temples. Her saying “we’re just not dressed right for inside”
She’s grown up so much

 

[troglodyte]

These are a couple of weeks old, sorry for the slow uploads.

Sloshua being a massive, cringey bellend. "If you dance with the devil, you better be ready for the fires of hell."

And if we ever needed another reason to avoid sunbeds... (She went on to share a few sex toy recommendations, I think it goes without saying that they were all affiliate links.)

 

[No_Angel]

One of mine has GCSE's coming up. I wouldn't dream of pissing off somewhere and leaving them.

For someone who beats on about being abandoned, she sure does the same thing for her kids at key moments of their lives. Nothing like keeping the cycle going.