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It’s mainly when I wipe there red. Not gone onto pad.
This sounds very similar to what I experienced, it was fresh pinky red blood that gradually turned brown and stopped. I had random occurrences of it throughout the pregnancy, so just be aware it could happen again. Everything’s so sensitive down there and the blood flow is increased during pregnancy anyway x
 
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This sounds very similar to what I experienced, it was fresh pinky red blood that gradually turned brown and stopped. I had random occurrences of it throughout the pregnancy, so just be aware it could happen again. Everything’s so sensitive down there and the blood flow is increased during pregnancy anyway x
Thanks. It does sound like it’s co insided with my internal scan. She was confident cervix was closed and the bleeding wasn’t coming from internally. It’s gone brown this morning with just the tiniest bit of pink so fingers crossed is finishing up!
specalist app in jan to take a further look at it! I feel sick as this morning so pregnancy symptoms are defo still there!
 
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Thanks. It does sound like it’s co insided with my internal scan. She was confident cervix was closed and the bleeding wasn’t coming from internally. It’s gone brown this morning with just the tiniest bit of pink so fingers crossed is finishing up!
specalist app in jan to take a further look at it! I feel sick as this morning so pregnancy symptoms are defo still there!
Don't worry even if the symptoms disappear though 😊
They don't really mean anything in terms of whether something has happened or not. I had symptoms 4 weeks after my miscarriage, but on the other hand, had no symptoms for my other pregnancies! 😊
It definitely sounds like your bleeding is from the internal scan, I'm pretty sure when I had mine, they told me to expect some anyway😊
 
Don't worry even if the symptoms disappear though 😊
They don't really mean anything in terms of whether something has happened or not. I had symptoms 4 weeks after my miscarriage, but on the other hand, had no symptoms for my other pregnancies! 😊
It definitely sounds like your bleeding is from the internal scan, I'm pretty sure when I had mine, they told me to expect some anyway😊
oh Really, they didn’t mention anything. But I have heard others have a small amount of spotting after without polyp.
 
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We were planning to tell our parents our news face to face over Christmas (currently 12 weeks) but just been put into tier 4 so all plans are off. Going to have to announce over FaceTime instead now ☹
 
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We were planning to tell our parents our news face to face over Christmas (currently 12 weeks) but just been put into tier 4 so all plans are off. Going to have to announce over FaceTime instead now ☹
We announced ours over a video call with a load of my family back in June. Even tho it would have been nicer to do it in real life it was still fun. You could screen record it too so you’ll be able to watch it back.

Try and think of a fun way to get it into the video call ☺
 
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We were planning to tell our parents our news face to face over Christmas (currently 12 weeks) but just been put into tier 4 so all plans are off. Going to have to announce over FaceTime instead now ☹
We’re in tier 4 too. Absolutely devastated
 
We were planning to tell our parents our news face to face over Christmas (currently 12 weeks) but just been put into tier 4 so all plans are off. Going to have to announce over FaceTime instead now ☹
Same here. We're now going to do a Zoom call with both sets of parents/siblings at the same time though which is nice. Need to think of a fun way to announce it!
 
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Sorry to all who have had plans wrecked by the new announcements. We have as well. I don’t think we will see my in laws at all now until after the baby is here. I’m assuming by May (I’m due end of April) things may have calms the duck down a bit.
 
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I’m dreading what it’s gonna be like when my little one comes along. We’ve already said no visitors (except my mum, as she’s coming up before my due date so I have childcare for my elder 2 when I go into labour) she’s gonna isolate before she comes up too.

But I’m expecting my other half’s family to just assume we’ll be coming round with a newborn. I’ve told my partner plenty of times to let them know it won’t be happening but no idea if he actually has.
 
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Hi everyone! I’m 32 weeks with much wanted and tried for number 2! Been a long journey with 6 early miscarriages but we are almost there 🥰
Everything has been tough this time with working through the pandemic and my midwife notes are very empty.
Planning a home birth this time around pending baby moving out of transverse lie and my iron levels going back up to where they should be.
 
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I know everyone is in the same boat and I also know I’m very blessed to be pregnant after years of thinking it would never happen. But I feel safe posting here and comfy opening up- but this news about Christmas has knocked me for six. Maybe it’s the hormones, I’m already super emotional and a rollercoaster of emotions.
But it’s totally freaking me out.
I’m so scared about going for my 12 week scan- I’m not too bothered about my partner not coming in with me- but I’m terrified it will be bad news and I will be heartbroken over Christmas. I know I’m thinking the worst but this year has thrown so much at us that I don’t think I could take anymore. And as much as I love my partner, and he really is amazing- if it is bad news I will just want my mum. 😞 and now they’ve taken 5 day Christmas period away from us I just feel even more panicked that I won’t see mum. I know I shouldn’t worry about things that can’t be changed but I can’t help it. I’m so scared I will get there and they will say there’s no heartbeat. Everything this year seems to be bad news and I suppose I’m just preparing myself for the worst. I feel like I should be excited and there’s something wrong with me that I’m more worried than excited! it doesn’t help that all year Iv been on furlough (I’m cabin crew) so Iv felt so isolated and constantly worried about my job and money- I just don’t think I could take anymore. The only solace is that my family have all stayed safe and healthy and Iv not lost anyone to Covid, but I dunno- I just feel so scared about everything since finding out I’m pregnant. I’m like a bag of nerves!

Hi everyone! I’m 32 weeks with much wanted and tried for number 2! Been a long journey with 6 early miscarriages but we are almost there 🥰
Everything has been tough this time with working through the pandemic and my midwife notes are very empty.
Planning a home birth this time around pending baby moving out of transverse lie and my iron levels going back up to where they should be.
Congratulations!
6 miscarriages- I can’t even imagine. 😞
Not long now, I hope all goes well in these last few weeks! Sending lots of love 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰xx
 
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I know everyone is in the same boat and I also know I’m very blessed to be pregnant after years of thinking it would never happen. But I feel safe posting here and comfy opening up- but this news about Christmas has knocked me for six. Maybe it’s the hormones, I’m already super emotional and a rollercoaster of emotions.
But it’s totally freaking me out.
I’m so scared about going for my 12 week scan- I’m not too bothered about my partner not coming in with me- but I’m terrified it will be bad news and I will be heartbroken over Christmas. I know I’m thinking the worst but this year has thrown so much at us that I don’t think I could take anymore. And as much as I love my partner, and he really is amazing- if it is bad news I will just want my mum. 😞 and now they’ve taken 5 day Christmas period away from us I just feel even more panicked that I won’t see mum. I know I shouldn’t worry about things that can’t be changed but I can’t help it. I’m so scared I will get there and they will say there’s no heartbeat. Everything this year seems to be bad news and I suppose I’m just preparing myself for the worst. I feel like I should be excited and there’s something wrong with me that I’m more worried than excited! it doesn’t help that all year Iv been on furlough (I’m cabin crew) so Iv felt so isolated and constantly worried about my job and money- I just don’t think I could take anymore. The only solace is that my family have all stayed safe and healthy and Iv not lost anyone to Covid, but I dunno- I just feel so scared about everything since finding out I’m pregnant. I’m like a bag of nerves!


Congratulations!
6 miscarriages- I can’t even imagine. 😞
Not long now, I hope all goes well in these last few weeks! Sending lots of love 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰xx
Worrying about your 12 week scan if very very normal.
I had convinced myself something was wrong so stopped myself from getting excited about anything at all. And then once my 12 week scan was done, I then thought exactly the same about my 20 week scan.
It is perfectly normal.
There's nothing wrong with you at all! ❤

I'm 28 weeks now and I still haven't let myself get excited because I worry every single day that something is wrong until I feel the first kicks or movement of the day!
 
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I know everyone is in the same boat and I also know I’m very blessed to be pregnant after years of thinking it would never happen. But I feel safe posting here and comfy opening up- but this news about Christmas has knocked me for six. Maybe it’s the hormones, I’m already super emotional and a rollercoaster of emotions.
But it’s totally freaking me out.
I’m so scared about going for my 12 week scan- I’m not too bothered about my partner not coming in with me- but I’m terrified it will be bad news and I will be heartbroken over Christmas. I know I’m thinking the worst but this year has thrown so much at us that I don’t think I could take anymore. And as much as I love my partner, and he really is amazing- if it is bad news I will just want my mum. 😞 and now they’ve taken 5 day Christmas period away from us I just feel even more panicked that I won’t see mum. I know I shouldn’t worry about things that can’t be changed but I can’t help it. I’m so scared I will get there and they will say there’s no heartbeat. Everything this year seems to be bad news and I suppose I’m just preparing myself for the worst. I feel like I should be excited and there’s something wrong with me that I’m more worried than excited! it doesn’t help that all year Iv been on furlough (I’m cabin crew) so Iv felt so isolated and constantly worried about my job and money- I just don’t think I could take anymore. The only solace is that my family have all stayed safe and healthy and Iv not lost anyone to Covid, but I dunno- I just feel so scared about everything since finding out I’m pregnant. I’m like a bag of nerves!
Even after having an early scan I was still terrified going for my 12 week scan. I’m having growth scans now and still get some anxiety before them.
 
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Does anyone know if private scan clinics closed during lockdown? I’m impatiently waiting until tomorrow so I can call and find out if I still have an appointment 😫
 
Does anyone know if private scan clinics closed during lockdown? I’m impatiently waiting until tomorrow so I can call and find out if I still have an appointment 😫
Iv got one next week in tier 4 and not been cancelled so far
 
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I know everyone is in the same boat and I also know I’m very blessed to be pregnant after years of thinking it would never happen. But I feel safe posting here and comfy opening up- but this news about Christmas has knocked me for six. Maybe it’s the hormones, I’m already super emotional and a rollercoaster of emotions.
But it’s totally freaking me out.
I’m so scared about going for my 12 week scan- I’m not too bothered about my partner not coming in with me- but I’m terrified it will be bad news and I will be heartbroken over Christmas. I know I’m thinking the worst but this year has thrown so much at us that I don’t think I could take anymore. And as much as I love my partner, and he really is amazing- if it is bad news I will just want my mum. 😞 and now they’ve taken 5 day Christmas period away from us I just feel even more panicked that I won’t see mum. I know I shouldn’t worry about things that can’t be changed but I can’t help it. I’m so scared I will get there and they will say there’s no heartbeat. Everything this year seems to be bad news and I suppose I’m just preparing myself for the worst. I feel like I should be excited and there’s something wrong with me that I’m more worried than excited! it doesn’t help that all year Iv been on furlough (I’m cabin crew) so Iv felt so isolated and constantly worried about my job and money- I just don’t think I could take anymore. The only solace is that my family have all stayed safe and healthy and Iv not lost anyone to Covid, but I dunno- I just feel so scared about everything since finding out I’m pregnant. I’m like a bag of nerves

I'm the same....and I've seen the heartbeat twice already with my early scans. Early pregnancy is so stressful 😔 I said up the thread I worry if my symptoms are better one day even though I should be grateful I feel better for a while. I also keep dreaming that I am going to wake up and be covered in blood, can't even escape it when I'm sleeping 😔
When is your 12 week scan again?

Does anyone know if private scan clinics closed during lockdown? I’m impatiently waiting until tomorrow so I can call and find out if I still have an appointment 😫
My clinic have put on FB that they are remaining open but just keeping in with social distancing. Still allowing one person in with me too.
 
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Worrying about your 12 week scan if very very normal.
I had convinced myself something was wrong so stopped myself from getting excited about anything at all. And then once my 12 week scan was done, I then thought exactly the same about my 20 week scan.
It is perfectly normal.
There's nothing wrong with you at all! ❤

I'm 28 weeks now and I still haven't let myself get excited because I worry every single day that something is wrong until I feel the first kicks or movement of the day!
I'm the same....and I've seen the heartbeat twice already with my early scans. Early pregnancy is so stressful 😔 I said up the thread I worry if my symptoms are better one day even though I should be grateful I feel better for a while. I also keep dreaming that I am going to wake up and be covered in blood, can't even escape it when I'm sleeping 😔
When is your 12 week scan again?



My clinic have put on FB that they are remaining open but just keeping in with social distancing. Still allowing one person in with me too.
I’m exactly the same, I’m just in a constant state of worry, I think this whole Covid thing is putting extra stress on things too. My scan is the 23rd xx
 
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I'm the same....and I've seen the heartbeat twice already with my early scans. Early pregnancy is so stressful 😔 I said up the thread I worry if my symptoms are better one day even though I should be grateful I feel better for a while. I also keep dreaming that I am going to wake up and be covered in blood, can't even escape it when I'm sleeping 😔
When is your 12 week scan again?



My clinic have put on FB that they are remaining open but just keeping in with social distancing. Still allowing one person in with me too.
I am exactly the same :( I keep mentally preparing myself that they will find no heartbeat at my 12 week scan on 5th January. Such an emotional rollercoaster!
 
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