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Trying to take credit for the fact twopoofsandapudding won the wedding... can’t you just be happy for them without adding it to the list of fabulous things you’ve done...
And how she's invited herself and made herself bridesmaid! Who would want that tit show anywhere near your wedding. I genuinely don't understand how she manages to turn everything back onto herself
 
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No you are right. Omg. Thank god someone else saw that and not just me. It wasn’t an abusive relationship, it was a violent relationship. It’s a totally different thing. I read it and thought ‘hang on a minute.’ She couldn’t write the domestic abuse story, because she hadn’t experienced it. In her book her girls Dad was married when he got with her and then Josh was married when he got with her. The ‘childhood’ that was so bad, was not that bad. She was cared for and financially comfortable. She was just unruly. I live in an extremely impoverished area and see children with awful lives, parents that are destitute, have substance addiction and are violent on tap. This woman knows nothing of a tough life. She caused it all herself. It blows my head clean off that people call her a saint. She hasn’t got a clue 🙄🙄
100%! In all honesty her life without her own destructive behaviours would’ve been your run of the mill, simple life. It’s actually quite aggravating that she’s touting herself as some saint and saviour for all these poor women and children (and men) who have been through such traumatic events - wonder how many of those women goaded their partners on purpose for the sake of getting into a fist fight like PTWM claims she did - walked on eggshells more like!
 
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I've had to block her.

It's really worrying that she is asking again for money, with no explanation of where and how it's being spent. Her Buisness / charity isn't registered and if she is self employed receiving direct payments as self employed must be illegal.
I find it all very worrying. To be honest I have brought up my concerns to her numerous times. I never got a reaction as I was lost in sea of comments. Then on one post, she said that she really hoped the eldest boy was Gay. To which I pointed out was a stupid thing to say. Gay men have difficult lives, it’s certainly not an easy ride for them as many would tell you themselves and to put on SM that you hoped someone turned out to be Gay for your entertainment was just simply beyond me. Especially when you are the responsible adult in that relationship. I explained this and she blocked me on that account. So that was that. Although I have 2 Instagram accounts and was following her on both anyway. I kept watching because frankly I was and am alarmed by her behaviour and the message she is giving some younger Mothers and children. I would like to challenge her again if I’m honest. But I’m not sure how to go about it. Obviously she & her Husband are not my kind of person and that is perfectly fine. The gossip side of this thread is understandable. But at the core, there is clearly some people as concerned as me by the set up she has. Albeit made even more worrying given her husbands job. I’ll figure something out. At the end of the day, if she lays off the asking for money & working with vulnerable people without regulation then it’s up to her how she lives her life, but seriously, questions should be asked 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
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I find it all very worrying. To be honest I have brought up my concerns to her numerous times. I never got a reaction as I was lost in sea of comments. Then on one post, she said that she really hoped the eldest boy was Gay. To which I pointed out was a stupid thing to say. Gay men have difficult lives, it’s certainly not an easy ride for them as many would tell you themselves and to put on SM that you hoped someone turned out to be Gay for your entertainment was just simply beyond me. Especially when you are the responsible adult in that relationship. I explained this and she blocked me on that account. So that was that. Although I have 2 Instagram accounts and was following her on both anyway. I kept watching because frankly I was and am alarmed by her behaviour and the message she is giving some younger Mothers and children. I would like to challenge her again if I’m honest. But I’m not sure how to go about it. Obviously she & her Husband are not my kind of person and that is perfectly fine. The gossip side of this thread is understandable. But at the core, there is clearly some people as concerned as me by the set up she has. Albeit made even more worrying given her husbands job. I’ll figure something out. At the end of the day, if she lays off the asking for money & working with vulnerable people without regulation then it’s up to her how she lives her life, but seriously, questions should be asked 🤷🏻‍♀️
You do right! I work within the community with some vulnerable people myself (in a legitimate job of course!) I encountered a woman very much like PTWM...I can’t say too much as I don’t want it to be identifiable, but she set up a support group with her at the lead, and it turns out she was unqualified, a compulsive liar and in it for her own gain...sounds familiar.
 
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I remember when she first ‘found fame’ with that ridiculous post about the woman with the curly hair - she irritated me then as I felt it was ott and intrusive to that poor woman. She is forever popping up as being on the scene of a crash, child being bullied etc etc and it’s just really annoying. I hate hate hate the way she refers to her children as tubes and the way she is so insensitive and indiscrete about those poor boys. I can’t begin to imagine how painful it must be for their mum.
 
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I find it all very worrying. To be honest I have brought up my concerns to her numerous times. I never got a reaction as I was lost in sea of comments. Then on one post, she said that she really hoped the eldest boy was Gay. To which I pointed out was a stupid thing to say. Gay men have difficult lives, it’s certainly not an easy ride for them as many would tell you themselves and to put on SM that you hoped someone turned out to be Gay for your entertainment was just simply beyond me. Especially when you are the responsible adult in that relationship. I explained this and she blocked me on that account. So that was that. Although I have 2 Instagram accounts and was following her on both anyway. I kept watching because frankly I was and am alarmed by her behaviour and the message she is giving some younger Mothers and children. I would like to challenge her again if I’m honest. But I’m not sure how to go about it. Obviously she & her Husband are not my kind of person and that is perfectly fine. The gossip side of this thread is understandable. But at the core, there is clearly some people as concerned as me by the set up she has. Albeit made even more worrying given her husbands job. I’ll figure something out. At the end of the day, if she lays off the asking for money & working with vulnerable people without regulation then it’s up to her how she lives her life, but seriously, questions should be asked 🤷🏻‍♀️

Her followers would tear you a new one. I don’t know much of the money side of things as I have no idea what’s legal and what’s not. No one will ever believe it really as she can do no wrong for her followers.
 
You do right! I work within the community with some vulnerable people myself (in a legitimate job of course!) I encountered a woman very much like PTWM...I can’t say too much as I don’t want it to be identifiable, but she set up a support group with her at the lead, and it turns out she was unqualified, a compulsive liar and in it for her own gain...sounds familiar.
Precisely. Very concerning. I’ve seen her share private details of suicide, abuse, she managed to insert herself in the Alex Skeel case, which was a very complicated story. Her reach is huge and she is completely unchecked as far as I can see. She has shared details of what he has seen in the job. It’s all very irregular and I have never seen it happen on such a large scale
 
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I remember when she first ‘found fame’ with that ridiculous post about the woman with the curly hair - she irritated me then as I felt it was ott and intrusive to that poor woman. She is forever popping up as being on the scene of a crash, child being bullied etc etc and it’s just really annoying. I hate hate hate the way she refers to her children as tubes and the way she is so insensitive and indiscrete about those poor boys. I can’t begin to imagine how painful it must be for their mum.
I sometimes wonder if she posts so much on line to try and rub the exes face in it. She insists on calling herself mum to the boys and oversharing info about them, along with Josh hardly ever wearing any clothing. The boys mum is bound to watch this? It’s such damaging behaviour

Precisely. Very concerning. I’ve seen her share private details of suicide, abuse, she managed to insert herself in the Alex Skeel case, which was a very complicated story. Her reach is huge and she is completely unchecked as far as I can see. She has shared details of what he has seen in the job. It’s all very irregular and I have never seen it happen on such a large scale
She was also invited, along with Betsy, onto This Morning to talk about bullying and I think the BBC had her on as an ‘expert’ in relation to something similar (can’t remember what though she did say at the time).

Betsy must’ve been about 12 at the time and actually came across quite well. It’s a reminder as to how much Betsy’s behaviour & attitude has deteriorated so badly over the past year or so, completely enabled by her mother.
 
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I sometimes wonder if she posts so much on line to try and rub the exes face in it. She insists on calling herself mum to the boys and oversharing info about them, along with Josh hardly ever wearing any clothing. The boys mum is bound to watch this? It’s such damaging behaviour
Surely even though he has full custody they are allowing supervised visits for the boys sake
 
Surely even though he has full custody they are allowing supervised visits for the boys sake
I’m sure I’ve seen it mentioned that there is no contact? Hope I’m wrong (though that does come with the disclaimer that I don’t know the reason why Josh has full custody)
 
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Surely even though he has full custody they are allowing supervised visits for the boys sake
I would like to make her aware of this thread to see if she answers the concerns that have been raised. Although she will probably say it’s trolling. Asking where people’s money is spent is not trolling and neither is asking for her credentials in the sense of the work she says she does. Some honesty is certainly needed
 
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I would like to make her aware of this thread to see if she answers the concerns that have been raised. Although she will probably say it’s trolling. Asking where people’s money is spent is not trolling and neither is asking for her credentials in the sense of the work she says she does. Some honesty is certainly needed
I’d say she’s already fully aware of this thread.
 
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Trying to take credit for the fact twopoofsandapudding won the wedding... can’t you just be happy for them without adding it to the list of fabulous things you’ve done...
They are as bad as she is! Had to unfollow as they are constantly tagging brands looking for “collaborations” ie wanting freebies in return for them tagging the photos of their kids wearing clothes by brand!
 
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I’d say she’s already fully aware of this thread.
Really and not a comment of her or him to address the content. Now that is even more strange. You would at least clear up some details surely,
 
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Really and not a comment of her or him to address the content. Now that is even more strange. You would at least clear up some details surely,
If she hasn’t come across it herself, one of her fan club will have notified her. I think she’d choose to ignore it and not mention it directly. If she did mention it, it will be from the slant of online trolling/bullying. Though I don’t think she’ll want to mention Tattle as she’ll not want to direct her fan club over here incase some of them wise up to her a bit.
 
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If she hasn’t come across it herself, one of her fan club will have notified her. I think she’d choose to ignore it and not mention it directly. If she did mention it, it will be from the slant of online trolling/bullying. Though I don’t think she’ll want to mention Tattle as she’ll not want to direct her fan club over here incase some of them wise up to her a bit.
You are probably right. My Husband just said ‘If she doesn’t have the things you’ve asked for, she isn’t going to sell herself down the road is she.’ Seems I may be looking for integrity that isn’t there
 
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I used to love PTWM, around the time I found tattle (think this thread had literally just been made) I realised I was rolling my eyes at all her posts and skipping all her stories because she’s just so unbearable... I unfollowed but still look occasionally and follow this thread and wow aren’t they totally weird????? I’ve commented a few times but the last few pages have really made me think it even more! Has she definitely said she quit her “real” job? Sounds like she’s writing another book? Good Lord what will that be about 😬 isn’t it an odd time to quit your job when you’re trying for a baby or are recently pregnant coupled with the fact that they are now having to pull together a deposit for a house? There’s loads of stuff being mentioned that has rung true for me such as all the posting screenshots of txts etc... I can’t imagine being at a point in my life and thinking I’m gonna screenshot a txt from my husband and post it on my Instagram, only my Instagram isn’t just followed by family and friends but also thousands of strangers! It’s just strange... another thing they really gets my goat is when she buys things off a “friend” and the “friend” refunds her and she has to screenshot it and post it every time as if to say look at me, I’m trying to help my friend by buying from them and they won’t let me! More like she bought from them because she wanted the item for free!!!
I think she got made redundant!
 
If she hasn’t come across it herself, one of her fan club will have notified her. I think she’d choose to ignore it and not mention it directly. If she did mention it, it will be from the slant of online trolling/bullying. Though I don’t think she’ll want to mention Tattle as she’ll not want to direct her fan club over here incase some of them wise up to her a bit.
I’m going to be honest I think even if it was right in front of them none of them will believe it. She seems to have a way of making people believe what she chooses.
 
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She’s definitely not skint! Shopping at M&S food, numerous pairs of Adidas trainers, having her teeth fixed, nails and eyelashes done, loads of pets, lots of new toys for Edie, designer clothing for her and hubby, a house that costs £1200 a month in rent, feeding numerous kids and friends always over. This certainly wouldn’t have been paid for on a Police constables wage!
 
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She’s definitely not skint! Shopping at M&S food, numerous pairs of Adidas trainers, having her teeth fixed, nails and eyelashes done, loads of pets, lots of new toys for Edie, designer clothing for her and hubby, a house that costs £1200 a month in rent, feeding numerous kids and friends always over. This certainly wouldn’t have been paid for on a Police constables wage!
Back in the earlier blogging days she used to put a ton of things on credit (or said she did anyway). She was forever going on about ordering things from Very so she could pay it off monthly. Trying up normalise debt and running up credit is very irresponsible in itself.

I’d say nowadays the majority of that stuff is gifted, including her braces, so she other than rent, vets bills and M&S food she doesn’t need to pay for much else!
 
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