DontQuoteMe
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I think they are both genuinely nice guys and that’s why the podcast is so popular. It’s okay to find either one annoying at times - we’re not all perfect all of the time, are we?
Sounds like she’s wanted to be some kind of influencer/ blogger but missed the boat, then wrote that one piece about breastfeeding or whatever it was, then someone’s chirped in her ear about her writing, then she found her topic-‘default parenting’, then someone’s probably gone ‘oh you should write a book’ and then she’s used Rob’s contacts to do so. I don’t need a celebrity/ influencer/ famous person’s wife to write me a book about parenting- and if I did I’d want Helen Skelton (why she’s not been on the pod is beyond me- unless I’ve missed that episode!). I’d rather have a nobody write it. How am I supposed to relate to and sympathise with someone whose kids have been abroad more times this year, than I have in the past 10 years?!I’m mortified for Lou, the amount she’s having to get Rob to push her book.
Yes! The smugness shines from them sometimes. I don’t doubt that she’s the one who books clubs, does pack ups and all the other crap that determines whether you’re the default parent or not, but it’s not quite the same as someone who works a 40hr+ week, has a partner who does the same, but the partner does nothing with the kid’s admin. My husband is ‘quite good’ but I’m still the default- but I don’t wang on about it all the time. I’ve got friends who work more than their husbands, their husbands are off on work and golf trips every week, the mums have to literally do everything!Exactly! She’s bastardised the term. It only works when you’ve got a job, too. Or if when the dad is home he does fuck all. Like mum A and dad B both work 9-5 but somehow it falls to A to organise their child’s birthday party, book in their eye appointments and manage everyone’s dentist visits including B’s. That’s where the term default parent has come in, when it defaults to (usually) the mum, despite her having the same outside commitments as the dad but ending up doing all the parenting and cooking and cleaning.
In Rob and Lou’s case, she’s a stay at home mum with a multi-millionaire husband, who also very much pulls his weight when he’s there, and waves her off happily to go on girls trips and whatever she wants while he looks after the kids. Then they have paid help and family help on top. It’s not what being the default parent means, they’ve taken it way out of context.
Is anyone else suspecting that using a buzzy insta-word is just a ruse for Lou to talk about what fabulous things they all do and how great she is at booking holidays? There’s a smugness about her and it’s rubbing off on Rob, too. They don’t seem to understand that everyone else would feel like they were doing a great job at parenting, too, if they had endless pots of money and the time and space to do it in.
How long before Lou’s on Strictly?Oh wow, well done Josh! I wonder if he will keep going with Last Leg? Do you think he'll keep going with the podcast? Because he might need to be careful about things he says cus of "squeaky clean" Strictly image. I bet Rob will be secretly jealous.