Our Tiny Tribe

[planetzanussi]

I personally don’t see anything wrong with the very small snippets of David on her Instagram… I truly think if he cared he would ask her not to. I’m not saying she isn’t doing it on purpose, I actually think it’s intentionally to let her audience know that they’re doing their best to co parent and it’s all amicable for the kids. Her kids will have to watch her content one day so it’s not like she can open up in a video about what’s going on.

 

[Supern0va]

Long time lurker here, I’m unsure how to word this because I know Ebony isn’t entitled to announce her break up with David to her followers, but I just find it so bizarre how she’s gone about the situation she’s in.
Out of no where she’s started casually talking about the kids being at David’s with no explanation as to why David and her aren’t living together anymore. No wonder people are asking questions.
It’s like she just expects her followers to know they’ve split even though she hasn’t actually told them?

((edited to add unless I’ve missed something and she actually has announced it, if that’s the case ignore me))

She can claim it's because she wants to keep some things private / for the kids but then happily falls into the family vlogger trap of showing them when they're crying / having a tantrum or walking around in their nappy which they might not want online when they're older

 

[Bol85]

I wonder if she was trying to compete with David's relationship, matching the speedy introduction to seem like she'd also found someone very serious too?

Yeh. I always thought this as well. David played instant happy family and so she did too. I cant imagine it’s easy being the one who was quickly with someone else & engaged in about 10 minutes. I guarantee he’ll have more kids.

 

[Bol85]

I’d enjoy it more if all her friends weren’t also influencers trying to sell me a £400,000 car. Or a very expensive trip to Dubai. Or Lapland. But honestly, maybe it’s just me. She’s turned fully into an beige influencer like bff Jess & it’s just not vibe.

I do feel sorry for her though, to me, she seems really sad underneath all the OTT posts about her new bestie. And I’m sure she is, breaking up with the father of your kids is rough. She now has to share them every single week for the rest of their childhood. It would break my heart!

 

[anonauntie]

I really like ebony, she isn’t like other influencers. But, you can see she’s so lost. She tried finding a hobby I.e working out and I truly just don’t think that’s her. The whole brand is based around her being this gym person. I know she felt lost hence her break from David and she needed something to do, but I feel as a person she does get bored easily she has mentioned previously she moved a lot and now she’s talking about moving in a few years. She starts DIY and she’s pretty good at it, but then changes her mind I.e the kitchen island. She’s a lovely woman, and has potential but the whole gym/active wear that’s not her.

 

[Sazza25]

Ah I felt sorry for her but now I’ve just seen her self indulgent tik tok of her crying over how hard it is to be a single mum and now she’s irritated me. She’s not a single mum. The kids still have involvement and support from their father. It grinds my gears when people call themselves a single mum as there’s a difference between being SOLELY responsible for your children and co-parenting which is what she is doing. Yes co- parenting is difficult but it is no way the same as being a SOLE parent.

Yeah I get that, it was probably badly worded. I do feel for her though, she’s probably still hurting

 

[rainymorningreading]

Came here to say the same! I’m really enjoying it and I’ve never been a huge fan. They have a great dynamic. It reminds me of chatting nonsense with my own friends.

Exactly this! I feel like I’m out for drinks with them I also find Lucy’s sarcasm very, very funny.

 

[Cemma25]

Somethings definitely happened

 

[Westeryonder21]

I watch her insta stories and think I only remember seeing her promote the podcast once maybe.

She should promote it more as she comes across well, maybe post clips online to get some views and more traffic.

She is a better person than me as I would be SO petty to David and tell his new gf not to use my kids for any content. Ebony has thrived without him.

 

[Parmavi2]

I’m so lost here, she has posted today they can’t move into their new place for a few days and they will be staying with friends. Surely David could just have the kids to save them going round different houses? Does he even see them anymore? I feel so bad for Ebony, really does seem like she’s had one thing after the other for last few months

 

[ellyjelly2]

I feel for her too tbh. I cannot stand that woman David is with.

 

[wellwellwellitsanotherad]

I feel a bit sad that the video of Hudson blowing his candles out for his birthday has David and his girlfriend next to him as though they’re his parents. It’s great that all 3 of them are co-parenting and at his party but I don’t know I can’t explain why it just made me feel a bit sad for Ebony!

having seen sooooo many cases of parental fallouts at work i look at it from a slightly different angle, plus having step-parents myself from a young age, its likely the child is very happy having all the love from many adults and his stepmum is another person that cares for his happiness that said, mothers like Ebony are so lovely putting the children first, many aren't as nice and gracious as she is towards the partners of fathers (and of course fathers when mothers get new partners, it works both ways). if she is posting it, it speaks volumes about her being the type of parent that puts the children first, you would be surprised by the amount that do not. they are very lucky children.

 

[bubbles?99]

When I posted I hadn’t watched the whole video yet but at the end she actually said at the end of the video that she has got a new job offer which she accepted so hopefully that’ll help her with whatever she wants to do

 

[anonauntie]

Tbf on her she isn’t one to spend on designer, or waste money on crap. So any money she has earned I’d assume she’s been smart with, she has owned two properties now (I’m sure the last one they bought I could be wrong) the holidays it’s not like she’s been on loads over the years the recent it was paid for and I’d think the Dubai one is work related too. She does a lot of ads, I don’t think youtube earns her a lot not anymore most of her income is Instagram.

 

[Westeryonder21]

What’s the name of her podcast? Have googled and searched my apps but can’t find it. Thanks!

"Girlthingpod"

Funnily enough considering the discussion here today she has posted a clip and a link to it via her insta stories

 

[Aynonmus1234]

David is posting a lot more of himself on ig and seems more open and way less anxious/more confident. I remember one time after they had broken up she mentioned david was going to collect his sofa from her house and she had washed everything for him they clearly still care for eachother

 

[Bol85]

To be fair to Ebony, she’s the one paying the bills. David did a course & then not long after they moved mentioned he was volunteering and getting experience. He might be earning now but he wasn’t for quite a while. That house they’ve bought in Wokingham is blooming expensive.. she must have felt the pressure to keep up with everything. She’s constantly updating it as well.

I’ll be curious to see what happens. In this scenario, when do you decide it’s time to move back in?!

 

[anon0503]

I'm catching up on the podcast from ep 1 and I'm loving it!! Did anyone work out who the couple was at the fashion show? I looked back on her socials and couldn't find it so assumed she deleted can't wait to listen to more.

 

[4l1xxo]

It’s been mentioned here previously but I agree that she just seems so…. lost?! She needs a purpose and I don’t think being an influencer is the right thing for her right now. It’s like at the moment she is focussing on her fitness (which is fine), but she needs something more meaningful and less superficial. She should keep it on the side but with the focus less on the kids (I personally really don’t agree with posting kids online). I also agree that she needs another job, even part time working in an office or in retail/hospitality. She honestly seems like a sweet girl but I’m starting to get a bit frustrated by her. I’ve watched her since she was really young posting YouTube vids and she just isn’t relatable anymore.

 

[Motherofpugs]

Actually clicked on her aff link for the purple H&M jumper as I really liked it, only to find that her Insta story is so heavily filtered that the jumper actually looks nothing like it in real life it’s an awful bright Cadbury purple colour instead. FFS someone report her to ASA for false advertising