One Direction #7 Spaces between them

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The past year whenever I have seen videos of Liam I found it so bizarre because he was nothing like I remembered him. Whenever I see videos and pictures of the other boys although they’re older they still have the same mannerisms and personality etc and it was obvious this was because he was high/intoxicated.

I think since Liam was hospitalised last year he’s been on a greater downhill spiral and I just can’t believe how it has ended, it is beyond tragic. To think everyone regarded him as the sensible one who didn’t drink and this is how his life has ended? He had so so much to live for and I just wish he could’ve overcome his demons :(

I have seen the full pictures of him and in my opinion I had a much worse image in my head… the pictures are very sad but it was almost a relief to see them and not wonder what had become of him. He looked peaceful but also looked nothing like the Liam we all remember.

I feel sick to know that the whole world is able to see photos of him at his most vulnerable point and we watched it all play out unable to help. The video of his dad on the balcony with Paul is absolutely heartbreaking and I really hope that his funeral is invite only, small, private and unpublicised and that he is cremated and his parents have his ashes at home. He deserves some peace away from the public eye finally.
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Also to add I saw an interview clip from a couple years ago where he was asked what he wanted to be remembered for, and ultimately he said he wanted to be remembered for being kind. And that is how I will remember him, even in the months and days leading up to his death when he was clearly struggling so much he was nothing but friendly to fans and he was adored by his friends and family.

Any issues people had with Liam were as a result of his addiction/mental health and I truly believe he would never have caused any harm or upset to people sober/well. The photos from the hotel room of the drugs and the claims of him having 2 escorts with him that day I don’t read as seedy or as a disgusting man as I usually would. I see it as self destructive behaviour and that he didn’t want to be alone. There have been so many stories of what he said and did in the lead up to his death and I don’t know what to believe. Sorry for the longgg posts I just have so many thoughts in my head and no one to speak to about them that would understand from a 1D fan perspective
 
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The past year whenever I have seen videos of Liam I found it so bizarre because he was nothing like I remembered him. Whenever I see videos and pictures of the other boys although they’re older they still have the same mannerisms and personality etc and it was obvious this was because he was high/intoxicated.

I think since Liam was hospitalised last year he’s been on a greater downhill spiral and I just can’t believe how it has ended, it is beyond tragic. To think everyone regarded him as the sensible one who didn’t drink and this is how his life has ended? He had so so much to live for and I just wish he could’ve overcome his demons :(

I have seen the full pictures of him and in my opinion I had a much worse image in my head… the pictures are very sad but it was almost a relief to see them and not wonder what had become of him. He looked peaceful but also looked nothing like the Liam we all remember.

I feel sick to know that the whole world is able to see photos of him at his most vulnerable point and we watched it all play out unable to help. The video of his dad on the balcony with Paul is absolutely heartbreaking and I really hope that his funeral is invite only, small, private and unpublicised and that he is cremated and his parents have his ashes at home. He deserves some peace away from the public eye finally.
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Also to add I saw an interview clip from a couple years ago where he was asked what he wanted to be remembered for, and ultimately he said he wanted to be remembered for being kind. And that is how I will remember him, even in the months and days leading up to his death when he was clearly struggling so much he was nothing but friendly to fans and he was adored by his friends and family.

Any issues people had with Liam were as a result of his addiction/mental health and I truly believe he would never have caused any harm or upset to people sober/well. The photos from the hotel room of the drugs and the claims of him having 2 escorts with him that day I don’t read as seedy or as a disgusting man as I usually would. I see it as self destructive behaviour and that he didn’t want to be alone. There have been so many stories of what he said and did in the lead up to his death and I don’t know what to believe. Sorry for the longgg posts I just have so many thoughts in my head and no one to speak to about them that would understand from a 1D fan perspective
This is just perfect. I honestly feel like you've taken the words I couldn't word...
I want every directioner to see this
 
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I see Louis’s family flew back to the uk. I hope he still has people around him, I can’t imagine how difficult this must be for him.
 
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Liam's sister's post confirms that she (and probably the whole family) found out via social media about his death. How bloody awful is that :(
So tragic, what an awful way to find out, how were they not told sooner before it made the headlines
 
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Niall's Instagram comments right now. People are blaming him for liams death
People in the comments of Niall, Harry, Kate and Maya instagrams are saying the most vile and horrible things blaming them for Liams death. People should be ashamed of themselves for leaving those comments!
 
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I still can’t get my head around the ‘death’ section on Liam’s Wikipedia. And blaming poor Niall 😡. People are horrible. He’s the one this has probably hit the hardest.
 
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So tragic, what an awful way to find out, how were they not told sooner before it made the headlines
Because it was main news on Sky within an hour and a half of him dying. That’s no time at all in the chaos of something happening. It would normally take a few hours for cops to contact the British Embassy etc to get next of kin details.
 
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Because it was main news on Sky within an hour and a half of him dying. That’s no time at all in the chaos of something happening. It would normally take a few hours for cops to contact the British Embassy etc to get next of kin details.
There was only 87 minutes between him being pronounced dead and TMZ posting those images, that’s no time at all 🙁
 
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There was only 87 minutes between him being pronounced dead and TMZ posting those images, that’s no time at all 🙁
And the person tweeting almost as soon as it happened that he jumped from a balcony (before TMZ announced it). I know his sisters didn't find out from that tweet but it seems very insensitive to post considering his family wouldn't be aware. People forget that he was a real person who had a real family. They just think about likes and retweets
 
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I don’t want to push away the Liam topic, but had a thought and talks recently with friends:
I’m a massive Harry fan since day one and especially since he left the bad.
I’ve never heard anyone say a bad word about him and many friends have met him and said he’s lovely in person… however,
He’s friends with James corden, lizzo etc people who most don’t like… I wonder if we only see one side to Harry and he’s more like them than we believe
 
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I don’t want to push away the Liam topic, but had a thought and talks recently with friends:
I’m a massive Harry fan since day one and especially since he left the bad.
I’ve never heard anyone say a bad word about him and many friends have met him and said he’s lovely in person… however,
He’s friends with James corden, lizzo etc people who most don’t like… I wonder if we only see one side to Harry and he’s more like them than we believe
One of my friends lives in London and has run in to him a few times in the corner shop under his flat. Every time he has been very clearly off his face and looking rough as tit. I definitely think there is more to him that the polished image we are sold!
 
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One of my friends lives in London and has run in to him a few times in the corner shop under his flat. Every time he has been very clearly off his face and looking rough as tit. I definitely think there is more to him that the polished image we are sold!
I have seen so much hate aimed towards Louis and Liam in particular the past few years and I think this is why it has always rubbed me up the wrong way.
Harry has an amazing team behind him ( and the charm) to deflect any bad press. None of them are innocent little teenagers anymore but the others fan bases defend them like they can do no wrong whilst spewing the most disgusting tit against the others. Pisses me off - I like Harry but if you look at the way he has treated ex girlfriends and his drug use etc he is no better! his fans will say the most disgusting rit about Louis his mum etc and recently Liam has had the same treatment, whilst defending him like he is some Angel sent from the heavens. I just hope this is a wake up call to some “ fans”. Not just Harry’s but all of them.
Like I said in a previous post, Harry was dancing and jumping around at nialls concert not too long before Liam and he received nothing but love! Hypocrites!!
 
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I have seen so much hate aimed towards Louis and Liam in particular the past few years and I think this is why it has always rubbed me up the wrong way.
Harry has an amazing team behind him ( and the charm) to deflect any bad press. None of them are innocent little teenagers anymore but the others fan bases defend them like they can do no wrong whilst spewing the most disgusting tit against the others. Pisses me off - I like Harry but if you look at the way he has treated ex girlfriends and his drug use etc he is no better! his fans will say the most disgusting rit about Louis his mum etc and recently Liam has had the same treatment, whilst defending him like he is some Angel sent from the heavens. I just hope this is a wake up call to some “ fans”. Not just Harry’s but all of them.
Like I said in a previous post, Harry was dancing and jumping around at nialls concert not too long before Liam and he received nothing but love! Hypocrites!!
Omg I didn’t know it was this bad and that some fans were saying things about Louis mum? That’s utterly vile in what world would that even be something to be brought up? Are these Harry’s fans saying this that’s actually made me feel disgusted! I have to agree with what you said about the dancing also recently if harry is seen dancing it’s cute and funny but Liam is called an attention seeker and cringe
 
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Been on holiday for most of the past 3 weeks, was absolutely stunned to hear about Liam - I got the news very early in the morning where I was so it took a good 7-8 hours later until it started breaking in the UK, and I couldn't talk to anyone about it in real life! As a big 1D fan I knew he had been troubled in the past few years and always fell on the side of feeling pity for him rather than disgust or anything, and I never thought anything like this would happen. The very least I hoped for was that it wasn't suicide, but it seems with the amount of drugs he was on, it's possible that would have killed him eventually. 1D gave me so much happiness and seeing their renaissance on social media this week has been a little silver lining. RIP Liam.
 
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Don’t know if anyone else feels this way but because the 1D boys started out SO young and the work rate and number of albums and tours, it felt like they were much older than they were when they split up? I remember being like 14/15 thinking they were so grown up at 22/23 but that’s really no age at all!
 
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Don’t know if anyone else feels this way but because the 1D boys started out SO young and the work rate and number of albums and tours, it felt like they were much older than they were when they split up? I remember being like 14/15 thinking they were so grown up at 22/23 but that’s really no age at all!
that could be an age thing. I’m 31 so I was their age when they broke up and they seemed like they’d accomplished a lot at a young age. Because my a was just about managing 9am lectures and they had been touring the world non stop for years 😂
 
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