She posted someone else's poem. She hasn't bothered with her own words for Ember. She's tasked her with 'healing their grief' and being 'a gift to Raven'. That poor girl is on her way to therapy at barely a month old.It’s just mad to me that Raven gets a grid post and yet another gushing essay - and ember hasn’t had a single one since she was born?
‘I miss her, I miss us’ she is literally inches away from you 24 hours of the day, how can you miss her? You haven’t been torn apart by something terrible you’ve had another beautiful baby - celebrate her, don’t resent her because she’s keeping you away from Raven.
I think there are some detachment issues, she really could do with some help. Those words are clearly out in Ravens mouth too.That grid post about Raven. Talking about Ember being a gift to her. SHES A FUCKING PERSON OF HER OWN! She's not a gift to Raven!! Wtf. I can't even find words right now for how angry that all made me. She misses Raven? WHEN?! I've been further away from my own nipples than Raven is from Nicola's. She's literally fucking mental. Someone needs to step in and sort this crap, she's lost it.
She talks about Ember like she found her on the floor! Not like she gave birth to her. 'The/a baby'. What is wrong with this woman?!
Is there a mattress in the living room on a story? I thought I saw that? Does someone sleep there?
I actually feel so sorry Dean right now, honking hat and all. It must be so tough for him, he must be pretty lonely. Poor bloke probably wants to come off furlough and back to work ASAP just to get out of the house!Imagine if I was Deanhis cry for help creating an account on here. I can confirm that I’m not Dean, sadly! Haha.
I mean, it’s nothing you guys haven’t already said. Pea not listening to Dean’s wishes, very different styles and opinions on parenting, pea not letting anyone help etc etc. R being extremely demanding. Tensions are running high. Which I guess could be normal for a house with a newborn and a 3 year old - but it wasn’t like that in my house when I had my second!
My siblings and I were (and still are) our mother's emotional crutch and I can honestly say its given us all issues as adults, I've been to therapy and I don't have a relationship with her anymore.i know ravens a bit of
an annoying nob sometimes (if it’s nasty to call a 3 year old that then i’ll
take that title of nasty) however,
first thahs not her own making she’s a product
of her environment and she’s like this cos of how she’s parented by nicola. second, whilst also being concerned about ember, this whole relationship between nicola
and raven concerns me/ she’s a child and a very young
child at that, being the emotional crutch for a parent has the potential to cause untold
emotional damage to her!
it’s not ravens responsibly to
make
nicola feel “whole” or whatever bullshit she’s been spouting today. putting that much responsibility on a child (i’m sure she doesn’t say it to her but
the feeling will be there) is horrendous
Most people that follow her will be of the same nutty ilk. Unfortunately a lot of people trying to gain attention through an ‘alternative’ parenting styleThe comments on it make me sick. Not one person has an issue with any of it, someone even went as far as to say that they are both doing so well, her and Raven. EMBER IS A BABY, not a rabid dog. Jesus, it's like she's a danger to them and their relationship and they're being praised for 'handling' her.
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