Yes people can stay in a relationship and be unsure about it. But she was unsure early on at the relationship and later on, so deep down she knew it. Plus she has spoke about it with her family and friends as she obviously couldn’t decide for herself. And still went ahead with the marriage.
She may deny but she wanted the marriage and the happy family, even though she knew it wasn’t right.
The way she talks it seems like she was so obsessed with idea of being a mom that she probably forgot that a kid needs a stable marriage.
Justin may be a
wick but I would hate to have my ex telling everyone even in a polite way that the relationship didn’t work cause it was all my fault…and that our relationship was toxic and that I made a commitment to her and she expected me to change to suit her needs ( when maybe he never promised to change, she just assumed he would).
She may not say but she imply that it was all his fault and she is miss perfect.
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I feel her constant not talking talking about her marriage is going to prompt Justin to respond in a big way with ‘his side’.
while he does seem like a fool, no one is perfect, I’m sure he has some dirt on her too.
The fact that she expected someone that she was with for nearly 5 years to change for her is a bit too much. Plus we don’t know if she actually communicated her needs to him. I think most guys are clueless and unless you tell them you are miserable they won’t know. They will assume that everything is fine. Going ahead with the wedding to me was a sign that everything was fine.
